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I think my teacher had a crush on me, and now I find myself questioning how I feel about him, all of a sudden?
Q. A teacher this year, that taught me in a subject that wasn't my strongest, so I'd always coming for extra help after school, and naturally we got to know each other, but as the year came to an end, I started to realize that he was treating me ...
A. 4 July 2008: I think you should keep in touch emailing, and then if you still are romantically interested, maybe ask him in a few months if he wants to meet for lunch one day to talk face-to-face.
Is he seeing someone? If he is, you shouldn't try to ask him ... (read in full...)
I'm interested in my teacher, what should I do?
Q. I know that there are like thousands of posts on here about this topic but non of them seem to help me with my pain. I've just left school and moving onto college next year but I love my female science teacher to bits, she is the most amazing wom...
A. 4 July 2008: I say go for it. I mean, you'll always wonder what would have happened if you had not at least given it a try. If you all are really as close as it seems you are, she'll let you down easy if she's not interested--she's not going to rip your heart ... (read in full...)
I've just started having 'night terrors' again, how do I stop these horrible dreams?
Q. Hey. I don't really know how to say this, so I'll just come out with it. When I was a little girl, I had terrible dreams, of extreme pain and bad things happening, and would wake up with scratches and cuts all over my body. Sometimes I'd even...
A. 22 June 2008: This could actually be a sign of a medicial condition. Night terrors are common symptoms for ailments that affect various areas of the brain. You should really see a doctor. If nothing else, he could give you some medication to calm your ... (read in full...)
What's a good movie genre for a date? I want one that will make it easy to touch her hand or kiss!
Q. i'm due to go on date to cinema with my friend. I want to kiss her, but problem is there's no romantic film out to watch, in fact there's so many horror movies. Is horror movie good to watch? Any genre film which will make her or make it easy for me ...
A. 22 June 2008: Horror/thiller movies are best if no comedy or romantic comedy is available. I think if your aiming for hand holding more than you are a movie that you both will really enjoy, horror is what you're looking for. The "Indiana Jones" movie was good, ... (read in full...)
The Infamous "I have a crush on my teacher" Story
Q. The infamous “I have a crush on my teacher” post has once again graced the pages of this website, but I assure you, this post is quite different, and again, you probably have heard this many times before. I’m sorry if I’m wasting the time of the ...
A. 21 June 2008: Well, quite contrary to the introduction, I found your story very much the same as all of the others on this site. I also would like to contend that if you really were happy for his happiness, you would not be in agony over your feelings... you ... (read in full...)
I need help on what to say to the education authorities, over a teacher's inappropriate behavior...
Q. i need to make sure that my teacher gets what he deserves, because he used to constantly email me, took me home, hugged me loads of times, etc etc im not going to write the whole essay cause, well, its SO long! but basically this person from ...
A. 21 June 2008: I'd say stick with the facts--don't try to fill in his supposed feelings in any of the incidents. They'll probably ask for your thoughts on whatever happened, so just wait for the question. If you start making it more of a narrative, it discounts ... (read in full...)
Do you think it's the right decision/necessary for me to know details of his affair?
Q. I've been very contemplative about this question. I have so many questions in my head all the time that all I do is just think about them. A part of me says that I do want to know EVERYTHING (times, places, who they were with, who knew, what i...
A. 21 June 2008: I think it's right to know somethings... otherwise you'll just wonder about it forever, or you'd just draw things out.
You should probably take his position in the conversation and not exploit his offer for honesty. Don't grill him on every si... (read in full...)
Rules to dating a teacher? are there any?
Q. Okay, does anybody know the rules of dating a teacher? like, after you graduate and are 18, can you date them, or do you have to wait, will they automatically be fired if you are thier previous student?...
A. 20 June 2008: He cannot teach at the school you attend, you must be a legal adult (16-18 depending on where you live), and you both must be consenting.
...Those are the legal boundaries. However, the moral rules in this situation are far more limiting... (read in full...)
How do I get passed this without forgetting him altogether?
Q. I have found myself in an odd situation and I don't know how it happened. So, to begin, I just graduated high school about 2 weeks ago. At the beginning of my senior year I met a male teacher who was very kind and helpful to me. Now, I know at t...
A. 20 June 2008: I think you should focus on other things until next school year, and then go back to your high school to visit him after or before classes sometime. Maybe then you can tell him about wanting to stay in touch and swap email addresses or something.
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My teacher and I got on well until he overheard my conversation with a friend! Help!
Q. i'm 16 and here is my situation. I used to have a crush on my teacher like all teenagers, and i got over him over time :) Me and my teacher used to get along really well and he always used to say hi in the corridors and always make eye contact with...
A. 19 June 2008: I agree with the previous post. You should talk to him about it, especially if it's bothering you enough to post a question about it. You could trying stopping by before or after school and saying you'd like to talk with him and to apologize for ... (read in full...)
What do I get my French Teacher for a year end present?
Q. I'm a teenager in my last year at high school. In the first three years for french i had this amazing french teacher who really inspired me into learning. She was probably my fave teacher as she always let me off if i didn't have my homework...
A. 19 June 2008: A book would be okay.
A letter is really the way to go. Unless you can think of something that she would like, a letter is always good.
For a present, I got my favorite teacher one of those viewmaster clicking things from a musuem I went to... (read in full...)
Should I call and say sorry? I turned my teacher now and I don't know if I did the right thing!!
Q. Maybe I messed up by turning my teacher down,let me explain.Okay im 16 in high school and have a huge thing for my teacher.I posted a question asking for advice on how to handle it.She says she cares for me and loves me and we talk on the phone ...
A. 14 June 2008: You did the right thing. She's the adult, and she should have been the one turning you down on furthering things--she knows this. It's okay with her that you said 'no'. That's your right.
Also, do NOT write her a note like one of the other an... (read in full...)
I have a major crush on my teacher and he shows me extra attention, what do I do?
Q. I'm currently doing my A levels at my school, and are being taught by a teacher whom i've had for 3-4 years now. I have THE biggest crush on him, but to be honest, i'm not going to make a move or anything because i think everyone knows what will hap...
A. 13 June 2008: I would just enjoy the attention, but never act on it. I mean, you say you like him, so when he says you're attractive, just take it in stride. If he ever makes a move, tell him you're not interested in progressing things. But yeah, if you like ... (read in full...)
Hot for teacher!
Q. i know this question is gonna sound PSYHCOTIC(however you spell it....lol)but here goes..i have feelings for my teacher and he recently "found" out....my question is should i confront him about it one day afterschool (since this will be my last week ...
A. 8 June 2008: I'd say either wait or forget about it. Unless you are absolutely certain that he's interested in you as well, this could make it very awkward for both of you, and he might report any move you make for his own protection. Also, if you told him ... (read in full...)
I think my teacher is flirting with me.
Q. I KNOW THERE'S LOADS TO READ HERE - I DIDN'T PLAN ON THIS BEING SO LONG BUT I REALLY NEED ADVICE HERE AND I'D APPRECIATE IT SO MUCH IF SOME OF YOU WOULD TAKE THE TIME TO READ IT AND OFFER YOUR VIEWS. THANK YOU! This is going to sound like the ...
A. 8 June 2008: Hmmm, I think it's innocent. He sounds like he's just being playful.
It's obvious that you both care for each other (eg, the "love you" comment), but I think it's more of a close-friend relationship. Teachers need people to joke with during t... (read in full...)
I have this teacher. I am 17, & he just turned 29..........
Q. I have this teacher. I am 17, and he just turned 29. Anyway, the attention I began to receive were, in my opinion, just regular expressions of favoritism but then my friends are telling me otherwise. I will list them in order. He picks me too fre...
A. 27 May 2008: I have a very similar relationship to one of my teachers, and I think it's a good thing. I mean, like you said, I know that nothing can or will ever happen, so we just enjoy each other's company.
It does sound a bit like he likes you, but he c... (read in full...)
I'm 17, my teacher is 27. I have a crush...
Q. Hi, I'm 17 years old, and I have a HUGE crush on my teacher. He's 27 years old, and its his second year teaching. I had him when it was his first year teaching, and it all started then...He's a really great teacher, I learned a lot from him. This ...
A. 27 May 2008: People work better together if they connect personally, be it coworker-coworker, teacher-student, or any other authority-dependent status. I think it's good that you all are friends--I don't think it's weird at all. Having a romantic relationship, ... (read in full...)
Please help! Should I tell this amazing man and teacher how I feel if/when I leave school, despite there being a chance that I may be coming back?
Q. I appreciate that there are many posts on here about teacher/student relationships. Please do read this is may appear to be long but I would really appreciate the help! I also have a serious problem with my ex-teacher which has been escalating ...
A. 26 April 2008: If you're going to tell him, do it face-to-face just talking. Don't write anything down, for both of your protection. What you're talking about doing is very serious, and you have to be kind of... covert.
But I would advise WAITING until af... (read in full...)
Please help! Should I tell this amazing man and teacher how I feel if/when I leave school, despite there being a chance that I may be coming back?
Q. I appreciate that there are many posts on here about teacher/student relationships. Please do read this is may appear to be long but I would really appreciate the help! I also have a serious problem with my ex-teacher which has been escalating ...
A. 17 April 2008: I don't know if you should tell him. He could just see you as a daughter, and you'd be throwing away that relationship if you told him. The kissing on the forehead thing sounds a bit romantic, but it also could be parental. Are you positively ... (read in full...)
Please help me out here, I am totally obsessed with my teacher!!
Q. I know there's tons of questions under this topic, but here its goes. I'm sixteen, and absolutely crazy about a teacher in my high school. It's become so bad, i's taken over my life. I can never stop thinking about him. It started about a year ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hmmm, so wait: Have you ever had an actual conversation with him or not? Or was it just not at first that you watched from afar?
Well, in any case, you've gotten yourself in pretty deeply. The song and poem and picture... he knows it's you. I ... (read in full...)
Genuine teacher/student problem - urgent advice needed!
Q. Hey, genuinely want advice here guys! Ok, Im 16 and doing my 'A' levels at my school sixth form. There is this one teacher I get along very well with, and im not sure what's happening with us. He is married with children He is genuinely, i b...
A. 5 April 2008: Okay, so I'm confused: are you interested in him or not? If you are, then what's the problem? Are you having second thoughts because he's married? He's always been married, and that didn't stop you before.
I think what he meant by the 'looking... (read in full...)
Genuine teacher/student problem - urgent advice needed!
Q. Hey, genuinely want advice here guys! Ok, Im 16 and doing my 'A' levels at my school sixth form. There is this one teacher I get along very well with, and im not sure what's happening with us. He is married with children He is genuinely, i b...
A. 1 April 2008: I think that you should just keep being his friend...
I mean, he's obviously hurting, and you stop that. So naturally he's going to like you, but just remember where the boundaries are. If you two are really in love with each other, then I'm... (read in full...)
My teacher and I get lost in each other's eyes! I don't know what to do!
Q. well im in 11th grade,17 years old and im love with my goverment teacher,i have know him since 9th grade,hes always there for me,and no lie i love to flirt with him,he does the same but at times he keeps it on the low.alot of girls in my school have ...
A. 23 March 2008: The ex-government teacher at my school got fired last year for having inappropriate sexual relations with a student. After that, his life took a downward spiral: his fiance (who was a model) left him, the student went away to college, he lost his ... (read in full...)
What are the signs a girl likes you?
Q. At my age (16) its more about flings than being serious, but what are tell tale signs girls like you? There was a girl recently, who fancied me for many months, was always around me and the like, but being the silly experienced lad I was then I ...
A. 22 March 2008: Giggling.
Sstaring.
Inviting you to study with her.
Asking you for help before asking someone who's more knowledgable.
Laughing at your jokes that aren't funny.
Going to you when she's upset (even if she makes no attempt at convers... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant with my teacher's baby! Should I tell him?
Q. I had sex with my teacher. JUST ONCE! And I am now 2 months pregnant. I'm not in his class anymore. Should I tell him? I'm so scared. And I don't believe in having abortions. So don't tell me to get rid of it. ...
A. 22 March 2008: Talk with him about it, but don't tell your parents or friends who the father is until you and him have made some sort of decision.
You really should tell him. I mean, that's his DNA, his kid... I'm a woman, but if I were a guy, I think I'd defi... (read in full...)
Should I try to make him feel better, or just let it go?
Q. I have this teacher who always seems to put himself down, but i'm not sure if I should try to make him feel better. At the beginning of the school year, my teacher was talking about how he coudldn't wait to get home and see his puppies because ...
A. 22 March 2008: Stop by and chat with him before school--just be friendly. There's no need for romantic suggestion, so just try to show a friendly interest in him.
I disagree with the other posts. This is your responsibility. You see someone else in need, an... (read in full...)
My teacher likes me, kissed me and is scaring me! I'm feeling awful but no one will believe me if I tell them.
Q. Hi, i have this really bad problem it's about a teacher and it's nothing to do with me liking him its the other way round. We have just broke up from school for the easter holidays. The whole story started when i was walking down the corridor goi...
A. 22 March 2008: That's so... bizarre. Police and school officials are required to take bizarre complaints seriously, though, so don't be afriad about telling them. It's strange that the one teacher was fired so quickly and that you know the reason for his ... (read in full...)
I can't stand the thought that my teacher will be going home after the school term ends...I'm 18, he's 27...
Q. I'm 18 and coming up to my last fews months studing my A levels at 6th form, the problem is i can't stand the thought of leaving and more so a teacher of ours who has grown to be a really good friend is leaving to go back to Australia (where he ...
A. 22 March 2008: If you all are friends, tell him you want to keep in contact b/c you value his friendship. Give him your email address, and then maybe he'll reciprocate.
You could also just tell him how you feel, but it would be better if you waited until yo... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with my teacher and feel I am in love with her!
Q. Well, I know this is a very redundant topic on here, and I've read a bunch of questions and answers. But the thing is that most that I would like to reply to have been closed. So I finally decided to post my own, as no one question/story is quite ...
A. 22 March 2008: I don't think she knows. I mean, I know if a female friend started talking to me about my personal life, or said she knew where I lived, I wouldn't think she had romantic feelings for me. Heterosexual people tend to assume everyone is ... (read in full...)
Does this mean my teacher like me? My friends threaten to tell another teacher of our supposedly inappropriate relation.
Q. I know it's another teacher situation but help would be much appreciated … I’ve had a pretty rough year – the loss of my Nan triggered a huge bout of depression which hasn’t really left me but through it all I’ve had my teacher helped me through....
A. 14 March 2008: He's not 'taking advantage of you' or anything like some of the previous posts have mentioned. He's trying to be a nice guy, and you are in need. All he's doing is trying to help, and through your interactions, he's become attatched to you--but I ... (read in full...)
How should my friend handle her teacher's remarks, perhaps improper?
Q. my bestmate has been feeling really uncomfortable in one of her lessons lately. the teacher said she was really pretty and if he were the same age he would have probably asked her out. just yesterday he said that he had a girlfriend when ...
A. 28 February 2008: Oh my god, the hello1 person needs to stop telling everyone to report everything.
Okay, you've said very vauge things that could be viewed as inappropriate. Sometimes teachers are just trying to make conversation. The CONTEXT of his comments... (read in full...)
Should I turn my teacher in after the suggestions he made?????
Q. Hello all School ended for me for the end of the year in December (we have our summer holidays in Dec-Jan) and I gave a letter to a teacher I had a little bit of a crush on, because he was leaving. The thing was, I wasn't actually in his class and...
A. 28 February 2008: In answer to your question, your school won't throw you out. All records of minors are kept strictly confidental--you and your parents can't even access them, let alone a school or law institution.
I would STRONGLY suggest not going through ... (read in full...)
Should I turn my teacher in after the suggestions he made?????
Q. Hello all School ended for me for the end of the year in December (we have our summer holidays in Dec-Jan) and I gave a letter to a teacher I had a little bit of a crush on, because he was leaving. The thing was, I wasn't actually in his class and...
A. 28 February 2008: Hello.
As someone who has reported an ex-teacher (with whom I flirted, despite his wife and children) for inappropriate behavior, I'm telling you DO NOT REPORT HIM. You will regret it everyday for the rest of your life, because it will ruin his... (read in full...)
How do you show somebody you love them??
Q. How do you show somebody you love them??...
A. 25 February 2008: Through small gestures. The little things in life can express the largest emotions.... (read in full...)
I feel like my teacher is seducing me...what should I do??
Q. Hello! I went up a year at school and acquired a new teacher, not being arrogant I'm traditional with true morals old fashioned yes, however this seamed/seems to attract such teacher unintentionally. She is single and a genuine nice (young) lad...
A. 20 February 2008: If you must go, go to her house after you graduate.
And even then, make sure that you want whatever could or could not happen because if you turn around later and say that she took advantage on account of your age, you'd trash both of your rep... (read in full...)
I feel like my teacher is seducing me...what should I do??
Q. Hello! I went up a year at school and acquired a new teacher, not being arrogant I'm traditional with true morals old fashioned yes, however this seamed/seems to attract such teacher unintentionally. She is single and a genuine nice (young) lad...
A. 19 February 2008: To help you out, I'll do a point by point reply:
'You impressed me': This doesn't sound suggestive at all. You should be happy about her comment instead of questioning it.
'Smooth talker': Yes, you are one. She probably was teasing you more... (read in full...)
How can I reassure my teacher it's him I like??
Q. I need help! I am really confused about this situation with my teacher. We used to get on really well and he had a soft spot for me; he was always very nice to me and i got the impression that he fancied me also because of his tendency to be a lit...
A. 11 February 2008: I agree with the other answers that point out that he really is too old for you.
But. I mean, I know when a person is going through marital problems or other problems, it puts stress on them. And it shows. Lots of times other people, like you... (read in full...)
How can I reassure my teacher it's him I like??
Q. I need help! I am really confused about this situation with my teacher. We used to get on really well and he had a soft spot for me; he was always very nice to me and i got the impression that he fancied me also because of his tendency to be a lit...
A. 10 February 2008: Pshh, ignore the hello1 person! I'm telling you, ask what's wrong, or you'll never get an answer for why he's being like this. It could have nothing to do with you, or it could have everything to do. He could just be going through some personal ... (read in full...)
How can I reassure my teacher it's him I like??
Q. I need help! I am really confused about this situation with my teacher. We used to get on really well and he had a soft spot for me; he was always very nice to me and i got the impression that he fancied me also because of his tendency to be a lit...
A. 10 February 2008: This exact thing happened to me. I was friendly with my maths teacher, and then one day, he just stopped talking to me. About 2 weeks later I asked him if something was wrong and said I was sorry if I did something to upset him, and he told me ... (read in full...)
Liked this girl for a few years, how do I tell her without getting freaked out??
Q. Im 13, currently in school (obviously) and i really like a friend of mine (same age), although i dont know if she likes me as much as i like her. She smiles when she greets me, she helps me alot, but she also yells at me and gets angry at me for no ...
A. 10 February 2008: Tell her that you're happy you met her because she's this great person and you're so lucky to have her as a friend. You could also mention how her laugh and smile always cheer you up, so you're excited to see her everyday.... I don't know. I'm... (read in full...)
Liked this girl for a few years, how do I tell her without getting freaked out??
Q. Im 13, currently in school (obviously) and i really like a friend of mine (same age), although i dont know if she likes me as much as i like her. She smiles when she greets me, she helps me alot, but she also yells at me and gets angry at me for no ...
A. 10 February 2008: Pick her a flower on your way to see her. That's the best present idea I can give you. You probably shouldn't spend any money, and if you do, don't spend a lot. Maybe some of her friends like some of your friends more than they like you? In th... (read in full...)
Liked this girl for a few years, how do I tell her without getting freaked out??
Q. Im 13, currently in school (obviously) and i really like a friend of mine (same age), although i dont know if she likes me as much as i like her. She smiles when she greets me, she helps me alot, but she also yells at me and gets angry at me for no ...
A. 3 February 2008: I would advise not to ask her out yet. You should start with small gestures, like holding doors for her, asking if she needs help carrying something heavy, or complimenting her outfit/hair/shoes/necklace/smile/anything.
For her birthday, make her... (read in full...)
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