What do you think? Does he like me?
Q. So I've known him for a few months (mutual friend) and we finally hung out. Here are some things that happened. *he asked me personal questions. *told me a lot about himself and told me he doesn't share this stuff with everyone. Only people...
A. 30 January 2013: Well if he knows that easy sex isn't an option with you its possible he meant that he doesn't want to rush things. Just enjoy your company and get to know you better and see what develops. ... (read in full...)
We have been going out but she is still on website every day where we met. What's up with that?
Q. I have a met this woman on Match. She is divorced, same age as me. We have been talkling on the phone everyday, texting, emailing. I spent this past weekend at her house. We have been going out for a month. She told me that I am so different than ...
A. 28 January 2013: You're basically asking the same question you did in the first place and the answer is still the same: take it easy. Don't worry about her being online because the two of you don't have an exclusive relationship! As I stated before, you shouldn't ... (read in full...)
What do you think? Does he like me?
Q. So I've known him for a few months (mutual friend) and we finally hung out. Here are some things that happened. *he asked me personal questions. *told me a lot about himself and told me he doesn't share this stuff with everyone. Only people...
A. 28 January 2013: Just looking to have fun simply means he doesn't want to get involved more that some hanging out, a few dates and some sex.
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Does this kiss between my wife and friend mean anything?
Q. Weve known a married couple 10+ years, they are a great couple and really close friends.I feel there is an attachment, not sure whether its emotional, physical-just different to previous friendships.We see each other almost every week, always a ...
A. 25 January 2013: I still think it has to do with the chemistry you admitted you all share and the fact that they were drunk. I've done some things like that when I was drinking and had ZERO intention of trying to take things further... it just kind of happens, no ... (read in full...)
My father is a hoarder and has poor hygiene refusing to bathe or wash his hands!
Q. Let me start out by saying I know this is a relationahip forum but this is one of the better sites that gives advice so please answer this question about a family member. This question is more for my mother to ask but the entire family is being ...
A. 25 January 2013: Man, you might as well be homeless, since it would be more or less the same thing as living there.
Get a crappy job for the time being and get out of there. Find a cheap place to rent for 6 months until you can find a better job.
Your mo... (read in full...)
Gf sending dirty texts to another man
Q. Hi, I've been with my gf for nearly 3 years, it's had it's ups and downs but we've got through them, between us we have 4 children, she has 3 girls I have one boy. The two youngest girls dad left when the youngest was born, and hasn't been around ...
A. 25 January 2013: You did the right thing, there's no doubt about it. There are few qualities worse in a spouse than being untrustworthy. ... (read in full...)
A weekend away together, he grew cold on the way home and now has totally frozen me out. Why?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for 2 months. Things were going great. Just two weeks ago, during my drive home after hanging out with him, he sent me a text that said, "I think we should take this relationship to a new level, will you be my facebook ...
A. 25 January 2013: It doesn't sound like you did anything wrong unless you're leaving something out.
Sometimes you just have to accept that people are strange and often it can feel directed towards you or caused by you but it's usually not. Maybe he has a little b... (read in full...)
She's finally ready to have sex but I'm not
Q. Here's the deal. She's finally ready to go to the next step with me. We've been together for half a year now and she says that she has fallen for me and trusts me completely with her heart. I would be lying if I said that I wasn't craving this ...
A. 25 January 2013: Condoms suck but they're necessary sometimes, specifically when having sex with someone you're not committed to.
Why don't you get tested to assure her you're clean (her too if she's not a virgin). Then she can start with birth control which wi... (read in full...)
Online date turned out to be much bigger than I expected. How do I let her know I am not physically attracted without hurting her?
Q. Hi so recently i set up a profile on a dating site. I was contacted by a girl that looked really cute. We talked for a bit exchanged phone numbers, and texted a bunch, she was really cool and we had some common interests. We met up recently and i ...
A. 25 January 2013: If she's more than a little overweight than you should say something. As SVC said she was lying by emission which wasted both of your time.
If she was just a little chubby its not worth hurting her.... (read in full...)
My father won't get rid of a POS oven! Should I have my friend sabotage it?
Q. I know this question isn't the sort of question that this website's created for, but I want some opinions on what I should do about this. For about 16 years my family has used the same oven. At one point it was a pretty good oven, but overtime...
A. 25 January 2013: Maybe you could find the perfect oven in a realistic price range that's the right size and on sale. Learn about it and sell it to your dad in front of the whole family. Make it so he doesn't have to do anything except say yes and pay. ... (read in full...)
How can I convince my Boyfriend that his smoking weed is a deal breaker for me?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. When we first met i didnt know he smoked weed, but as time went on he seemed to smoke more and more to the point where i said it was bothering me. His personality has changed and the smell drives me ...
A. 25 January 2013: There are only two steps to this scenario:
Step 1: You tell him that his smoking weed is a deal breaker.
Step 2: He quits or you leave.
If you don't leave then it's not a deal breaker. Maybe after you leave he'll come to his senses, but ... (read in full...)
Who could care and have feelings for 3 year affair?
Q. Is it easy for a man to have a 3yr sex fling with a woman and care nothing for her? My husband has been sleeping with this hoe for 3yrs.I know its only sex. She now has feelings for him but he cares nothing for her. She can't get that through her ...
A. 25 January 2013: You shouldn't be so quick to believe your husband who has been lying to you for three years. It's likely he was stringing her along, the telling her he loved her and not you and that he was going to leave you.
Three years is a long time to use s... (read in full...)
Why don't any girls pay attention to me?
Q. Ever since I hit 15 my teenage hormones kicked in and my personality took a complete 360. Before I hit 15 girls thought I was really cute because of how happy, playful, and funny guy I was, not to mention I had a tough personality. But then I ...
A. 25 January 2013: They don't call them awkward years for nothing. Some people are worse than others, but most will grow out of it.
If you feel that your problems go above and beyond the typical then you may need to try counseling or something to try and work it ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to think his sex addiction is a problem
Q. My boyfriend has been telling me that he is thinking about having sex with other girls. He thinks about how exciting it would be and what kind of things he can do to other girls. We are both aware that he is addicted to sex, and he falls into the ...
A. 25 January 2013: It may be somewhat common but it's not "normal".
There's nothing you can do except encourage him to go to counseling or to just put up with it. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend looks at other women and makes me feel horrid!
Q. My boyfriend and have been together for three years now. He cheated on his ex wife and has made me feel uncomfortable when other women are around us. The first time this happened was when we invited a friend to lunch and she held his gaze for a ...
A. 24 January 2013: It sounds like your relationship is in the dumps and I don't think he's the only one to blame: you're withholding sex, throwing things, and always accusing him of looking at other women. And that's only what you mentioned to prove HE'S the bad guy! ... (read in full...)
My relationships end so terribly that I really get affected. I am done with love!
Q. In all the relationships ive had not one has ended without me being affected i become so depressed i even stop eating and eventually lose weight,the problem is i love too much without even leaving room for dissappointment.i dont think i will ever ...
A. 24 January 2013: It's a rare relationship that doesn't end in heartbreak, even if you are the one ending it.
All men are NOT the same any more that all women are. If you want to be single for awhile, then by all means go ahead, there's nothing wrong with that.
... (read in full...)
Why does my husband watch one particular part of my body during sex?
Q. Hi, I am really embarrassed but here it goes: sex with my husband is over the top. I mean, since I've been with him I finally understood what "to make love" means: he's caring and sentimental in the bedroom and outside the bedroom too. When he is ...
A. 24 January 2013: Uhhhh, I'd say that's so normal that it's a surprise to even see this question being asked. ... (read in full...)
Is a man wearing a women's swimsuit really a 'sexual offense' especially as the man did it drunk at a party?
Q. I have recently found out my 24-year-old daughter is dating a convicted sex offender, she had inadvertently mentioned it when talking about her new boyfriend (he's 32). I feel sick and disgusted but at the sametime am powerless to stop her. She...
A. 24 January 2013: Unless he wore the swimsuit in Iran then he's lying to her. I can't imagine what other backwards country would consider that worthy of labeling someone a sex offender.
It's only remotely possible if his penis was showing because the suit was too ... (read in full...)
My father is a hoarder and has poor hygiene refusing to bathe or wash his hands!
Q. Let me start out by saying I know this is a relationahip forum but this is one of the better sites that gives advice so please answer this question about a family member. This question is more for my mother to ask but the entire family is being ...
A. 24 January 2013: I don't know about the disease but your mom really needs to separate from him. She probably doesn't want to but it may help him to realize he really needs to change.
Your question made me sick and I'm not even there! If you live outside of their... (read in full...)
How do I help someone get better at their hobby without being perceived as critical?
Q. I have a friend who is just starting (a year ago) to get into a hobby that I have practiced since I was a kid. I am 39 now so it's been over 30 years since I started. A lot of things are not going right for her and she asks me for advice. ...
A. 24 January 2013: Hey, that's my wife you're talking about!
You can't change her, she's too sensitive. You may be a little more critical than you realize as well, so what you should try is giving her some generic tips.
While it's not as useful as real criticis... (read in full...)
I'm worried that I'm leaning too much on my boyfriend and he should be out having fun
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years following a long friendship and we are very much in love and looking into moving in together after in finish uni (he is currentrly in a graduate position). I haven't had it easy in the last year or...
A. 24 January 2013: Look at this as a test of his love. The WHOLE purpose of having a spouse is really to have a partner; someone to help you with day to day things, raising kids, taking care of you when you're sick, etc, but also they are supposed to be there for big ... (read in full...)
Does this kiss between my wife and friend mean anything?
Q. Weve known a married couple 10+ years, they are a great couple and really close friends.I feel there is an attachment, not sure whether its emotional, physical-just different to previous friendships.We see each other almost every week, always a ...
A. 24 January 2013: I completely agree with SVC.
It sounds like you have a great relationship with them and your wife and you've even admitted to the sexual tension. He may have crossed the line but considering he was drunk its hard to really blame him.
I don't... (read in full...)
Husband went to a massage parlour but said there was no sexual activity. I can't believe him and I'm a wreck.
Q. Here it goes. I have two children. One that is 2 and one that is 2 months. I just found out 3 weeks ago that my Husband went to three massage parlors through the past year. The first time he went was a month before I got pregnant. I confront...
A. 24 January 2013: Let me ask you a question: did he apologize and beg for your forgiveness? Or did he say he didn't do anything wrong and get upset when you accused him?
If he apologized he's guilty. It's a subconscious reaction to apologize when you're guilty e... (read in full...)
I really don't know what to do about my boyfriend: depression, year abroad etc.
Q. Hi everyone, i'm in a massive dilemma about what to do about my boyfriend. We've been together for just over two years now. We've had ups and downs, had two brief breakups in the past but we're back together and we're as happy as ever. We've alwa...
A. 24 January 2013: You are in a difficult spot and there isn't anything anyone can say that will make it easier, with the exception of your boyfriend.
There's no reason why you shouldn't be able to talk to him about it. Just pick a good time, maybe even share a ... (read in full...)
Do you think he wants to break up or work things out?
Q. Let's start with saying I am gay. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 6years he llived 60 miles away so we would meet up or I would go see him yes you would call it a long distance relationship . He got a job closer to we're I live ...
A. 24 January 2013: I don't understand how you've been with him for six years and don't know what was going on but you are asking a bunch of strangers what he was thinking.
I'd just ask him. You have to communicate with him. Six years is a long time.
There c... (read in full...)
Why is this guy telling people that we had a relationship?
Q. About five years ago I had a casual fling with a guy I met at a work do. By 'casual fling' I mean we met up, went on a few dates, had dinner together, etc. over a period of about three months. We were both working away a lot, so we must have seen ...
A. 24 January 2013: He's a loser who probably hasn't had a woman touch him since. Maybe you were the "love" of his life!
I'd tell him straight up: "I don't understand how you could think we had a serious relationship as it was anything but. However it doesn't ... (read in full...)
What do I wear?
Q. Basically I'm going out for a get together with this boy for what I know it's not a date it's just close friends getting together but I quite like him more than a friend. So I'm over thinking on how to dress and how to do my make up choice? Do I g...
A. 24 January 2013: Wear whatever is appropriate for where you're going, but just try to look as good as possible. Women look good dressed up or dressed down. If you over dress you may appear a little too eager. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 3 years chooses facebook over me
Q. I've been with my bf for almost 3 and a half years and I'm having some issues with him not responding to my texts in favor of facebook. I'm aware that this seems petty but let me explain. I will notice a lot of times that I'll text him and he ...
A. 24 January 2013: If he has an android phone you can install an app that has a pop up with your text on it. There is no app that it won't interrupt. So even if he doesn't hear it he'll see it.
It's "go sms", there are others as well. I phones probably have som... (read in full...)
Why cant my boyfriend tell me that he loves me?
Q. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 21 months hes 45 I'm 44 I'm divorced, he never married no kids. Last year after a scuffle and a very emotional deep conversation he mentioned that the only reason he never said I love you is because he ...
A. 24 January 2013: There's nothing you can do about it except to understand that some people simply cannot say "I love you".
It doesn't mean he doesn't feel as strongly as you do. It doesn't mean any of the bad things you might be thinking, and him not saying i... (read in full...)
My girlfriend lost her virginity at 16 and it makes me extremely jealous of her
Q. I've been going out with my girlfriend for months now, she is my first proper girlfriend and the first person I have sex with, I am 22 and she is 20 , she lost her virginity at 16 and it makes me extremely jealous of her , I cant stop picturing her ...
A. 24 January 2013: What is it exactly that's bothering you? That she had sex at 16? That she's not a virgin? Is that important to you for religious reasons?
You waited until relatively old to have sex, not everyone does. She didn't even know you existed at the time... (read in full...)
What do you think? Does he like me?
Q. So I've known him for a few months (mutual friend) and we finally hung out. Here are some things that happened. *he asked me personal questions. *told me a lot about himself and told me he doesn't share this stuff with everyone. Only people...
A. 24 January 2013: Duh... (read in full...)
Do men like the feeling of coming inside a woman?
Q. Hello I have a question for you guys.. Do men like the feeling when they ejaculate inside of a female? I'm just curious...
A. 24 January 2013: Of course, it's instinctual. ... (read in full...)
Are these the signs of an abusive relationship or am I being paranoid?
Q. I am a little worried about the relationship I have with my boyfriend, but I don’t know if I am being paranoid or not. A few years ago I was in an abusive relationship. My instinct at the time told me to get out, but I didn’t and I got hurt. ...
A. 24 January 2013: I don't see the same signs everyone else seems to... what it feels like to me is that you're (understandably) being a little paranoid because of your past.
That being said you should always trust your instinct, it's there for a reason.
Ther... (read in full...)
I want to get married but my partner's been married twice before and doesn't think he wants to marry me!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for going on 2 years. He recently told me that he loved me but wasn't in love with me. But he wanted to be. He said that he wanted to work on things. He stayed. Now he says that he loves me. And he is glad that he ...
A. 24 January 2013: Don't be so desperate to marry someone that you'll marry someone who doesn't seem to have strong feelings for you.
I don't blame him for not wanting to get married after two divorces. You'll probably have to accept that fact if you want to stay ... (read in full...)
Did I mean nothing to him the whole 7 months we were dating? He broke up with me because of his ex
Q. 5 weeks ago my boyfriend dumped me because he said he still has feelings for his ex girlfriend that he was with for 3.5 years. They broke up about 1 year ago. He was really honest about it, he cried too and said it will be hard for him letting me ...
A. 23 January 2013: You seem to be confused about something here, but I don't blame you, relationships are weird.
You were together for a relatively short period of time. Long enough to have real feelings, but not a very long time in the big picture of your life.
... (read in full...)
Why does my guy keep on his shirt and boxers during sex?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, and we have always been sexually compatible. However he always wears his shirt and boxers while we have sex. He will take his shirt off if I do it for Him, but it is never something he does on ...
A. 23 January 2013: If I had a dollar for every time a woman I was with was insecure about something she had no reason to be then I'd be rich.
Men aren't quite as bad, but we're not immune to insecurities.
I'd ask him why he's keeping them on; maybe you can he... (read in full...)
We are married but separated and husband has signed up for dating site. What steps do I take now?
Q. Hello I've had problems since I married and moved in together (been married 2 years. We have taken a 'break' where he has moved out. I find im a happier on my own, no stress of arguing about how much he drinks each evening, him not going to bed...
A. 23 January 2013: I wasn't seeing eye to eye with my wife and I insisted she was to blame for our problems because of her attitude problem.
She became so fed up that she wanted a separation.
From that moment I tried to figure out what was really going on ... (read in full...)
Gf sending dirty texts to another man
Q. Hi, I've been with my gf for nearly 3 years, it's had it's ups and downs but we've got through them, between us we have 4 children, she has 3 girls I have one boy. The two youngest girls dad left when the youngest was born, and hasn't been around ...
A. 23 January 2013: Personally I would dump her; she's got too much baggage and I can't be with someone who I can't trust. ... (read in full...)
I feel embarassed that I'm still a virgin
Q. I'm a senior in college and still a virgin. It's not for religious reasons so much (although I am a faithful person), but I've always felt you should lose your virginity to someone you really love and have a future with. I've had several serious ...
A. 23 January 2013: I agree with Tisha, seeing as how women are the submissive sex (in bed) experience is certainly less important than enthusiasm and an open mind. ... (read in full...)
Feeling neglected. Why doesn't my partner want to make love?
Q. Me and my partner have been together 2 and a half years and we love each other dearly. He is very affectionate and cuddles me and kisses me but when it's time for bed he just turns over and goes to sleep. Leaving me feeling frustrated, hurt and ...
A. 22 January 2013: Obviously I wasn't there to hear the conversation, but you need to remember that people are creatures of habit.
When you ask someone "how are you doing?" Do they usually say, "Bad."? No, they say, "Fine." or "Great."
Same goes for "Is there so... (read in full...)
We have been going out but she is still on website every day where we met. What's up with that?
Q. I have a met this woman on Match. She is divorced, same age as me. We have been talkling on the phone everyday, texting, emailing. I spent this past weekend at her house. We have been going out for a month. She told me that I am so different than ...
A. 22 January 2013: You're going to ruin any potential relationship with her if you can't learn to take it easy. I misread your original question; I thought you both agreed to take down your profiles, but I see she didn't agree to anything.
A few dates is a drop in ... (read in full...)
I think I need to be patient and keep showing my love for her despite us breaking up, any further advice on how I should proceed?
Q. Last January, I met a young woman online(let's call her Sue) and over the course of a few months we fell in love. We both live overseas in Europe; our countries are neighboring ones. I traveled to see her in the summer, we fell more in love but ...
A. 22 January 2013: If you read very many LDR questions on here you'll find that things are always great until you meet. That transition from a fantasy relationship to a real one is difficult.
Friends, family, chemistry, attractive, reality, etc. all can be too much... (read in full...)
Feeling neglected. Why doesn't my partner want to make love?
Q. Me and my partner have been together 2 and a half years and we love each other dearly. He is very affectionate and cuddles me and kisses me but when it's time for bed he just turns over and goes to sleep. Leaving me feeling frustrated, hurt and ...
A. 22 January 2013: Some people just aren't interested in sex. It's crazy but true. I wouldn't assume it has anything to do with you, it's probably just him.
What to do? I'm not sure there is much you can do. It's just one of those differences that you have to chose... (read in full...)
He broke up with me over text, when 4 days before he was telling me how much he loved me!
Q. I need help. I'm falling to pieces. I dated this NAVY guy online for 5 months before we met. I was skeptical at first, didn't want another dead end relationship. I told him I wasn't looking to get serious, I just wanted to chat and get to know ...
A. 22 January 2013: Nothing on that trip was real; not his feelings or yours. THAT'S the reason for your problems.
Dating someone who you've never met is fine, but there's no comparison to dating someone who's next to you. People are wired to need that intimacy... (read in full...)
She made me wait for her for 4 hours then I found out she lied about where she was! Shall I end it now?
Q. My girlfriend of 9 months told me she had to meet up with her girl friends for lunch, I had no objections to this. I was at a hotel when she went to lunch, I checked out of the Hotel at 1:30 pm, she was supposed to meet me around the check out time ...
A. 22 January 2013: Well you didn't say much about her other than this incident.
But if it didn't surprise you that she'd do something like this then yes, I'd be done with her.
On the other hand if she was great otherwise I'd probably not. She may have been ha... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont stop using dating sites but makes me out to be the bad guy! What have I done wrong?
Q. Will someone please understand where I went wrong and what I did what was wrong? I have dumped my girlfriend because yet again she is on dating sites. She is not letting it go and is behaving like I have done her the greatest injustice for leaving ...
A. 22 January 2013: Where did you go wrong?
The minute you met her! She's a lying, manipulative, b-tch.
Stop blaming yourself and start patting yourself on the back for being smart enough to dump her.
Now you just need to stop talking to her. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to look fake but I don't know how to do my makeup
Q. IM blonde blue eyes and i dont feel i am the prettiest of girls so inorder for me to look nice i like doing my make up but i have no idea how boys like it, i dont want to come acroos as fae but i still want to look nice, can you help me?...
A. 22 January 2013: Every guy is different. I'd say most prefer less makeup over more, or at least it should enhance your features as opposed to being the star of the show.
Go to YouTube and look at the different makeup tutorials, then find one that you like and... (read in full...)
We have been going out but she is still on website every day where we met. What's up with that?
Q. I have a met this woman on Match. She is divorced, same age as me. We have been talkling on the phone everyday, texting, emailing. I spent this past weekend at her house. We have been going out for a month. She told me that I am so different than ...
A. 22 January 2013: Have you met her in person? If so how long have you been dating in person?
If you haven't met or have only been on a few dates than don't expect anything from anyone at that point. I'd just drop it and open your account again until you've b... (read in full...)
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