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writes:Hey ladies, set 2:Question 4: Have you ever fantasised about one of your boyfriends/ husbands friends?My answer: Once or twiceQuestion 5: Do you secretly watch porn behind your mans back? Well we know a lot of men do this and try to keep it secret, what about you?My answer: Nope not me, I have watched it but it's not really my cup of tea.Question 6: Has a partner who's crap in the bedroom ever been a deal breaker for you? My answer: I'm afraid so, in the past, but these days I'd probably try and do something about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2012): Have you ever fantasized about one of your boyfriends/ husbands friends?
No, I don't find them attractive. They're great people and all, but I just don't feel that way about them.
Do you secretly watch porn behind your mans back? Well we know a lot of men do this and try to keep it secret, what about you?
Porn doesn't do anything for me. I tried it when I was younger, and actually found it funny, not arousing. If I were to watch it, I wouldn't keep it a secret.
Has a partner who's crap in the bedroom ever been a deal breaker for you?
I think that would be a deal breaker for anybody.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (14 November 2012):
 I'll be honest.
1) Sure I have. In my fantasies, everybody is fair game. All kinds of people creep in there. Frankly, I can count on one hand the number of sexy celebrities... not interested, I guess. But otherwise? All kinds of unexpected people show up. I'm sure a few of his friends have popped in. It's always a surprise.
2) Yeah, I'll watch porn. I don't know that it's some big secret, but it's definitely ME time. If he's out of town for the night or out with the guys until God-knows-what-hour, sure. I usually don't watch porn with females in it though... they either look miserable or they're too loud and annoy me.
3) I've only been with the one... and he wasn't a deal breaker, since I ended up with him in the end.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (14 November 2012):
4) No, never
5) Porn just makes me laugh
6) No, its something you can always improve over time
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (14 November 2012):
 Hey ladies, set 2:
Question 4: Have you ever fantasied about one of your boyfriends/ husbands friends?
answer: No, that I can recall.
Question 5: Do you secretly watch porn behind your mans back? Well we know a lot of men do this and try to keep it secret, what about you?
answer: No, the idea of porn doesn't get me going - I have a very well developed imagination.
Question 6: Has a partner who's crap in the bedroom ever been a deal breaker for you?
answer: no, there is always room for improvement.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (14 November 2012):
 Question 4: Have you ever fantasised about one of your boyfriends/ husbands friends?
I can't remember, but probably not, he doesn't have attractive friends.
Question 5: Do you secretly watch porn behind your mans back? Well we know a lot of men do this and try to keep it secret, what about you?
No. Porn is a dealbreaker for me, it would make me a pretty big hypocrite if I told him he can't watch but I can. Obviously I have watched before though.
Question 6: Has a partner who's crap in the bedroom ever been a deal breaker for you?
Never the only reason, but it's certainly contributed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2012): 4 yes and usually he was the one encouraging it. He likes me to talk about other guys and wanting two men at once.
5 I watch without mentioning it but its not a secret. If he's home and I wanna watch we do it together. I wouldnt lie about it.
6 No I like being a teacher in the bedroom
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2012): Question 4: Have you ever fantasised about one of your boyfriends/ husbands friends?
My answer: Never!
Question 5: Do you secretly watch porn behind your mans back? Well we know a lot of men do this and try to keep it secret, what about you?
My answer: watched once, but I felt quite bad for the women did not turn me on at all, I thought they must not be enjoying that at all which actually made me feel sorry for them...
Question 6: Has a partner who's crap in the bedroom ever been a deal breaker for you?
My answer: nay, other reasons like cheating, physical abuse can be deal breakers, that one in particular never
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2012): Question 4: I rarely ever fantasize about other people that aren't my current boyfriend, I have had very vague fantasies but not full on ones.
Question 5: Does too men shagging count? because I was only looking at the actions it isn't the same as fantasizing about the actors. Again I never think of the actor in the vid, if I was straight porn I think of my current boyfriend.
Question 6: My ex was not passionate enough and it was frustrating. I had a rebound relationship who was appauling but that finished thank god.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 November 2012):
 Question 4: Have you ever fantasised about one of your boyfriends/ husbands friends?
didn't have to I slept with most of them.... boring.
my fantasy now when I'm alone is about my husband... boring I know..
Question 5: Do you secretly watch porn behind your mans back? Well we know a lot of men do this and try to keep it secret, what about you?
I have watched porn alone or with my man... never a secret... and he does not keep his watching secret either...
Question 6: Has a partner who's crap in the bedroom ever been a deal breaker for you?
nope married him anyway.
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reader, Staceily +, writes (13 November 2012):
 Well I'm pretty boring.
Question 4: No, never fantasized about anyone at all while with my husband.
Question 5: No, I haven't watched porn or even masturbated in over 2 years. So I certainly have no need to do it behind his back.
Question 5: No, I have never left someone because they were bad in the bedroom. I am in a serious relationship at the point of having sex and leaving only because sex wasn't amazing doesnt make sense to me. I have had bad sex though, we just talked and worked on it until it worked better for me so it didn't stay terrible.
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