My teacher kiss me
Q. Hi, i am 15 and i was kissed by my teacher. He wrote a poem to me which i got confused about as a cooperation to write poem but it was a love letter. I don't know his age but he is the range of late 20's to early 30's he is a flirt he hugs some ...
A. 8 March 2022: If this post is genuine then you have to report this immediately. You need to tell your Mum, and hopefully your Mum will know the correct channels to go down.
He is in a position of trust, a position of power, and you are a child. He must be repor... (read in full...)
Will he still like me?
Q. hi! i have had a crush on this guy for a while. he likes me too and he told me a couple weeks ago. my parents made me cut off contact with him because he has different views then them. i am an older teen, so personally i think that i should be able ...
A. 7 March 2022: It is hard to say if will still like you or not, maybe he will, maybe he won't.
If he does than all well and good. But don't be to disheartened if he does not, its all just part and parcel of teen dating. You will get over it and meet someone ... (read in full...)
He said he liked my friend. Does he like me?
Q. hi! i'm a bit confused because my friend told me that he likes my best friend. i promised him that i wouldn't tell her because he knows she already has a boyfriend. recently though, he has been talking to me more then her and he's starting to act l...
A. 7 March 2022: Its hard to say if he likes you or not, or is just being friendly because he likes your mate. I do think that he should respect the fact that she already has a boyfriend.
All you can do is keep chatting to him and see what unfolds. Why don't yo... (read in full...)
Situations and boundaries
Q. What are peoples opinions on situationships and boundaries within them? I've been seeing a guy for 4 months. I'm 33 and he's 39. We spend every other day together. We cook together, go on long walks together, we are sexually intimate, we cud...
A. 7 March 2022: No you are not over reacting, far from it. This is not someone that you want in your life, he is a liar and a cheat. He could have been upfront and honest with you about him going with other people but he chose to lie to you. This really is a huge ... (read in full...)
I think of my affair partner every day even though affair is long over
Q. I had an affair that I ended nearly three years ago. I don’t need to be lectured on my poor choices - nor do I justify them, but there are many layers to the complete story. On a positive note, my husband and I have made tremendous progress in our ...
A. 7 March 2022: This was a chapter of your life that happened, your husband forgave you and now you are both moving on.
You are doing all the right things, you have been having therapy, and you are avoiding his outreach attempts. How is he reaching out to you?.... (read in full...)
She stares. Does she like me?
Q. There's this really pretty girl who goes to the same Gym as me and I'm sure she keeps giving me the eye. We've never spoken but I've noticed when I've been working out and she's in the vicinity she'll stare at me before turning away every time when ...
A. 7 March 2022: Its difficult to say if she likes you or not, she may well do. Or she may just be a people watcher and does not realise she is doing it.
Does she smile at you when she looks at you?. Next time you see her looking, smile at her and see if its reci... (read in full...)
Do you think I was unfair?
Q. I recently had a break down in a relationship and am struggling with feelings of guilt and regret, I am 64 and my "boy"friend was same age. He was in rented lovely cottage in great location but very expensive, he had lost his property previous...
A. 4 March 2022: I think that you 100% did the right thing here, no wonder his marriage fell apart, he sounds like very high maintenance.
Just think to yourself that you really did dodge a bullet here, and now onwards and upwards. ... (read in full...)
I found a dildo in the closet. I know wife has used it
Q. Been married for 35 years. My wife is still very hot. She mentioned to me that she and a friend went to a sex toy store and they laughed a lot. She did not say she bought anything. I did not ask. In the past 10 years sex was really for me. Usually 4 ...
A. 4 March 2022: I don't think this is that big a deal really, you found it in the bathroom cabinet, a place where where people are bound to frequent so she obviously was not trying to conceal it.
She has also only just recently been to a sex store with her mate... (read in full...)
Female friend / colleague blanks me outside of work
Q. A girl started working for me a couple of years ago and we hit it off instantly. We had a similar sense of humour and although she is a bit socially awkward (by her own admission), we just seemed to get each other and enjoyed each other's ...
A. 26 February 2022: At the end of the day, you have a partner, she has a partner, and you both work together and i don't think she see's it as anything more than this.
She nipped it in the bud, and quite rightly so because lets face it, its texting someone constant... (read in full...)
Female porn star has taken a shine to me
Q. since I have broken up with my girlfriend, I’ve been feeling lonely and a bit lost of late. was on facebook the other day and came across this lady who is from los angles. she’s really beautiful and we immediately became friends on facebook. she ...
A. 26 February 2022: I agree with YCBS, this sounds like some sort of scam to me and i would be very very careful if you were contemplating pursuing this as it could ultimately turn out to be a very costly venture for you.
If something sounds to good to be true, th... (read in full...)
How do I know if a crush is getting out of hand?
Q. I'm attracted to my coworker. My boss (the director of the school I work in) to be more precise. What scares me is that the feeling might be mutual. I don't want this in my life, so I'm doing everything I can not to feed this crush and not to...
A. 26 February 2022: This is a crush, and crushes don't last forever, often quite short lived.
I would keep these feelings to yourself, just keep doing what you are doing and let these feelings dissipate of their own accord.
You both work is a professional... (read in full...)
My husband sees nothing wrong with prostitution
Q. Hubby and I were chatting. We watched a program and it featured a prostitute. I asked if he would condemn a woman for her past if she was a prostitute before he met her. He said no he would not. He said if it was in her past and she no longer does ...
A. 24 February 2022: I think its a matter of opinion really, everyone will have varying views on this. You husband has given you his opinion on what he thinks which he is quite entitled to, and i don't think it gives him a lack of standards.
He is just saying that he ... (read in full...)
Happily married but attracted to the Zumba instructor
Q. Hi, so I'm in an uncomfortable situation because I'm married and I do love my husband very much, but I have developed a crush on someone else. My husband and I have been married for 7 years now and we still love each other so much. We have both ...
A. 24 February 2022: This is a crush, and crushed don't last forever, infact can sometimes be very short lived.
He is a zumba instructor, it is his job to be kind caring and friendly with everyone.
My advice would be to just keep this crush within the confines of ... (read in full...)
How do I extricate myself from this relationship without hurting feelings?
Q. So I have been with this guy for 5 months now, he is 32 and I am 25. We first met over tinder (yikes I know), we had a couple first dates it was lovely, he is funny and kind. It wasn't until the third date we slept together and since then we just ...
A. 23 February 2022: This relationship is still very much in the early stages so i would not feel bad about the thoughts and feelings that you are having.
Reading your post i feel that there are more negatives than positives in this relationship and these negative... (read in full...)
Am I too old to get a date
Q. Am I too old at 86 to get a date on site...
A. 23 February 2022: I agree with RB, the age group you are seeking won't be into the internet dating scene, swiping right and swiping left.
I think that your best bet is to join some social groups where you can mingle and meet people naturally. ... (read in full...)
Should I set my dad up with one of my friends?
Q. One of my girl friends has fancied my Dad forever even when he was married hence making my Mom jealous. Now my Moms passed should I set them up? If so then how? ;-) ...
A. 19 February 2022: Personally my advice would be to not set them up, i just feel that things could get rather awkward if things never worked out.
Also your Dad my also find it awkward being approached about dating one of his sons friends.
I'm just giving you ... (read in full...)
I can't tell if he seriously likes me or not
Q. almost a month ago I met a guy at this bar and he ended up coming home with me, however, we just hooked up no sex. The next morning I woke up to his alarm and him cuddling me, even pulling me closer each time it went off and I took nothing from ...
A. 18 February 2022: I agree with Honeypie, i think that you both suck at communication.
I think that if no one steps up and does something then you are going to keep going through the motions, just hooking up and nothing actually progressing.
It is strange not t... (read in full...)
The barmaid has accused me of harassment
Q. I normally like to go down to a working mens club and play snooker with some of the members, sometimes they want to play other times they do not or can’t be bothered. anyway I’ll try not to make this long and try to make it sound as though it makes...
A. 18 February 2022: Sounds like this place is from One Flew over the Cukko's nest, not a social club.
I'm a member of a social club, these are normally places you go where beer is cheaper, football is always on, and you go to socialise and have a beer and a chat.
... (read in full...)
My girlfriend feels trapped and blames me
Q. Hi Aunts! My long-time live-in girlfriend of 10 years keeps saying that she feels trapped in our relationship and doesn't see a way out except for suicide. She says I am controlling and despite my many good qualities we are not compatible and s...
A. 18 February 2022: I really don't think that there is anything more you can you do help her, you are going to have to resign yourself to the fact that this relationship is over.
You have offered her sound advice, you have told her to seek help, you have told her... (read in full...)
My wife is pregnant by another man
Q. I have a problem with my wife I do not know how to deal with. We have a happy open relationship with one child, we have been married six years and my wife has an African American boyfriend. She recently told me she is pregnant I know the baby i...
A. 18 February 2022: I never really wanted to go into the outcomes of what happens when you bring a third party into the equation, you just have to look over previous posts to find out that.
Having an open marriage is one thing, but if a spouse becomes pregnant... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of the Covid vaccine
Q. I'm so scared, as my partner and parents have taken the vaccine. I wondered if anyone has had any luck convincing loved ones not to get boosters? If so, I would love to know how you were able to do that? I'm so scared of losing everyone I l...
A. 18 February 2022: Personally i would never advise loved ones not to get boosters, which as far as i know they already have had a while back, as have I.
My parents are older now, and i feel better knowing the fact that that are boosted, as well as flu jabs. So in my... (read in full...)
I have a good guy but I think I want out of the relationship
Q. I don't know what's wrong with me, my partner is good in a lot of ways. However I'm starting to feel like I want out of the relationship. I was a single mother before I met him and had reached a good level of independence. I feel in the relation...
A. 17 February 2022: I think he may be a nice guy, but at the end of the day you are just not that into him, pure and simple.
If yo are with someone, in a relationship and you look forward to the days when you are not with him, then i think this say's it all really. ... (read in full...)
What is the deal with my girlfriend?
Q. Hey dearcupid, I caught my partner of 18 years spending time with another man at her work place, her place of work closes at 11pm some days or 12am, we have spoke about it and she says nothing is going on it was just games of pool but she was out ...
A. 17 February 2022: I do seem to recall this post a while back, it was the last part of your post about her working at a bar, and her taking people home from the pub.
This all boils down to trust, pure and simple. Trust is one of the most important contribu... (read in full...)
Keen to hear your take on my weirdo neighbors!
Q. For anyone with an interest in psychology/human behavior, I'd LOVE to hear your opinions. I'm a sensitive person and usually have a pretty good gut instinct bout people. My new neighbors, a married 50's couple, put my stomach in knots! Firstl...
A. 17 February 2022: It does sound very odd behavior, using avoidance tactics after only being there such a short time is strange. I agree with Honeypie, its not you, its them.
Maybe they are just not sociable people, but even so being friendly takes no effort a... (read in full...)
Cheating at work, narcissist, manipulator gas lighter.
Q. Met a guy at work, left my ex for him 5 years ago. guy at work had a reputation for being a womaniser. The whole time we were together never met his family, friends always hd separate christmases. End of 2018 he started another affair at work with ...
A. 17 February 2022: In all fairness you know he had a reputation for being a womaniser, so yo knew full well what you were getting into.
What has unfolded is really what what we would expect from a womaniser. There have been many red flags presented to you on a pla... (read in full...)
Could this work for me and the new man?
Q. When I was 20 I met my husband, he was 26, extremely popular, in the army and I was amazed that he was even interested in me. We started dating and things moved very quickly. We got engaged after three months of dating and eloped a few days lat...
A. 17 February 2022: You are so lucky to be out of the relationship with your husband, well done for stepping up and leaving, so many people don't.
Before you embark on any subsequent relationships get the ball rolling with regards to obtaining a divorce from your hus... (read in full...)
Why is my ex saying we did not have sex when I know we did
Q. I split up with my partner last year for a few months and despite messaging him he never responded. Fast forward I had a few drinks and actually don't remember leaving the pub I was in but I walked to his pub and all I can remember was standing in ...
A. 17 February 2022: All sounds a bit iffy to me, i agree with the other aunts here, why keep asking him if you know you did?.
He was sober, you were so drunk you can't remember what you did, or diden't do. Maybe he wants to brush it under the carpet because he feels... (read in full...)
Thank you to everyone
Q. We've all been through a lot these past two years, some more than others. We've had the pandemic, lockdowns, toxic news, job losses and business closures, personal tragedies and the like. During this, many people have given their time and energy ...
A. 17 February 2022: Thank you Ciar. Its a real pleasure to contribute to Dear Cupid. Love and hugs to all. ... (read in full...)
Did my boyfriends ex cross the line or am I overreacting?
Q. So my boyfriend’s ex keeps asking too many personal questions about our sex life, and it’s starting to bother me but I don’t know if I’m overreacting. Like one example is that she wants to know if he’s still a virgin, to which I responded, “I’m not ...
A. 10 February 2022: I don't think that you are over reacting at all, quite the opposite. She is very rude asking this to you, it is absolutely none of her business, and she knows it.
You did the right thing in shutting her down, telling her your not going into any... (read in full...)
My ex suddenly unblocked me. Why?
Q. Been one month n half no contact from ex he had me blocked from whatsapp now suddenly unblocked me and im still a contact in his phone cause I can see. I was infertile so he left me cause i respected something he wanted of course hurt was involved ...
A. 10 February 2022: Maybe after you broke up he was still quite bitter so blocked you. Now after some time has gone by and he has had time to reflect and has decided to unblock you. I don't think that this means he wants to establish contact.
I still have people o... (read in full...)
After 2 years, my boyfriend ghosted me
Q. I don’t know what to do anymore. My boyfriend of over 2 years ghosted me! There were no major issues, as far as I was made aware. I work with families and I’m so gutted that some have asked me what’s wrong because I look so miserable and I have no ...
A. 8 February 2022: I know its hard, break ups are never easy for anyone but all i can say is that things will get easier, time is the healer of all things.
You will get over this, and you will come back stronger and more determined, and see what a jerk he really i... (read in full...)
Should I forget about him or wait for that first date?
Q. Hi all. I'm 42 years old female, whose unmarried with no kids, Have my own house and stay alone. Recently I've just learned that there's this guy who is 37 years old who has some interest in me. I've met him when I had a problem with their product,...
A. 8 February 2022: I think that you are talking yourself out of going on a date with him already which is not a good sign.
It has been a while now, nothing has happened and he has not stepped up and arranged anything until only a week ago. By your own admissio... (read in full...)
Should I pursue Trevor or let it go?
Q. So I've known this guy for 13 years, and I've been single for 12 years. Yes I've dated people but no actual boyfriend. Trevor is everything you want in a partner/husband - I can imagine having a family with him, I trust him completely, we argue so...
A. 8 February 2022: I think that as you have know him for 13 years and in all of this time, apart from a few hot and steamy kisses, and some sexting nothing much else has transpired from this relationship. After 13 years maybe he has resigned himself to the fact that ... (read in full...)
One of the teachers has a noticeable crush on me
Q. Im 20. As part of my university degree I'm studying abroad at a Spanish language school. One of the teachers there has a crush on me, strong enough for all the students to notice. I'm genuinely attracted to her and last Saturday we were da...
A. 8 February 2022: I suprised that a teacher that is working in a professional environment where a strict teacher/student dating policy would surely be enforced is persuing a student.
I also find it hard to believe that she is doing this so that other students... (read in full...)
Does my girlfriend have a crush on my friend?
Q. Me n my gf was at family party at the weekend we was having fun drinking and dancing etc when i went to the bathroom and came back my gf and my friend had their arms around each other side cuddling in an intimate way his arm was over her shoulder ...
A. 8 February 2022: This relationship is still very much in its infancy, its only 4 months in, not really enough time to get to know someone i think you will agree.
I think that they are both lying to you, and now as a consequence there are now trust issues. ... (read in full...)
My fwb doesn't want to have sex?
Q. So there’s a guy I met through my cousin and we have been talking for a month but under the understanding that we would be FWB. I’m a 30 year old female and he is a 28 year old male. He has only had one partner and I’m a Virgin and tbh I just feel ...
A. 8 February 2022: I think that maybe you need to take a step back from this situation, stop chasing him, or arranging subsequent meet ups. This is by your own admission a casual set up, so you can't really get upset when he refuses to see you.
I think if he wante... (read in full...)
I am afraid of any physical contact
Q. I am terribly afraid of any physical contact, thinking of marriages or even attending them gives me a headache and stress. I do not wish to go to a doctor because i don't want anyone to know this. How do i overcome this?...
A. 2 February 2022: I think that if you are not willing to seek professional help because you don't want anyone to know does not really leave you a lot of options.
You say thinking of marriages, or even attending them gives you a headache and stress. These are just... (read in full...)
I need help with an overbearing mother in law
Q. Hi everyone, need some help with an overbearing mother in law. I had a baby around 6 months ago and from the very moment she has been round our place every other day. Since hitting the 4 months mark I started taking my LO to baby classes and being ...
A. 2 February 2022: I think that the fact that your father and mother in law went to your husband telling him that you are stopping them spending time with their grandchild is absurd, almost like stirring the pot to a certain extent because its simply not true.
... (read in full...)
I don't want him as my boyfriend
Q. I have known a particular guy for years now. I do not want to be in a relationship with him because of reasons i can't understand. I have never felt such an attraction for anyone. I mostly have male friends and i've never wanted such an attention ...
A. 2 February 2022: You say that you have never felt such an attraction for anyone, that statement in itself in my opinion stems a bit deeper than someone you are just friends with.
You go on to say you have never wanted such an attention from anyone, again not some... (read in full...)
How do I get her to talk about sex?
Q. I have known this very beautiful and fun woman in my neighborhood for about ten years. We have been friends and have enjoyed doing many things together. I am 20 and she is 35. About a year ago she was divorced and her ex is not in the picture. She ...
A. 2 February 2022: I think its something that should not force, rather just let things transpire effortlessly and naturally.
You made out in her living room, and you both really enjoyed it, i bet this all just happened by chance and was not arranged. I'm sure it ... (read in full...)
Should I find out who made these accusations?
Q. after working for a number of years at a car business. I decided to resign and move onto other things. people were sad to see me go, where others were pleased I was going. someone from work has said, who I don’t know that I’m slagging off their ...
A. 1 February 2022: You have worked at this company, you have done a good job, now you have decided to move on to another job.
I would not even bother getting involved with this, its just one of those who you probably never got on with that well is trying to stir ... (read in full...)
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