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writes:It's so horrible it's eating away at me everyday i resent him a bit for it even though it happened before we were together but my friend told me before we even met. Basically my boyfriend has slept with my best friend,She then shortly after got into a relationship with his brother they have been together a while and have a child and he doesn't know about it either. I don'tt understnd why my boyfriend never tld his brother because they have such a close relationship and when my friend got with his brother it was just sex ( surely my partner would say ''oh i've slept with her'') However if you knew my boyfriend and his bro they were like male slags when they were younger and shared numbers of various women etc etc if you get my drift!! My boyfriend and my friend argue constantly it's weird i sit there crying in the middle of the night thinking of all the craziest explanations as to why ! For example Did he not tell his brother because they carried on an affair?, Is he with me to get back at her for being with his brother? She Knows i know but recently made a comment as if it never happened or has ever happened. I really want to ask myboyfriend if i carried on it's so confusing PLEASE HELP PLEASE
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 You say you knew about your friend sleeping with your partner even before you met him .... if it didnt bother you then, why let it bother you now.
As for your partner not telling his brother, maybe he doesnt think its so important, maybe he doesnt want to upset their relationship because a child is involved, maybe he didnt care, you really need to ask your boyfriend why, not us.
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