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We hooked up twice and now he ignores me

Q.   hey there, so i have a slight problem, i have this friend we use to date back in the day but it didnt work out for a few reasons, but recently we have partied with each other a couple times we hooked up twice, he does have a girlfriend and i feel h...

A.   30 January 2012: thank you everyone, just wish i could find someone that i mean the world to them, it sucks being alone but thank you.... (read in full...)

My Dad asked me to tell a serious lie. I feel bad about that. Should I cut contact with him?

Q.   Hey everyone so its been awhile since i have been on here but i could really use some help, so this morning my dad called me and he lives six hours away from me and i only see him once in a great while and he asked me if i could do a favor for him ...

A.   10 October 2011: thank you everyone! I wont cut contact that was stupid for me to even think of doing but i have yet to talk to him cuz im not ready to, this isnt the only thing he has done to upset or hurt me about so im just going to wait tell im ready to confront ... (read in full...)

Is he making excuses for me to not go out with him and friends?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have gone through some issues, mostly with me and my trust issues. Then when we were going through those, he became less and less sweet. He hasn't become mean; he's just become nonchalant and blah about everything, like he just ...

A.   7 October 2011: This is a tough one cuz there could be so many possiblities to this, how do you act when you guys are all out togethter? are you clingy to him? do you try to have all the attintion on you? im just trying to figure this one out im not saying its your ... (read in full...)

Past issues with my boyfriend are making me not trust him

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years. We argue excessively, to the point where he calls me hateful names such as 'bitch' and 'dickhead' and then accuses me of being over-emotional when I become upset. Last year, I found texts on...

A.   10 February 2011: well hun i would say let go of him, he obviouly hasnt learned. i would just keep turning him down if he keeps coming back and begging you for forgiveness, you deserve way better than that any girl would. and if he keeps coming back and doesnt stop ... (read in full...)

Should I be upset about my boyfriend comment about a cute girl?

Q.   Do i have the right to be upset that my boyfriend was talking about his class and said "I got the lucky pick of the cutest girl to work with" He knows i have jealousy and trust issues cuz all my past bf's have cheated on me, he even cheated on me in ...

A.   10 February 2011: this is kinda ironec cuz the same thing happend to me just not in a class or anything my bf cheated on me in the first couple months of our relationship by texting a girl for nacked pics. and he to knows that i have jealousy and trust issues and he ... (read in full...)

People do not seem to like me

Q.   i donot know how to start really... i am a mom of three children and happily married. my problem can be summed up in a few words. PEOPLE DO NOT SEEM TO LIKE ME. this problem goes way back since my childhood. i barely had friends and the same problem ...

A.   10 February 2011: well this is kinda tough cuz you should just be you when your around people, it must really suck not having any friends but your not left out i dont have many friends either its kinda hard to come past good people. if you want to interact with your ... (read in full...)

Sometimes I just wish my boyfriend would cheat on me! It would make things so much easier

Q.   I can't stop thinking about an online friend. I have thought about other people previously but never acted on it. I am nearly 25 years old and have been with my partner for nearly 8 years. Before him I had 1 other boyfriend of a few months whom ...

A.   9 February 2011: well when i read this i got very interested in it, for one you are not a bad person so get that out of your head, things like this happens i think maybe your just falling out of love with this person you guys have been dating for so long you guys ... (read in full...)

How can I trust my bf and quit having negative thoughts?

Q.   hey everyone i really need some edvice, i always think negative and im a huge worry wart. my bf and i have been dating for ten months and in the first two months he texted this girl naughty mess. and i found out and contronted him and he told me ...

A.   7 February 2011: Haha that's what won me over was when he cried :) And thank you, I've been trying really hard to think good thoughts. It's just really hard for me and I dont know why.... (read in full...)

Is he telling the truth or could he be a very good liar?

Q.   Hey there, So i have quite the problem here and i would really like some opinions on what i should maybe do. Ok so my bf and i have been dating for a little over three months now and i honestly love him so much and have fallin hard for him, i stay ...

A.   13 July 2010: thank you that honestly does help...and yea its very hard expecially since he lives 20 min away and i dont know what goes on when im not over there...i sit here every day crying and in pain and i dont even know when ill be going over to his place ... (read in full...)

I don't want to end the relationship but I want him to stop being mean and texting other girls!

Q.   hey there i have quite the problem and i have no clue what to do about it...my bf well hes a jack ass but he can be so sweet too... two weekends ago i found out the three times during our relationship he texted a girl he had sex with before dating ...

A.   9 June 2010: thanks everyone but i really dont want to end the relationship everything is going fine now we just decided that i shouldnt be staying the night all the time and to give each other space...i dont like it but if thats what he wants then its worth a ... (read in full...)

I feel my whole relationship is based on a lie...

Q.   hey there i think i need to break up with my bf but i honestly cant i try to get the courage up but i back down and some how im the one saying sorry when he should be the one saying it. ok well this is what i mean by i should probably break up...

A.   17 February 2010: but thats the thing. i dont wanna break up with him i really do love him and dont wanna lose him, i wanna try and make us work... (read in full...)

I feel my whole relationship is based on a lie...

Q.   hey there i think i need to break up with my bf but i honestly cant i try to get the courage up but i back down and some how im the one saying sorry when he should be the one saying it. ok well this is what i mean by i should probably break up...

A.   16 February 2010: ive thought of doing that, but im scared cuz i think i already know what there will be more of :( i just dont understand how all of this has changed so much since we first started dating....i wish i owned a time travling system to just go back in ... (read in full...)

I feel my whole relationship is based on a lie...

Q.   hey there i think i need to break up with my bf but i honestly cant i try to get the courage up but i back down and some how im the one saying sorry when he should be the one saying it. ok well this is what i mean by i should probably break up...

A.   16 February 2010: but thats the thin also...he knows he needs to change too and i have cheated on him and he took me back...i feel like i dont have a good enough reason to let him go...i may not always be happy but i just dont think i have the strength to let go of ... (read in full...)

I feel my whole relationship is based on a lie...

Q.   hey there i think i need to break up with my bf but i honestly cant i try to get the courage up but i back down and some how im the one saying sorry when he should be the one saying it. ok well this is what i mean by i should probably break up...

A.   16 February 2010: he is my 2nd love...i have been once before its just this one is stronger...and we both use to be sooo freaken happy and fun and enjoying the love and we both wanna get back to that i miss it :'( ...the reason we dont have that anymore is because i ... (read in full...)

I feel my whole relationship is based on a lie...

Q.   hey there i think i need to break up with my bf but i honestly cant i try to get the courage up but i back down and some how im the one saying sorry when he should be the one saying it. ok well this is what i mean by i should probably break up...

A.   15 February 2010: everyone tells me to break up with him, he even told me that we are not a good couple but he grabbed a hold of me and told me he loves me and dont wanna let go. and i feel the same way with him, i know im still so young but i swear that the feelings ... (read in full...)

My step dad is in the army and bosses us around like we are little soldiers.

Q.   Well, i have a huge problem with my step-dad. It may sound ridiculous but i really cant stand him. Hes in the army and thats one of the problems. He works in a different town and is only home on the weekends for the most part. But when he is home i ...

A.   6 February 2010: well my thoughts on this one is to sit down with him and try to calmly talk to him about it...if he starts to yell or say something you dont like to hear just calmly get up and walk away..dont yell back. and like the other person on hear said, when ... (read in full...)

He forced himself on me after I said no, then 4 days later he broke up with me! I just feel so down all the time and don't know what to do next

Q.   Hello, i was recently in a relationship with a boy 1 year older, im 13 and hes 14. We were having regular meetings and having foreplay almost everytime, we were both virgins, until the other day he asked if i wanted to go all the way and i straight ...

A.   3 January 2010: wel first off your way better off with out him you should be proud that you got up and left no guy should treat a girl like that or vice versa. Just keep your chin up and move on there are more boys out there better ones, and you will find one your ... (read in full...)

I think I'm gay so what should I do?

Q.   im 17 year old male. when i masterbate i think of boys and i enjoy use anal toys and thinking there penis, i do think about woman but they dont turn me on as much. i think im gay so what should i do??...

A.   28 December 2009: its perfectly fine to be gay dont worry about what other people think. Maybe go to an online safe chat room with gays and talk to them and get there opinion on your question they might be able to help. But if you highly feel your gay all you can do ... (read in full...)

Trust issues with the boyfriend

Q.   hey there i need alot of edvice on this one...i have trust issues with my bf and i really think that our relationship is getting rocky but i dont want to loose him, we both think we have a some what un healthy relationship becuse of trust isuues, ...

A.   25 December 2009: that was amazing thank you... (read in full...)

I can't handle getting treated with no respect, I could use some advice on how to fix that!

Q.   hey there i have a problem with my bf. he can be the biggest sweet heart ever but then sometimes its like he doesnt care, i wanted to think its because he is a guy and they like there space and i kinda think he acts this way because of that but i do...

A.   24 December 2009: thanks i just really dont want to lose him and i do admit i am clingy ill back off a little :D keep in touch... (read in full...)

He was a manwhore..do you think he still is?

Q.   hey there!, Well there is this guy i dated back a few months ago and well we broke up cuz he lives 2 hours away but now he is moving down soon, well he was sorta a man whore in 8th grade and now hes in 9th and he told me he isnt like that anymore ...

A.   21 May 2009: well his status on myspace says single... (read in full...)

Have I definately lost my virginity and was this actual sex?

Q.   im 15 years old and ive fancied this boy from school for a while now whos 16 but in my year (11). hes fancied me for about a year we talk all the time out of school but hardly ever while we're there. i was a bit scared of asking him out because ...

A.   13 May 2009: well i have experienced this all... im 16 and i have been taken advatage and im sorry but it was sex, and yes it is noraml for that much pain and it might not be the last time to have pain cuz sex does tend to hurt the legs and stuff cuz of the ... (read in full...)

What does his body language reveal?

Q.   When a guy can't make eye contact with you, what does it mean? If i try to make eye contact with him he just looks straight ahead and wont look at me when he talks to me or he'll look at me for a split second then look down quick. Then if i'm not ...

A.   13 May 2009: well to me i think he likes you, but you never know with guys, but with alot of the guys that has liked me did the same thing..and i have done it to guys to haha sorry if this doesnt help, maybe you could try starting a conversation and see if there ... (read in full...)

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