I lied to my boyfriend about getting raped and being pregnant and he wants me to help raise the baby!!!!
Q. Okay, I'm 14. My boyfriend (who's 13) and I are really close, so we tell each other everything. One day, I saw him talking to his friend, who I SWEAR was hitting on him (she was touching him and everything)!! So I (obviously) got upset... I didn't ...
A. 24 December 2010: Obviously your relationship isnt as great asyoure saying if you cant even tell your boyfriend tht you were upset about the other girl flirting with him. If he was a decent guy he would've just apologised to you and not done it again (and he sounds ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed after rough intercourse?
Q. A few days ago i had what you could call "rough" sex. As in penetration was hard and fast. After i noticed quite a lot of blood on the bed sheets and it shocked me because i didn't realise how rough we must have been. I have never bled before that...
A. 24 December 2010: He might have accidentily cut you or something which caused you to bleed. If it's stopped now then it should be alright.. although im no doctor, if it starts to bleed heavily again and it isnt your period i suggest you go get it checked out JUST ... (read in full...)
Is this a superficial relationship or are we just normal teenagers?
Q. Is our relationship just a physical one, or do we just find each other really atractive? We have been dateing for 9 months now and around month 2 we did everything but sex, and started having sex at 6 months. Were both in high school and when we ...
A. 14 December 2010: When she's healed from her op, it'll be great for both of you :)... (read in full...)
Is this a superficial relationship or are we just normal teenagers?
Q. Is our relationship just a physical one, or do we just find each other really atractive? We have been dateing for 9 months now and around month 2 we did everything but sex, and started having sex at 6 months. Were both in high school and when we ...
A. 13 December 2010: A the sex you have will slowdown once your both comfortable wth the relationship and each other.
Me and my boyfriend were like tht.. See each other about 3 times a week and have sex each time. So much so, I was waiting for it by the time his door... (read in full...)
Interracial 3some
Q. I have been married for 8 years. We have hit the point where I think some spice in the sex department would be nice. My wife is pretty conservative when it comes to sex, but I also know she can really get into it sometimes. I also know, it is a ...
A. 6 December 2010: i agree with Honeypie. If my man asked me for a threesome i'd be upset and pissed off, thinking "why am i not good enough"
in my eyes, a thresome is just as good as cheating. Just cause your partner knows about it doesnt change it for me. Luckily,... (read in full...)
What is a relationship meant to be like?
Q. What is a relationship meant to be like? I am in my first one (I am 24) and have been with him for three years. He is 40. I only have films as reference, but I always assumed that a relationship will have lots of intimacy, fun, laughter and ...
A. 6 December 2010: im surprised he didnt break up with you as you pressured him into having sex when he obviously doesnt want to.
Whenever you get women on here saying "my boyfriend threatened to break up with me if i dont have sex with him" the majority of resp... (read in full...)
My girlfriend told me she wants me to take her virginity! I'm scared to hurt her!!!
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for just about 7 months. A couple of days ago she said that she wanted to have sex and i told to give me a day or two because its a big responsibilty if we do it. The problem is that she's a virgin and anemic. ...
A. 29 November 2010: I just read this and it's so nice to hear such loving comments from you.. You sound like such a great guy! Yay
haha
good luck with talking to her. I'm sure everything will go great :)... (read in full...)
My ex has asked me to be his girlfriend again but I don't want to because of his family!
Q. This is probably going to be long so sorry :) Well I was friends with my ex before we started dating. He used to skate alot, so I'd hang with his friends and see him skate and just generally hang out. We'd chat on cam on msn and he'd tell me about...
A. 29 November 2010: You don't want to get back together with him because of his family?? not because he cheated on you?? Odd...... (read in full...)
I'm not ready for most things but I'm afraid he'll leave me
Q. hello i have a boyfriend and weve been going out for 3 weeks. weve already hugged and kissed goodbye. but he txts me saying we should hold hands and make out and have oral sex. im not ready, when im with him i feel akward even thoough i love him.i ...
A. 28 November 2010: How can you love him after 3 weeks?
I suggest you just dump him as he's obviously just after sex.. Especially if he's not willing to wait for you to be ready..
:)... (read in full...)
Should I ask him why he takes so long to reply me?
Q. My bf used to send me more than 1 or 2 messages a day, and usually he is the one who says "hi" first when I'm online and reply me very quick. But these days, he only sent me 1 message a day and I became the one who says "hi" first ( I know this ...
A. 28 November 2010: I had the same thing with my boyfriend. I spoke to him about it.. Not confrontational or anything, but because we talk about eveything thts on our minds.. Good or bad.
Turns out he jst gets distracted doing other stuff. Still pangs a bit when he t... (read in full...)
I cheated and lost my virginity and don't feel guilty or don't feel I need to tell my boyfriend
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for two years and two months. The most we've ever gone is oral. This summer, I met this guy, who's 21 and he's five years older than me. Ever since we've been talking nonstop, basically I've been cheating on my ...
A. 27 November 2010: Well then he deserves someone way better then you.
I suggest you break up with him.... (read in full...)
I'm freaking out about what to get him for Christmas! I really want him to like it....
Q. Me and my boyfriend, I'm 15 and he's 16, have been going out only for a month, but it will be our 2 month in a few days. And our 3 month is going to be a few days after Christmas. We're already talking about what gifts to get each other. He's just ...
A. 25 November 2010: the other persons idea seems a bit much when you've only been going out for 3 MONTHS [after christmas] not YEARS.
just getting him the bracelet will be fine :)
But I like the scroll idea too, so you could put a little message with it that he could... (read in full...)
Am I involved in some kind of affair?
Q. I think I may be involved in an online affair. He is 40, I am 18. We have been talking for over a year now on the internet. Our conversations were strictly about things other than sex in the beginning, but now they are mainly about sex. When we ...
A. 17 November 2010: Yes, beause he's not single anymore.... (read in full...)
Who should I choose...my bf or this other guy?
Q. Ok, I have sort of a problem. I've been dating this guy, we'll call him John, for almost a year. I love him so much and for the most part we seem to mesh well the only problem is is that its sort of a long distance relationship. He lives about 2 ...
A. 16 November 2010: Thn maybe you should keep him as a friend..
If you and your boyfriend split up later then you can have your fun with him then. ... (read in full...)
Why bring another girl to MY party when you're supposed to be there for me?
Q. Why has my boyfriend invited this girl to MY party if he never takes me to any of the parties he goes to? My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 4 years and during this period he’s taken me to one party, and one wedding. Nowadays (As he ...
A. 16 November 2010: I think he's trying to get you to break up with him, so that he doesn't have to do it.... (read in full...)
My wife has gone back to her home country and I have met someone else! What should I do?
Q. i just recently got married, my wife is from england. she had to go back to england soon after we married, i am currently in the process of getting my visa, durring this time i have fallen head over heels with this incredible girl. should i just ...
A. 16 November 2010: Just think about the reasons you married your wife... (read in full...)
Who should I choose...my bf or this other guy?
Q. Ok, I have sort of a problem. I've been dating this guy, we'll call him John, for almost a year. I love him so much and for the most part we seem to mesh well the only problem is is that its sort of a long distance relationship. He lives about 2 ...
A. 16 November 2010: Listen to what you're saying.
You want to break it off with your boyfriend of nearly a yr, so you can go and mess around with this womanizer bloke, who probably won't call after he's had his way with you. Then, feeling rejected, you'll go back... (read in full...)
He'd rather play video games or hang out with his friends instead of having sex!
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for the past two years...in two weeks it will be two years. I love him very much and I know that he loves me but I don't know anymore if it is in his heart to commit to me. Before, we used to have sex all the time...all ...
A. 11 November 2010: Have you spoken to him about this? Because before you make any decisions about what to do speak to him about it first.
There are loads of reasons for a guy to lose his libido, the main one is stress though..... (read in full...)
Best time to have sex without a condom so she doesn't get pregnant?
Q. What is the best time I can have sexual intercourse without using condom with my g.f without her being pregnant?? I need answers from experienced people.....
A. 10 November 2010: Answer = never unless she's on the pill or on some other form of birth control like the implant. And only if you know you're both free from any kind of STD... (read in full...)
All I got from him was a "Happy Birthday!" on MSN!
Q. I understand its not a big deal and that I may sound spoiled. But my BF got me NOTHING for my bf, nothing nothing... Around 6 of my friends, called/texted at 12:00 exactly and seemed happy for me. He did not even call, he said Happy Birthday on ...
A. 10 November 2010: Or he may have planned something great for you :)... (read in full...)
She doesn't even care...
Q. Uhm Hi. I'm only 16 years old, going on 17 and my girlfriend is the same age as me, though 8 months younger. I've been with my girlfriend for a bit over 17 months. Things were really good when we started going out: she was really nice to me, she ...
A. 10 November 2010: Well she's gonna try and make you feel crap, cause then you won't leave her will you 'cause you feel guilty.
When she does that youll just have to explain to her that you've tried to talk to her about being a bitch to you and she hasn't stop... (read in full...)
She doesn't even care...
Q. Uhm Hi. I'm only 16 years old, going on 17 and my girlfriend is the same age as me, though 8 months younger. I've been with my girlfriend for a bit over 17 months. Things were really good when we started going out: she was really nice to me, she ...
A. 10 November 2010: Have you had a converstion like this with her before?... (read in full...)
She doesn't even care...
Q. Uhm Hi. I'm only 16 years old, going on 17 and my girlfriend is the same age as me, though 8 months younger. I've been with my girlfriend for a bit over 17 months. Things were really good when we started going out: she was really nice to me, she ...
A. 9 November 2010: Even hedghogs need love Vaeys :)
it's gonna take a lot of time for you to get over this girl as she obiously means so much to you
I suggest you have this converstion with her, if she reacts negatively then dump her. You said before if you dump her... (read in full...)
She doesn't even care...
Q. Uhm Hi. I'm only 16 years old, going on 17 and my girlfriend is the same age as me, though 8 months younger. I've been with my girlfriend for a bit over 17 months. Things were really good when we started going out: she was really nice to me, she ...
A. 8 November 2010: i think the only way you're going to get through to her is if you do have a serious conversation about whats going on, and what the anonymous reader said below, dump her if she cant be bothered.
I'm 18, and i know what it;s like to be so madly in... (read in full...)
If he don't please me, should I have to please him?
Q. my boyfriend admitted that he only cares about his sexual plessure and that he isnt worried about me getting mine. witch explains why all this trying to convience him that i want more forplay isnt working. i tried to explain to him that the type of ...
A. 8 November 2010: i agree with Odds.
He's admitted he doesn't care about your needs. If he loved you he'd spend the time getting you off and enjoy it aswell. He'd want to do spontaneous things to get you in the mood or just to make your day a little bit brighter... (read in full...)
Does she have a crush on me, or is she just ridiculously shy of me?
Q. A girl at my work has been there for almost 3 years. I've been there around 5, so I've known of her since she started. I think she is really beautiful and seems nice. Apart from a few rare exceptions, we've barely spoken to one another due to our ...
A. 8 November 2010: hey :)
It may be a bit of both for her, or she may be confused about you.
She says she only gets a hi off of you, so maybe she wants more but is shy?
Maybe you should start more conversations over facebook so she'll feel more comfortable aro... (read in full...)
Does he want to have a child with me now?
Q. im 16, my boyfriend is 18, we have been together for 4 months, but we have known eachother for almost a year. when school ends in june, he will be leaving for college and enlisting in the navy. yet, we want to keep our relationship together. he says ...
A. 10 October 2009: No :( don't get yourself pregnant just to please him! Like what Rythum said, he is just being controlling. Please don't get pregant to try and keep your love. If you both love each other as much as you claim, then you won't need a child to ke... (read in full...)
Can my girlfriend get pregnant if I didn't release sperm during sex?
Q. Can my girlfriend be pregnant if i didnt release sperm during sex, and can i tell if she is if it happen in june. ...
A. 10 October 2009: Yes, she can be pregnant.... (read in full...)
How can I prevent an erection in my boyfriend?
Q. How can I prevent erection in my boyfriend? well I do not wanna sex with him right now..but we just ouch eachother on the clothes..evrytime I touch it.his penis is getting harder and he physically hurt.. so what should I di to prevent this erection...
A. 10 October 2009: then don't touch him in the first place
Sorry but tht's just the plain answer...... (read in full...)
Is she toying with me for her amusement?
Q. help im really confused! This girl at my high school keeps writing me notes about how she is a virgin. this started happening about three weeks ago and its starting to get worse. Then in the halls i ran into her and she was like what the hell are ...
A. 10 October 2009: It sounds like she is just messing with you. Just try and ignore her... It might not even be her writng them; it could be someone else as a joke. I know it's hard when people take the mick out of you all the time, but keep your chin up, love! X... (read in full...)
Does this mean I'm not a virgin anymore?
Q. me and and mah boyfriend were at his crib....nd we thought we were ready so he put it in just a little nd it hurt so i told him no nd he took it out.....so am i still a virgin or not?? ...
A. 10 October 2009: Well, I hope he had a condom on when he "put it in", and that you're on some form of birth control. You need to make sure that you're properly aroused before you try penetration; use more foreplay. Hope this helps, and please make sure you wea... (read in full...)
Thinking about an ex now going out with my best mate
Q. hey ill get straight to it, i keep thinking about my 1st girlfriend. i went out with her for 3 months and i broke up with her about 3 months ago and im on to my third girlfriend now. ive been going out with my new one for about a month and its be...
A. 7 October 2009: sorry if this sounds harsh love, butmaybe you should just forget them both.
If your old best mate chose a girl over you [therefore changing to old best mate] then was he really a good mate in the first place?
Was he still your best mate when th... (read in full...)
We made a promise to tell each other if anything happened, but I don't want to say anything!
Q. ...so i dated this guy for year and we have this plan that we're going to be together again [we broke up because i moved]. we said that while we're not together we're gonna have fun and all we're both in college and so we're going to have fun...
A. 11 July 2009: i think you should tell him. I know it wont be easy to, but you made a promise together and you should keep tht promise.
Good luck :)
Xx... (read in full...)
I want to avoid the bleeding next time!
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for several months now. He is my first boyfriend and i am his. So we've never really done anything outside of what we've done together. A couple of days ago he fingered me and it still hurts, i use tampons so i ...
A. 23 June 2009: He may have cut you accidentily with his fingernails if he did it too hard. Because you're both new to this, next time suggest he doesn't do it quite so rough (unless you want him too ;)) and/or get him to cut his fingernails so they're not quite as ... (read in full...)
Does wearing specs mean I'm a geek?
Q. Whats your view as society on people who wear spectacles.? Recently i moved in to a new college and i am taking science and math classes. people call me a geek. Should i stop wearing them???...
A. 5 March 2009: Just get some cooool ones ;)
hehe
No, you;re not a geek
Just very smart for studying scie3nce and maths
I'm jealous as i am rubbish at them both xD
Good luck :)
x... (read in full...)
My b/f of 3 years is losing his sex drive and I'm not getting my needs met! What can I do?
Q. ok so i have a horrible problem. my bf of almost 3 years is loosing his sex drive and im not getting my needs met . when he is in the mood i take care of him and i dont get anything. im going crazy i know hes not cheating. his sex drive is just ...
A. 27 February 2009: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/relationships/sex-drive-nosedive?click=main_sr
Take a look at that.
Hope it helps you :)
x... (read in full...)
Will having anal sex hurt me or will I feel pleasure?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been toghether for 2 years. Our relationship got physical a while ago but he says he wants to try anal. I am really scared of doing it because it will be the first time I have done that but I don't know whether to let him ...
A. 21 February 2009: It can be painful the first time, but it depends on how rough he is with you.
Use plenty of lube and make sure you tell him if it starts to become painful, because you don't wanna injure yourself.
It might be better if he used his fingers first, j... (read in full...)
HELP! What is he playing at?
Q. there is this guy that I've been chatting to flirting 2yrs now.. we flirt alot i really like him and i think he likes me too.. but he has a gf and he's been with her for over 1 year now... every time we talk we always ask me who do i like (fancy)....
A. 5 February 2009: Sounds like he is tyring to make you jealous... Most guys like to feel wanted, so getting you to admit that you like him will make him happy i guess... (read in full...)
Should I stop the teasing?
Q. My boyfriend gets all quiet and I can tell he's bothered after some passionate kissing and touching. Do all men get like this if the girl decides not to put out after all these efforts?!? Should I stop the teasing? I mean he initiates all this... I ...
A. 2 February 2009: you shouldnt tease him like tht if you said you would give him oral, and then just touched him, of course he is gonna feel rejected. he's gonna think there is something wrong with him, which is not wht you want him to think... I mean, look at... (read in full...)
What can I do to change the taste of the pre-cum or make my wife like it?
Q. well my wife does not like the taste of the pre-cum and stops right there. what do i do to change it/make her like it?...
A. 2 February 2009: eating pineapple makes it taste sweeter, so maybe you could try tht?
good luck :)... (read in full...)
Me, best friend & crush triangle!
Q. For about 8 months now i have felt very strongly towards a guy who is also one of my best mates. Recently people have been saying that he likes me too but doesnt know if it is as a good friend or a girlfriend. However my best friend just said that ...
A. 1 February 2009: so you're saying, either way, youre gonna be hurt basicaly... so i say go for it with him..
if your friend liked him after you did, you get first dibs =p
hehe
good luck, =)... (read in full...)
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