Is there any chance a handsome guy could like a fat girl?
Q. Hello Dear Aunts and Uncles So, this is gonna be a silly question but i hope you could answer anyway... Well, there is this guy i met that i really like. We are in the same group of friends (i am new to the group). The thing is i don't know if...
A. 25 September 2013: There is no one type, so the only way to know is to put yourself out there and face a possible rejection. A rejection is something everyone, fat or not, has to risk. He certainly seems to like you as a friend, so I'm sure he would be grateful if he ... (read in full...)
She had a breakdown when I was her advisor and now 6 years later, she's sending me very strange emails. What do I do?
Q. About six years ago I advised a graduate student from China who didn't do well in the lab and failed to complete her project. She left with a Master's degree but also went a little nuts when she was here. I had to take her to the Psych ward at the ...
A. 25 September 2013: You know, I don't really think this is a huge deal. You helped her out and that often causes people to catch feelings. She is obviously not the mentally strongest person in the world, but I don't think she's psycho.
Just respond to her that you... (read in full...)
Does looking at and smiling at another woman in class mean a guy is interested in her?
Q. Hello. Just wondering what everybody thinks. My boyfriend is a group fitness instructor at a gym. I take part in some of his classes sometimes. What I noticed is that he has looked at an attractive blonde who is at the front of his cla...
A. 24 September 2013: Smiling is innocent. ... (read in full...)
Should I move on or give him some time?
Q. I've been on a few dates with this guy and he has been a gentleman, very romantic etc. He tells me that he likes me over and over again and that he wants to get to know me. We have kissed and cuddled only. Now my problem/ confusion is tha...
A. 24 September 2013: Lots of people do that, he's the rarity in that he's honest about it.
Your logic only makes sense if there's a commitment. ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with an extremely moody boyfriend?
Q. How do I deal with an extremely moody boyfriend? I've been with him for 4 years (he is 25, I'm 27) and he has always been moody but it's getting harder and harder to deal with these days. For example we have just returned from a trip abroad to s...
A. 24 September 2013: He needs a therapist, not a lecture from his girlfriend. If you're not willing to be patient with him while he gets help dealing with his moodiness, then I suggest breaking up.
My wife has an attitude problem, and sometimes, despite her best eff... (read in full...)
Do I ask her before I touch more intimately?
Q. Dear all, I am very inexperienced with women, although I do currently have a lovely girlfriend who I love and adore so very much. We've been intimate with touching each other, but I just had to ask how touch can be taken further? I massage my gir...
A. 24 September 2013: "May I please touch your butt?" just doesn't have a good ring to it. Assume that since you guys have been going out for so long and you're in your 30's that she's probably expecting it, unless she's stated she wants to wait for marriage.
Just ... (read in full...)
Is it against the law to save photos from facebook?
Q. I have taken to saving pictures of girls in my class wearing bikinis from Facebook or Twitter. All I want to know is if it is first of all legal and secondly if its creepy to do so. I've never shown anyone this and nobody knows I do it. I am ...
A. 23 September 2013: Creepy yes, illegal no.... (read in full...)
How can someone just give up on someone you claim you have great love for
Q. My ex and I of 3 years broke up offically about 3 months ago. We were on and off for the last year of our relationship. I heard rumors of him dating someone new but I didn't know or really want to know because it was so devastating to think he could ...
A. 23 September 2013: Just to reiterate, the bottom line is this: on and off again isn't really compatible with talking about the future.
Your bad feelings are also probably less about love than they are about rejection. When people get rejected they tend to romantic... (read in full...)
She asked him to cheat but I don't know what to think!
Q. Im going out with a boy who'd ex is also one of my friends. He dumped her after a huge arguement and she recently told me that she still has feelings for him. Just a week ago she wanted to break up with her current boyfriend. She didnt want to do it ...
A. 23 September 2013: There's nothing you can do to prevent him from cheating except being the best girlfriend you can be.
Don't worry about her. If he kisses her then he's a crappy boyfriend just as she's a crappy friend. ... (read in full...)
Why do guys pretend like they are looking for a great personality when it's really just physical attraction they are looking for? Why don't people just admit the shallow truth?
Q. From experience and observation, I know for a fact that a huge majority men do NOT give a crap about a woman's personality. They just instantly know whether they are going to put up with a woman's crap or not. If you find someone physical...
A. 22 September 2013: I don't think people are trying to claim that physical attraction is unimportant, it is, because as stated, that's the first thing you find out about someone.
When you first meet someone, if you're not at all attracted to them you probably... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity but neither have a good place for it.
Q. I am about 17 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I feel like i am ready to have sex with him but i haven't discussed it with him. I feel scared that if he says no that things will become uncomfortable between us and ...
A. 21 September 2013: I can safely say that every single issue you named is really not an issue unless your boyfriend is actually gay.
He wants to have sex with you, trust me.
He already has an idea of what you look like naked. And guys are waaaaay less cri... (read in full...)
He would make plans with me, then disappear and turn off his cell.
Q. hello I have a guy friend.he met me once. he would always make plans with me. but he wouldnt turn up on the day we make plans. Its always he who makes the plans. but finally when i call him on the day he made the plan his cell is off. goes direct...
A. 21 September 2013: What's the question?
He's an insensitive jerk, stop talking with him or this will just be something you'll have to get used to. ... (read in full...)
I ruined his birthday, but is it justified because his friendship with his ex was out of line.
Q. I'm talking to this guy and every now and then he goes and hangs out with his ex girlfriend. He knows that I don't like it at all because when hes with her I tell him not to speak to me. He tells me that hes sorry and hes trying to end things on a ...
A. 21 September 2013: Does "two wrongs don't make a right" ring a bell? If you want to be a healthy and happy adult, it's time to learn that when you don't like what your boyfriend does, you don't get revenge, you fix the problem. Revenge only makes things worse.
... (read in full...)
Why do guys like to do this in sex?
Q. I am in a relationship with a guy for 6 months now. When we make love I am very satisfied however he enjoys masturbating onto my face or into my mouth. I just don't get it. Why do guys think this is so great?...
A. 21 September 2013: It may be popularized by porn, but guys wouldn't be interested in it if there wasn't a basic attraction to the idea. Hence why Cerberus' answer is right, although I don't know if I'd equate it with spitting in someone's face. But it's definitely a ... (read in full...)
During our break, my ex sexted with a girl. What to do now?
Q. I recently got back together with my ex boyfriend, however I found out that he has been sexting his ex before me the whole time we were apart. What to do now? ...
A. 21 September 2013: Why are you asking complete strangers how you should react to this while giving almost no information here? You didn't even say how it made you feel.
The bottom line is that you were broken up, so what's the problem? ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a girl needs a cigarette after sex.
Q. What does it mean if a girl said right after sex: "after this I definitely need a cigarette". We met last week and had sex for the 1st time last night. Does it mean she enjoyed it? The issue is that she hasn't called or responded to my text. Tha...
A. 21 September 2013: Some people smoke after sex for some reason. It has absolutely no connection to her not responding to your text as fast as you'd like. I don't see where you made the connection. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is just getting his playboy magazine, now I am afraid to show him my own amateur pictures.
Q. Hi Everyone, I am having a problem trying to decide what to do. To give a little bit of a background, I have always had issues with my body and how I looked. I am pretty tall, 5'10" and have never been a skinny girl. Now, I'm not obese or severel...
A. 21 September 2013: Personally, I think the women in Playboy aren't sexy in any way (usually), so I don't understand why anyone wants it in the first place; waaaaay to fake (not even talking about the boobs).
Let me just say that if my wife did this I'd be in heave... (read in full...)
Is giving up on my crush the only choice?
Q. I am In Love with a girl in about 3 years. I've tried to tell her my feelings but she refused. Few mouths ago, another boys is crushing on her, and it looks like giving up is my only choice, what should I Do?...
A. 21 September 2013: Learn a lesson: you shouldn't tell someone your feelings until you are pretty sure they feel the same way. Play things cool. Instead of saying "I really like you" in hopes that it'll make her like you back, just ask her out to an event, like a ... (read in full...)
How can I marry him when his psycho mother is part of the package?
Q. I've been with my fiancé for 3 years and we have a baby daughter together the only thing I can't stand is his mother. Mother in law watched the birth of my daughter against my wishes and tries to take over with my daughter (buys milk and nappies) ...
A. 21 September 2013: Step 1: Stop living with someone you hate.
Step 2: See what happens. ... (read in full...)
Is the guy I like playing hard to get?
Q. Hello! I really like this guy in my school. He recently found out about my depression I had before. This happened because my friends were just causally talking about it. My friend told her best guy friend which is best friends with the guy I like. I ...
A. 20 September 2013: Yeah, guys don't usually play hard to get. But, honestly I have no idea what your question is, maybe you can clarify. ... (read in full...)
How can we shake things up in the bedroom without him getting offended?
Q. Me and my partner are engaged and we have a 3 month old daughter together. We are best friends and generally very happy but I'm just not getting as hot for him in the bedroom as I used too. It's taking me an hour to climax and he can't get me wet at ...
A. 20 September 2013: Your problem isn't boredom, it's a boyfriend who could care less about your boredom. He'd rather you be unhappy than have his feeling hurt.
After awhile, most people get bored in the bedroom. Probably because humans were not monogamous, we lived... (read in full...)
How can I tell whether this girl likes me without directly asking her?
Q. I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks now and we are very open with each other and we get along great. But I don't know if she likes me or not and I asked her once but it was when we had just started talking. Is there any way of know that ...
A. 20 September 2013: Asking a girl if she likes you is for guys in high school. Asking a girl out is for men. I'm saying this because you just have to do it. I knew you weren't successful with women because you asked this question. All you have to do to change that is ... (read in full...)
Should I be jealous if my boyfriend commented on one of his FB friend's picture and told her she looked gorgeous?
Q. Should I be jealous if my boyfriend commented on one of his FB friend's picture and told her she looked gorgeous? I happen to see that once because it appeared on my wall and I've seen do that a few times and maybe more that I don't know about. Is ...
A. 19 September 2013: You can feel whatever you want to feel. But, if his intentions are innocent and you try to make him feel bad for it you'll be weakening your relationship when you should be putting your efforts toward strengthening it. ... (read in full...)
Should I be jealous if my boyfriend commented on one of his FB friend's picture and told her she looked gorgeous?
Q. Should I be jealous if my boyfriend commented on one of his FB friend's picture and told her she looked gorgeous? I happen to see that once because it appeared on my wall and I've seen do that a few times and maybe more that I don't know about. Is ...
A. 19 September 2013: You can feel whatever you want to feel. But, if his intentions are innocent and you try to make him feel bad for it you'll be weakening your relationship when you should be putting your efforts toward strengthening it. ... (read in full...)
Should I worry about my boyfriend liking another girl
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. I have dated a lot of guys but never felt so in love until my current boyfriend. I have never thought about a future with any guy until my current boyfriend. I am attracted to him in every way. He has such ...
A. 19 September 2013: It sounds to me that your problems stem from the abuse and cheating you suffered, your insecurity and the fact that you seem to have found a great guy.
You've been hurt before so your instinct tells you it'll happen again, and on top of that you... (read in full...)
Do any penis enlargement creams/pills work?
Q. are there any penis enlargement pills,cream,etc that actually work?...
A. 19 September 2013: If there was, don't you think every guy in the planet would have tried them by now? ... (read in full...)
He says he no longer loves me-- how can I change his mind?
Q. This will be long, so bare with me.... I am 32, my boyfriend 35. We have been together for almost 4 years and live together. I have two children, both with special needs, from a previous relationship; they are not home on weekends. Our relationsh...
A. 19 September 2013: The best way to change his mind is to find a place and move out as soon as possible. Don't talk about your relationship anymore, don't talk about anything you don't have to.
When you move out, don't call him at all.
If this doesn't work, no... (read in full...)
He says he no longer loves me-- how can I change his mind?
Q. This will be long, so bare with me.... I am 32, my boyfriend 35. We have been together for almost 4 years and live together. I have two children, both with special needs, from a previous relationship; they are not home on weekends. Our relationsh...
A. 19 September 2013: The best way to change his mind is to find a place and move out as soon as possible. Don't talk about your relationship anymore, don't talk about anything you don't have to.
When you move out, don't call him at all.
If this doesn't work, no... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has been adding guys on Facebook, another girl told me to be wary of her. Am I being paranoid or should I worry?
Q. dear aunts and uncles, my gf lately has been adding on facebook a few guys and that makes me feel insecure, i trust her but im not feeling cofortable with it. last night a girl who knows my gf told me to be careful with her as she is not the person ...
A. 18 September 2013: Don't believe someone who obviously doesn't like your girlfriend over your actual girlfriend.
Obviously part of the story is true, but as far as the "she's not who you think she is" crap, forget about it.
I think adding a bunch of guys on... (read in full...)
How can I tell whether this girl likes me without directly asking her?
Q. I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks now and we are very open with each other and we get along great. But I don't know if she likes me or not and I asked her once but it was when we had just started talking. Is there any way of know that ...
A. 18 September 2013: There's plenty of clues, but it's something you're going to have to just have some intuition about. There is so much variation among women and some people will appear to like you even when they're just friendly.
So, do what all guys who are succ... (read in full...)
What are possible reasons for a man to distance himself when another woman is NOT involved?
Q. I'd like to know some of the main reasons a man (35) would distance himself, after 3 years together, to the point of a break up if there isn't another woman involved. Let's say said man is distancing himself, drastically, but still telling hi...
A. 18 September 2013: Unfortunately, it's over. He wants you there waiting for him because of his abandonment issues, but he doesn't actually want you in his life anymore.
As long as you allow him to do this he will.
Text him and say that you are done wondering w... (read in full...)
My b/f of 6 years cheated on me with my friend and now I have trust issues!
Q. Hello, i am in a relation with my boy friend for about 6 years. We met in in college .He had an affair with my friend while we were together i came to know about that and told him i was disappointed because i believed him a lot, he said that he made ...
A. 18 September 2013: When you hurt someone by cheating on them, at the very least you owe them honesty and a chance to heal. If I was you I'd tell your boyfriend that you can't move on if he's not willing to come clean with you. If he doesn't care enough about you to do ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want kids because he's afraid he could pass on his Aspergers
Q. I'm 30, my boyfriend is 25, and we've been together for 4 years. He has Aspergers syndrome but doesnt show many of the stereotypes (well apart from "special interest" but that's also his job - ironically, he doesn't talk much about it, shifts the ...
A. 18 September 2013: Why not adopt? ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's wandering eye
Q. Please help!!! I have been seeing someone for about 9 months now and i have a problem. I was coming out of an elevator with him and there was a girl and her mom in there. The girl and her mom got out the elevator and once we got out i started ...
A. 18 September 2013: Looking is something almost every guy does. Some just hide it better or respect the person they're with enough not to do it right in front of them.
So looking won't indicate he's going to cheat. What is a red flag to me is that he was in a freaki... (read in full...)
I don't want to nag my boyfriend and keep asking if everything is ok but something seems wrong!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He's there for me when he is available, I can tell him anything and we are good at being level headed and not fighting with each other. I am concerned, he seems to be pulling away lately. ...
A. 18 September 2013: This is most likely all a symptom of depression. So, he needs to treat his depression or this will be the new normal for things.
There's nothing you can do except motivate him to get help. If he already is (through drugs/th... (read in full...)
My b/f of 6 years cheated on me with my friend and now I have trust issues!
Q. Hello, i am in a relation with my boy friend for about 6 years. We met in in college .He had an affair with my friend while we were together i came to know about that and told him i was disappointed because i believed him a lot, he said that he made ...
A. 18 September 2013: You have trust issues for a good reason. In my opinion, if someone cheats, if you don't address the problem it will happen again.
So first you have to get him to open up about why it happened.
Was he drunk? Maybe his judgement while ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble coping with anxiety.
Q. This isn't really a relationship problem but my complete lack of a love life is a big part of how I feel. I suffer from depression and anxiety... depression about my lack of a love life and anxiety about my work life. I was in a pretty shitty jo...
A. 18 September 2013: The key here is that you appear to be scared/terrified of leaving your comfort zone. Regarding women, jobs, accidents, etc.
When you think your life sucks why are you worried about what would happen if things don't go exactly as planned when you... (read in full...)
Will he be hurt if I don't see him on his birthday?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now,we work in 2 different cities and we are both doctors!so for us its a task meeting,whenever we find time we try to meet.. Its my boyfriends birthday in 2 weeks and I just found out I have to be on du...
A. 18 September 2013: I wouldn't care, but some people would think it was the end of the world (search the archives for birthday). It's best to ask him and tell him that you want him to be honest. ... (read in full...)
His toxic ex won't respect our relationship!
Q. We've been together 3 yrs, we just got engaged recently and plan to be married soon. We both were married before for 18+ yrs. My ex is only I the picture due to our 4 kids, his ex is in the picture because she can't live without him in her life. ...
A. 18 September 2013: I'm only addressing one aspect of this: you asked whether you should leave him and let them be friends. Normally I'm all for being willing to leave someone if they won't give you what you want. But in this case I feel like you may be marrying ... (read in full...)
Is Ex-Girlfriend's mother using me?
Q. I am 42. I was in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for 9 months but she broke up with me eighteen months ago to concentrate on a new business. Her mother contacted me a few weeks ago out of the blue. After several days of small ta...
A. 18 September 2013: Do you think she actually liked you? Did you like her? If the answer is no to either I'd wonder. I'm sure my family would keep in touch with my wife if we divorced, but that's entirely different than a relatively short LDR. ... (read in full...)
What's up with him only wanting sex with me from behind?
Q. My boyfriend wants to have sex with me only from behind… what is that all about? ... It is comming on the fift year we are together and for last couple of years it is just that one position. From behind. I am bored, I love him very much and I can ...
A. 18 September 2013: I don't think you're asking too much at all and I do think you guys have the beginnings of some serious problems. People who acknowledge their problems but refuse to try and fix themselves are never going to be good spouses.
My wife has some iss... (read in full...)
What are possible reasons for a man to distance himself when another woman is NOT involved?
Q. I'd like to know some of the main reasons a man (35) would distance himself, after 3 years together, to the point of a break up if there isn't another woman involved. Let's say said man is distancing himself, drastically, but still telling hi...
A. 17 September 2013: Love doesn't usually just disappear when you decide you don't want to be with someone. After all, they were likely your closest companion for three years.
It's hard to break up with someone, this is his way of trying to make it easy on both of ... (read in full...)
What's up with him only wanting sex with me from behind?
Q. My boyfriend wants to have sex with me only from behind… what is that all about? ... It is comming on the fift year we are together and for last couple of years it is just that one position. From behind. I am bored, I love him very much and I can ...
A. 17 September 2013: He sounds like he's obsessive compulsive or something.
I can't imagine a girl telling me she's bored with our sex life and me telling her "tough", so other than expressing yourself better I don't know what else to suggest. ... (read in full...)
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