Me, best friend & crush triangle!
Q. For about 8 months now i have felt very strongly towards a guy who is also one of my best mates. Recently people have been saying that he likes me too but doesnt know if it is as a good friend or a girlfriend. However my best friend just said that ...
A. 1 February 2009: so you're saying, either way, youre gonna be hurt basicaly... so i say go for it with him..
if your friend liked him after you did, you get first dibs =p
hehe
good luck, =)... (read in full...)
DearCupid had over one million people visit the site in January!
Q. I have just peeped at our visitor figures for January 2009, the month just gone, and I'm excited to see that DearCupid passed 1,000,000 (yes, one MILLION!) unique visitors/month for the first time. According to Google Analytics we had 1,040,812 ...
A. 1 February 2009: yay :) cause this is a good site! :D keep up the goodworkkk x... (read in full...)
Do I have a high sex drive?
Q. I'm 16, and i have a very high sex drive... for example, if me and my boyfriend have sex, i'm always ready to do it again. Could this be because i don't orgasm, or do i just have a high sex drive? any help appreciated :)...
A. 1 February 2009: thanks emilyanswers :)
We do use a condom and i am alreazdy on the pill, so we're doing everything safely.
damn those hormones!
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Sh'es gained weight & I don't want sex
Q. I really and truly love my wife and she is also my best friend and i'm not a jerk but over the past few years she has put on some weight enough to shut down my sex drive i would never tell her to lose weight and i would never stray but i am also wor...
A. 1 February 2009: personally, i would be crushed if my b/f ever said i was fat and i turned him off, so whatever you do, don't say tht to her! I think if you both change diets [healthier ones obvs] and take up an exercise together [maybe a jog around the block ev... (read in full...)
No teeth please!
Q. my girlfriend loves giving me head and luvs to swallow, not to sound ungreatful but she isnt very good at it. her teeth get in the way and my penis is very sensitive and after a while it begins to hurt resulting in me not being able to cum.is there ...
A. 1 February 2009: i agree with everyone previous, just don't just blurt it out lol Talk to her and tell her it feels better without the teeth cause you're very sensitive you're in a loving relationship, there shouldn't be a problem :) good luck!... (read in full...)
Infections in having anal sex???
Q. Today I lost my anal virginity to my boyfriend of 7 months but what I didn't actually know [until today] was that you can't use the same condom/finger/whatever in the anus and vagina.. Is there a chance I could get some sort of infection??? and if ...
A. 1 February 2009: Thanks guys :)
You all responded really quickly, i appreciate it :)
& to firefighters wife 09: He used a condom, but didn't change it after
Don't worry though, after this little scare i am not gonna take my time changing the condom next time... (read in full...)
How can I experience sex for the first time without thinking about the pain???
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half and we're both really wanting to have sex but I'm always so scared to. I'll decide that I really want to try and then when it comes down to it I get so scared about the pain that I'm getting ...
A. 31 January 2009: if your boyfriend turns you on enough and goes slow, you shouldn't panic =)
I didn't hurt me the first time me and my bf had sex, but he went slow anyway
so just get him to go slow, and it shouldnt hurt as bad
hope this helps :)... (read in full...)
Can a guy wait for a girl if she's not ready?
Q. Hey Cupiters! Question for all... I just started a new relationship with this guy. The passion is soooo there but I like to take things slow in the beginning with any guy not just him. You know get to know each other more and go from there... But ...
A. 26 January 2009: lol
My BF said he gets sexually frustrated while it's "tht time of the month" xD
but he would never pressure me into anything i didnt wanna do. You say this relationship is new?
If you're not ready, then don't do anything... don't let him pressure... (read in full...)
I see my self in a mirror and I start thinking that I'm ugly...
Q. Hi, this is the first time I have posted on here, but I have been hanging around for a while now and I like the advice and help given. I'm 14 years old and when ever I'm doing anything, or even just doing nothing for that matter I don't care about...
A. 26 January 2009: I only wear eye-liner anywhere, maybe some eyeshadow and mascara every once in a while, [especially if i'm going out nice] so it's nice to find someone who takes [sorta] the same attitude as i do :)
Everyone looks in the mirror and sees flaws. I... (read in full...)
I'm in a dilemma... I'm in Love With My Best Friend???
Q. Over the past few months, I've grown really close to a guy, we are best friends now and I care about him so much. The only trouble is, we've gotten so so close lately, I'm beginning to feel more than just friendship towards him. I'm not sure i...
A. 25 January 2009: Being in this situation myself once, I say go for it :D
I did, and I can happily yell you he felt the same way about me :D
I was over the mooooon!
:D hehe
Anywayy
If you don't wanna ask him out-right, ask him indirectly
or
get someone ... (read in full...)
I heard you can cum inside a girl and she won't get pregnant?
Q. I really need your advice here aunts and everyone else. So my g/f is virgin and me too and we will have sex when we both feel ready for it, it won't be very soon though because we both want to take out time. My question is: I know the first time i ...
A. 25 January 2009: if your GF is getting into the make out sesh then she will most probably be wet down there, but it isn't a bad thing! My boyfriend loves it!
As long as you GF has good hygiene then it should be fine!
And in answer to the first question, talk t... (read in full...)
Do men like having their anus aroused during sex?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have a great sex life and have recently started exploring each other a little more... by that I mean he will now finger my anus as well. Although I enjoy this I know I will never have anal sex because it does hurt a lot when ...
A. 25 January 2009: omg thats just the same situation I'm in, except I haven't had the courage to actually do it yet... maybe I should..hehe
I think your boyfriend does like it beings as he is groaning louder!
If you don't wanna ask our-right, just mumble unde... (read in full...)
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