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writes:For 18 months i have been in a relationship. I knew she had seen a married man long before we met. I never thought much as mistakes do happen. Yesterday we were talking in bed. Its now she tells me that i`m the only single guy she was interested in. Its now clear she actively looked for married men. What i find hard to cope with is that when i asked if she feels any guilt to his family,she calmly says,"no,why should i""if some boring cow cant give him what he needs then its her fault,if it wasnt me it would be someone else. Then she told me that she slept with a married guy,and because he never got back to her,she went to his house while he was in and told his wife,describing things so she knew it was true,laughing as she told it. I really am having a hard time seeing the same woman i thought i was with. Its not jealousy,i cant accept how she could be so hard,not to mention she has on a couple of occasions accused me of looking at women when we were out. Called me a liar and looked like she could have easily got violent had i not reassured her. What do people think? I am not sure i want to be with her any longer.
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reader, _Katy_Did_  +, writes (25 February 2010):
 Wow...All I have to say is, what a bitch...And if she could possibly be so cruel and cold towards these families, who's to say she won't treat you the same way? Laugh in your face when you're upset, totally throw your feelings out the window, be proud of hurting you...Those kinds of things. She sounds mean. I'd get out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2010): Women like these will ultimately end up trying to kill you.I have known of many such cases where the guy escaped barely alive.She needs help.If you don't want to be with her any longer don't be.A violent person is dangerous to be around.Anyone who gets angry so easily at the drop of a hat should be avoided at all costs.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 February 2010):
 Yikes and yikes again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2010): i would take issue with laura1318's view of it and take everyone else's. some people feel nothing and dont care who they hurt. karma will deal with them. i cant understand why people can be so selfish and indifferent unless its happening to them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2010): Gets jealous yet enjoys other girls fellas? She knows right from wrong. I would end it. No mistakes,she knew what she was doing. If you decide to end it,being the nasty piece of work what she is,i would park your car where she cant find it and put up cctv. She has shown what happens when faced with rejection. She is too high risk.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 February 2010):
Have nothing to do with her. To go to a wife, tell her that she was having an affair with her husband and laugh while she did it is so low she never deserves to be happy. Have nothing to do with her. She's clearly got major league issues in her head. Just run.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (25 February 2010):
 Women who have acted the role of mistress will rationalize the way she did. Otherwise , they would not become somebody's mistresses.
To those who heard it the first time ,it sounds callous,indifferent, insensitive and heartless.That's the nature of those women who chose to become mistresses.
It looks like your feet is now touching the ground and you can see all her sins and imperfections. No one is perfect.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (25 February 2010):
 By her behavior, she's just told you everything you need to know to understand what kind of person she truly is:
1.She's vindictive, has no conscience, is insanely jealous and potentially violent.
2. She gets off on destroying people's lives.
3. She has issues with other women. The fact that she refers to her married lover's wife as a "boring cow" tells me that she has a need to feel superior to other women and sees them as competition; she needs to "win" by sleeping with someone else's man. If you think about it, her reaction when she thought you were looking at other women pretty much confirms this.
Seriously, this woman is a headcase. Run for your life!
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reader, fishdish +, writes (25 February 2010):
 My initial thoughts were--hey that was in the past and now she found you, a single guy, and you don't have to worry about her transgressions, whether she considers them to be ones or not---up until the part where she explained going in the house and laughing off destroying a family..i mean, that's a little sociopathic i find. the way i can justify her reaction/behavior is that this was a long time ago and she's laughing at her ballsy-ness? if you do decide to keep her in your life try to make sure that you tell her you want a super honest relationship so that if you know she is getting unhappy (a wandering eye) she lets you know..i dont know this really does seem like a bad omen, though and i personally wouldn't risk investing myself in a person like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2010): She doesn't seem like a very nice person, and she certainly has bad morals. If I were you, I would get the heck out of there!
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (25 February 2010):
 I certainly wouldn't want to be with her. Very bad attitude.
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