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30-35,
*abygirl777
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. He is 22 and I am 23. The problem we are having at the moment is he is planning to go to a place with his friends in summer where there are lots of unsavoury things going. this place opens in summer, it has lots of clubs, beaches, hotels etc. and people usually go there for sex or drugs. he wants to go there with his friends to stay for some days for holiday.I am really worried. I trust him because he has been fully honest to me until now but he is going there with his single friends. He already told me they go there to find girls. they will also get drunk. despite all these things, he tells me that he wont cheat on me.He had a 2 year relationship before me and it finished 1 and half year ago. she was not letting him go anywhere. thats why he now wants to go and live his life. He told me that he doenst want to be in a relationship like before.he means that he doesnt want me to stop him from going anywhere, including this holiday village.We had an argument because he got really annoyed at me just because i was worried about this holiday plan. we almost broke up.I never limit him but about this place, I am realy sensitive.I dont know what to do...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2012): How about surprising him and going up there with your friends? Would you go? Or use this time wisely. Use it not to wonder if he's going to 'play' around. You must be just as attractive to have a man in your life, so why not use this time to make something of yourself. Don't waste your precious young self into wondering what he's doing but use this time to put yourself up there. You seem like a wonderful gal that any man worth your time would do anything for you!
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