Did she pick this trick up?
Q. Have been married 27 years and my wife let me cum in her mouth for the first time. I have always told her I was coming in past and she would immediately stop This time she kept going like she had done it before. Swallowed it all D...
A. 13 January 2023: Maybe its just something that she was always afraid of doing, but at the end of the day its any ones guess.
Maybe after all these years she just thought what the heck and just go for it.
Not sure if she just picked up the skill on the sid... (read in full...)
His parents know we had sex
Q. me and my "bf" had sex for the first time about a week ago (been together for a little over 3 months but we haven't made it official yet) and I guess I left a hickey on his neck .Anyways fast forward to about 2 days later and his parents saw and ...
A. 13 January 2023: I find it hard to believe that the parents of someone in the age bracket of 13-15 told them they had sex with someone that they diden't care.
Your both at a very tender age, and what you did could potentially have future implications on the rest... (read in full...)
Online dating problem
Q. I joined a dating site to talk to women as I’m single, a girl messaged me who liked my profile, got in touch. we had many things in common and talk every day. since then, I’ve been having doubts, as many people lie on dating sites about their age. ...
A. 13 January 2023: This is the thing with online dating, you never really know who you are talking to, online people can be anyone they want to be.
I suggest given her age of 18 i would disregard that chat and maybe set your age ranges to maybe 25-35.... (read in full...)
I cant stop thinking about her past
Q. I'm currently in a relationship, I have been seeing her 8 months and been official for 2. Great chemistry, loads in common and just generally going amazing, i wish I met her sooner in my life, both the same age. How ever I can't stop over thinking ...
A. 13 January 2023: I think its important for the progression of any relationship is to look forward and not back.
We have to accept that unless someone has been living under a rock for the past decade we are going to have some sort of history no matter who we are. ... (read in full...)
How to fix a brokenheart
Q. Help iam I love with a lovely man who loves me but I have hurt him very badly and he has fi ished our relationship. He is. Builder and recently put I. A new Back door for me. I always pay him for his work as I would not take advantage of him This ...
A. 13 January 2023: All sounds a bit awkward and messy to me, maybe you should have got some other trades person to complete the work for you.
Ok whats done is done, i think maybe you should just pay him what you owe him and leave it at that. And next time use some... (read in full...)
Hurt over lost friend
Q. My best friend of many years is in an abusive relationship and has suddenly decided to cut me out of her life. When they first started dating, I wasn't wild about it. She has so much going for her and this guy just... doesn't. I tried to be supp...
A. 11 January 2023: I realise how upsetting this must be for you, but you were her friend in a time of need and turmoil. You were there for her when her partner got drunk and was abusive to her.
Unfortunately as good a friend as we are to people we can't control ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his mother ruined Christmas
Q. I’ll try and keep this simple. I’ve being with my boyfriend for 9 months. He had recently just come out of a relationship and he was back home, living with his mother. He had recently lost his father just four month before we met. We moved in ...
A. 4 January 2023: It seems that every thing with him was all done in a whirlwind, you never really had time to get to know him properly before setting up home together.
Yes this relationship is very toxic indeed, and just because you live together does not mean... (read in full...)
Confused as to whether I want to get back with partner or not
Q. I was with my partner for 7 years until a few months ago which was due to a fight which lead to me moving out and getting my own place. The sequence of events went quickly but I have been enjoying having my own space again. We've been meeting each ...
A. 4 January 2023: By your own admission you say that you are enjoying having your own space again, so just on this alone I would say that you are not ready to jump back into a relationship with him.
Having your own place has helped your recovery, and will continue... (read in full...)
What do I say?
Q. Need some advice it's driving me mad to be honest I was seeing a guy since Aug 2022 so wasn't long Spent every weekend with him spoke everyday etc planned to spend new years eve together Exchanged Xmas presents where he bought me a lovely ne...
A. 4 January 2023: I think that you are just going to accept the fact that you dating this man and unfortunately it never worked out.
Breaking up with someone is never easy, not for anyone but all I can say is that things will get easier over time. When some tim... (read in full...)
Dating websites and scammers
Q. I'm on dating sites and it's not good. We start chatting, start connecting and they request money. Why do they feel it's okay to ask a stanger whom they've never met for money? It's a complete turn off. Even on social media they reach out a...
A. 4 January 2023: I am not a fan of dating sites to be honest, for the very reasons that you describes, along with all the other things like catfishing, ghosting, and just generally messing people around.
You could change the dating sites you use to some more rel... (read in full...)
Bed and breakfasts and sex
Q. My bf of 6 months and I are taking a weekend trip. he said he is taking me on a romantic weekend trip. We are staying at a bed and breakfast for a few nights. Have you found bed and breakfasts to be romantic? The rooms to seem to be classic and ...
A. 4 January 2023: It think it all depends where you are staying really and the type of building it is.
In the UK there are hotel bed and breakfast chains like premier inns, and travel loges that have a lot of rooms. Or if you head to the coast there are more old... (read in full...)
Need ideas to sexually embarrass my sister in law without being creepy.
Q. My sister just got me a mankini with bells and a rednose on the kini part. So in trying to get her back, I want some ideas to embarrass her but not come off creepy. backstory, the family has been together forever and never has been any sexually ...
A. 28 December 2022: Yes i also agree that the best option would be not to play.
How are you going to embarrass her without coming across as creepy?. Well i don't think you can. As you say the one who will benefit will be her husband.
Aside from creepy and provo... (read in full...)
How to move on from a falling out with a best friend?
Q. One of my closest guy friends online and myself have had a big falling out. It has gotten very toxic and very messy. He has blocked me on all social media accounts (however hasn't unfriended me), and he is deleting his main social media account ...
A. 23 December 2022: I think in this instance you are going to have put this down to experience, a learning curve and move on.
For what ever reason your friendship never worked out, and that's just life i'm affraid.
How do you bear through the pain of breaking... (read in full...)
Perfect husband sober, but dicing with death when drunk.
Q. Hi All, My husband and I have been together since we were at school, now we are in our early thirties so I quite frankly don't know where to turn from here. I have always known that drink hasn't agreed with him. Some chemical in his brain ju...
A. 23 December 2022: I think that you have to draw the line somewhere, he can't keep acting like he is in his late teens, it is not fair on you or your kids to keep on putting up with this behaviour.
I am not suprised that you don't want this anymore, and you shou... (read in full...)
My friend used me to look after her kids!
Q. I feel that I’ve been used recently by a friend and it’s really upset me. A few days ago I had arranged for my friend to come over to my house for a coffee (we usually meet up at 1 of our house 2 times a month). That morning she arrived ...
A. 23 December 2022: You openly told her that you had an open appointment at 4pm and that she needed to get back for 3.
She may well have been stuck in traffic, but if you want my honest answer I think her planned meet up went on longer than expected.
She lef... (read in full...)
Am I putting in work and not going to get the commitment?
Q. I just turned 29 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 28 months now we have been living together for a year and 8 months, we have a dog together we both have good jobs and are responsible people. The topic of marriage and children has ...
A. 19 December 2022: I think you need to stop worrying about time running out as I think that you have plenty of time.
You have already both made a commitment together by way of setting up home, getting a dog which is a step in the right direction. If he was time was... (read in full...)
Do I tell him that I know he cheated?
Q. I have just found out that my partner of 9 years had cheated on me with his work colleague at his Christmas party. I feel physically sick at the thought of it and having seen the messages of their night of passion, arranging to meet again and keep ...
A. 18 December 2022: So he was unfaithful to you with a work colleague, shared a night of passion, and by the looks of it arranging to meet again.
I don't think this is something that can be just swept under the carpet and move on like all is fine. He has been unf... (read in full...)
Seeing that ex is engaged has thrown me off
Q. I broke up with a guy about 2.5 years ago. It was an unhealthy relationship where I saw red flags and knew we were incompatible, but thought my love could “fix” him and maybe if I changed certain things about myself, it could work. I have no idea ...
A. 18 December 2022: You know that you did the right thing, and what you did was 100% for the best.
We both no that googling him was not a good idea, at the end of the day an ex is an ex. I not a great fan of social media for that very reason, and that is seeing p... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time?
Q. I’m very confused about this guy’s behaviour and need advice. I started talking to a guy, he used to text once in a few days but very detailed msgs about some mutual topics , never opened up about himself much emotionally. I didn’t mind cause we ...
A. 18 December 2022: To be honest after 6 months i think you should be further than just exchanging texts once or twice a week, and no calls. I would treat your relationship with him with some trepidation, and air on the side of caution because i think he might very ... (read in full...)
Anyone from South Africa that can answer a question?
Q. Hi is anyone here from South Africa? Just have a question. I met someone online I have went to see him 3 times and he wants to visit me. He said he got his passport, his NIN, and needs his covid vaccine and says it is 300.00 usd. Seems a li...
A. 15 December 2022: Here at DC we see posts similar to this one time and time again where someone is another country is asking for money. Some of these people are writing in having already parted with vast amounts of money only to realise that they have been scammed. ... (read in full...)
Do I stay in this marriage?
Q. Dear cupid. I'm writing here already knowing the answer to my own question, but I just need to talk to someone about this, and I can't talk about it to anyone I know. I'm married, and miserable. It hasn't been easy, and the main problem for me i...
A. 6 December 2022: I feel that if you give it 6 months, nothing will change, so you give it another 6 months, then another, until your life becomes one long giving it 6 months with nothing ever changing.
You have to accept that this marriage is done, its got to t... (read in full...)
Think I really hurt my friendship, what should I do?
Q. I’ve been friends with a male friend for a LONG time. I met him working at a GameStop and we became fast friends. However it turned out he really had feeling for me, I turned him down, (I’m gay) but he was really fun to hang out with and I wanted to ...
A. 6 December 2022: I think the problem is he developed feelings for you early on and probably felt like something could materialise as you both got on so well.
For no fault of your own his dreams of having you came crashing down when he found out you were off limi... (read in full...)
Blindsighted by breakup
Q. I want to know if I’m crazy for being totally blindsided by this breakup. I went on a date with this great guy about a year ago. Then we were talking, hung out together with our kids. And definitely had a connection. Then while I was out of town ...
A. 5 December 2022: I have got to be brutally honest with you here and say that you are better off without him in your life.
You had a family emergency which is important and took you out of town, and you get back to find he is back with an ex.
OP this should ... (read in full...)
Why does my partner say this?
Q. My partner regularly says hes going to do something that will put him in prison if he doesnt return to his home country soon. I pay all the expenses for my home and he spends his money in the first week and then lives off me for the rest of the m...
A. 5 December 2022: I have to ask the question, reading you post what what you mention why are you actually with this guy.
Are there any positives to this relationship at all?. He is ungrateful, spends all his money then lives off of you for the rest of the month.
... (read in full...)
Why does my partner say this?
Q. My partner regularly says hes going to do something that will put him in prison if he doesnt return to his home country soon. I pay all the expenses for my home and he spends his money in the first week and then lives off me for the rest of the m...
A. 5 December 2022: test... (read in full...)
Former dating partner acts like he does not know me
Q. So a guy I was seeing ended things with me as I wanted commitment and he didn’t see me in that way. he was then with another girl and he didn’t want anymore to do with me even as a mate however that broke down within weeks. next thing he kept ...
A. 5 December 2022: I am going to be brutally honest here and say he is not someone you want or need in your life and my advice would be to delete and block him.
If you don't he will keep picking you up and putting you down, getting back in contact with you and bein... (read in full...)
I want my mom to stop talking to me she has a mental illness
Q. My mom she loves coming into the basement irritating me and threatening me and I don't want her coming to the basement I don't want her talking to me she has a mental illness and she doesn't want to admit to anybody she has one. ...
A. 3 December 2022: Do you work in the basement, or is this your bedroom?.
Have you thought about getting your own place and having your own space.
I'm sorry to hear she has a mental illness, but and the end of the day you are in your 40's and your mum should ... (read in full...)
I have no support around me when boyfriend and I argue
Q. I have being living with my boyfriend for the last three months. We have our ups and downs and arguments about day to day things. I live 5.5 hours away from my friends and family. My boyfriend lives about half an hour from his family. I lived away ...
A. 3 December 2022: They say that you never really truly know someone until you live with them.
It sounds like you have made a lot of sacrifices to set up home with him, while it seems he has made none. A lot of red flags are being presented here and you need to ... (read in full...)
Family always wants me to babysit
Q. I have a brother who is married with a wife and two kids. The problem is that my brother and sister-in-law are upset with me for always refusing to babysit. I have work, church and other activities that take up a lot of my time. My brot...
A. 29 November 2022: I think sometimes we have to be cruel to be kind and you need tell them that you are not happy babysitting every time they need you.
No you are not wrong for refusing to do so, far from it. Of course you love your Neice & Nephew which im sure you... (read in full...)
Afraid I’ll regret ending this friendship. Is this a friend worth keeping?
Q. Would you stay friends with someone who has the following traits? I need an outside person’s perspective: PROS: -Caring -There for you emotionally when need advice or venting -Helps in my mental health healing process -Feel less alone b...
A. 29 November 2022: There is no such thing as a perfect Friendship/relationship would be lovely if there was such a thing.
I think it's down to us as individuals to weigh up the pro's and cons and decide if they are worth keeping around or not, its up to us to decid... (read in full...)
Should I inform my ex’s family & friends that I’m he’s addicted to drugs in hopes that they’ll help him?
Q. My ex and I are very much in love but broke up amicably. He’s developed a drug addiction. He’s high functioning but it’s something I cannot accept. He’s admitted to his addiction and understands why I can’t be with him. He’ll be moving out this ...
A. 22 November 2022: I realise you are going to get varied opinions on this, but i am going to go along the lines of staying out of it and not informing them.
I know that you split amicably, and that is a good thing, but you have still broken up, and he is essentia... (read in full...)
He lied cheated on his partner then told me he never had feelings for me
Q. I’m in a horrible situation and would love some help please. I started dating a man back in June. We’d known each other through work for a couple of years and there has always been some flirtation between us so I was thrilled when he asked me out....
A. 22 November 2022: I am going to get straight to the point and say it really does not matter what he thinks anymore,we both know what sort of person he is and you dodged a bullet if you ask me as he is not someone you want in your life.
When you found out he has a... (read in full...)
He lied cheated on his partner then told me he never had feelings for me
Q. I’m in a horrible situation and would love some help please. I started dating a man back in June. We’d known each other through work for a couple of years and there has always been some flirtation between us so I was thrilled when he asked me out....
A. 22 November 2022: test... (read in full...)
No sex is he cheating?
Q. Me and my husband hadn’t had sex for 3 days because of his busy schedule. And when we finally did it he did not ejaculate a lot like he usually does even when we do it every day. Is that normal or should I be worried?...
A. 22 November 2022: Personally i don't think you have got anything to worry about. As you say lately he has had a busy schedule and probably has a lot on his mind at the moment.
It was only three day's since you had sex, and then you noticed a slight change that he ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is more extroverted than me and we have a family party to go to
Q. Hi, As the title suggests, my boyfriend, 27, of several years is more extroverted than me and seems to thrive in the company of others. He has lots of friends from different groups and he loves going out and can easily make friends with any...
A. 20 November 2022: At the end of the day no two people are the same, each and every one of us is different and we have certain things about us that make us unique.
All you can do is go to the party as a support for your boyfriend, and just be yourself. Sometime... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is more extroverted than me and we have a family party to go to
Q. Hi, As the title suggests, my boyfriend, 27, of several years is more extroverted than me and seems to thrive in the company of others. He has lots of friends from different groups and he loves going out and can easily make friends with any...
A. 20 November 2022: test... (read in full...)
I think my husband likes our sons girlfriend
Q. Stayed over at our oldest sons flat for 3 days with my husband and younger son. Our oldest lives with his girlfriend of 5 years. I didn’t want to stay there as I prefer a hotel to do my own thing and I go to the toilet a few times in the night so ...
A. 20 November 2022: I'm sorry to say but i think that you way over thinking this and blowing it out of all proportion in my opinion.
You husband is a man in his late 50's, and she is in her early 20's, and your sons partner, the thought of anything going on seems absu... (read in full...)
I think my husband likes our sons girlfriend
Q. Stayed over at our oldest sons flat for 3 days with my husband and younger son. Our oldest lives with his girlfriend of 5 years. I didn’t want to stay there as I prefer a hotel to do my own thing and I go to the toilet a few times in the night so ...
A. 20 November 2022: test... (read in full...)
Getting over someone’s promiscuous past
Q. Hey all! I’m struggling with what seems to be a rather common mental dilemma. I’m (28M) in a monogamous relationship with a girl (29F) that I was friends with in high school. We both went away to college, didn’t really talk much for like 8-9 years, ...
A. 20 November 2022: At the end of the day we all have a past no matter who we are and where we are from. I think its important to look at the hear and now, and the future, and stop looking back at the past.
The past is the past, it can't be changed, how ever much we w... (read in full...)
Getting over someone’s promiscuous past
Q. Hey all! I’m struggling with what seems to be a rather common mental dilemma. I’m (28M) in a monogamous relationship with a girl (29F) that I was friends with in high school. We both went away to college, didn’t really talk much for like 8-9 years, ...
A. 20 November 2022: test... (read in full...)
All we have done is kiss
Q. My boyfriend who is 19 won't touch me even when I ask him to. We have been dating for a year now and all we've done is just kissing,we haven't seen each other completely naked I tried numerous times to make a move on him but he avoids me telling me ...
A. 19 November 2022: He is doing the right thing and respecting your age. He may also be weary of taking things further with you at this age as potentially it could land him in deep water.
Whats the rush, take your time and enjoy each others company, there is plenty o... (read in full...)
All we have done is kiss
Q. My boyfriend who is 19 won't touch me even when I ask him to. We have been dating for a year now and all we've done is just kissing,we haven't seen each other completely naked I tried numerous times to make a move on him but he avoids me telling me ...
A. 19 November 2022: test... (read in full...)
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