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writes:ok so i have a horrible problem. my bf of almost 3 years is loosing his sex drive and im not getting my needs met . when he is in the mood i take care of him and i dont get anything. im going crazy i know hes not cheating. his sex drive is just going down the tubes its driving me crazy . he seems more interested in his video games. i dont know what to do . he keeps telling me that there will be plenty of time for sexual stuff once were married.... but i dont know if i can wait that long... im going nuts over here.... please help!!! what should i do ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell mf bf iis 21 and im 19 i was his first 2 years ago and i can tell you already the strip clu is a no go. we can even watch porn and it doesnt get a rise out of him. he only cumz if im there doing it . neither one of us masturbate alone. i just feel bad casue he gets all defensive about it when we try to talk about it... i dont know what to do cause he gets upset.. i feel bad but i need that physical attention. i mean hes really good at holding me and making me feel safe and totally complete... i love him so much i just want to elp him
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reader, Plutonious +, writes (27 February 2009):
Hmm. You are at that stage where your hormones are yerning more than ever. how old is he anyway?guys lose sex drive around mid to late 20's, and it all depends when he started being ACTIVE because if he started early he'll lose it early for most guys, don't get me wrong some guys out there have consistant drive to. in this case it isn't. I've said before... Majority of the couples here are never satisfied with sex, Unfortunately. So try this:Without actually telling her your issues in bed, why don't you do it indirectly by maybe planning a night on the town, have dinner, movie, go to a bar, come home, relax! make her feel comfortable. pamper just a tad bit. orI've never tried this before but for those who are my friends and did it says that their sex life together improved. Go to Swinger's club, where they have sex in front of you. but i did try going to strip club with my boyfriend that helps too actually. I dont know how your girl would take it being in a strip club with you though...Really she shouldn't get all jealous. but if she feels that way offer to have a stripper have private lap dance?so you two could have a little excitement along the way home after by talking about it, then of course with this subject one thing can always lead to another, just as long as you play your cards right without being pushy or hurting her. You two can discuss how you like a certain way of "doing this" and "that" once that door is open... that's your opportunity to dig out what she really loves to do in bed therefore you could do it to her all the time. My boyfriend and I had this problem but once we opened up to each other about it after visiting the STRIP CLUB, it has improved so much. hope all is well on this... LET ME KNOW
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reader, :)31215  +, writes (27 February 2009):
 http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/relationships/sex-drive-nosedive?click=main_sr
Take a look at that.
Hope it helps you :)
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