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I'm Jelly, (Though that isn't my real name, obviously.)
I'm 13 next year so i spose I'm one of the younger people who use this site regurlarly.
I don't have a boyfriend and I doubt I'll get one this summer because I'm a little bit of a loner.
Unfortunately, i dislike young* children as they annoy me ememsly. I have many faults including my spelling so don't hesitate to correct me.
My favorite things are fencing, all sciences (though, especially genetics) chocolate and books. I can read all day, and sometimes do. I have one very close friend and some people I know from taking the train to school. I am very mature for my age but I have many soft spots including my toy cat Jellyco!
Bye.
Jelly
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*For young, read: 7 and below. My cousins cry if I walk away from them too quickly for pete's sake! |
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My best friend ever is moving to France and I'm having trouble coping with it!
Q. Hi there, all of you. I'm really down at the moment because i found out that my best ever friend (Pretty much my only close friend in my class) is moving away to France. They won't come back to our town, or my shcool. She's my first ever best ...
A. 28 August 2008: I am 12 years old.
I don't think I will make many more friends because no one is all that bothered about me.
Don't patronise me, please.
Jelly
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I'm not sure how I feel about losing my virginity! I had been planning to wait...
Q. hey guys just want an opinion on something so here goes... i always vowed that im gnna stay a virgin untill i get married and vowed that it will only be for my husband... however recently i found the perfect man... i love being around him and w...
A. 27 August 2008: Hey there,
You did it for love! That is the best possible way, ever!
You shouldn't regret it at all. Now all you have to do is get married and have 1.8 kids.
Jelly
xxx... (read in full...)
My brother has romantic feelings for my girlfriend of 3 years!
Q. I have a younger brother he is 16 and im 18. i have been been going out with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now and always noticed that my brother acted weird around her and would always bring her up in conversation. Last weekthat he has always ...
A. 27 August 2008: Well good luck in keeping her. i hope for your sake that your brother isn't amazingly gorgeous. Tell him to back off - or even better find him a distraction, maybe one of her friends... Your brother is a prick and shouldn't try to plan steali... (read in full...)
I'm not paying attention in class because my teacher is so beautiful!
Q. My teacher is stunningly beautiful. To make matters worse she wears revealing clothes and does sexy things with her hair. It's so hard to pay attention in class cause I get lost looking at her... what can I do?...
A. 27 August 2008:
You could try burning your eyes out with hot pokers...
Or you could change classes. Or you could humiliate her publicly so you can't ever take her seriously again...
You could get a girlfriend and be engrosed with her.
Or you could change... (read in full...)
I don't want to have sex ever, which is making her mad at me!
Q. I've been with her for 4 years already, and I'm 29, and she's 27. She and I love each other really really much. She's mad at me for not making love with her. She thinks she's not beautiful for me. I keep on telling her she's the most beautiful and ...
A. 27 August 2008: Hmmmm.... OK.... never thought I'd here this....
Oh, sex is fun - it doesn't have to be perverted or nasty - it's a way of showing your love for another human. It's natural.
Tell her WHY you don't want to have sex - or you could just get p... (read in full...)
I was wondering if these are 'signs' of my period coming? Is there an estimated time?
Q. OK, it has been a year and a couple of months (2-4) since I've started having clear / white discharge in my underwear. I know that this is totally normal. Also my breasts have started to develop since the past 3-5 months, maybe half a year. Once...
A. 27 August 2008: I remember the day i started my periods - in fact, it's really the only way i remember my mate's birthday. It was November 11. Anyway, mine came as a complete shock and I had very little warning - thankfully it was very light. I get cramps with... (read in full...)
Romantic gestures towards women - some brainstorming!
Q. Hi. For a little project I'm working on, please, would as many women as possible kindly list three gestures which they would deem to be 'romantic' towards them. Many thanks!...
A. 27 August 2008:
Hehe, I'm only 12 but I am a right romantic.
Well, every girl's different but i like it when you hold my hand and smile, anywhere, like when your walking home together etc. just random.
Picnics are fun, especially when there isn't anyone a... (read in full...)
Why does everyone condemn FWB? We are just doing something we both enjoy...
Q. I have had sex with this guy a couple of times now. It is not very serious, but whenever we have had it has been great. Well he is really a f**k buddy. I have never ever had one before. I know most people think it is wrong to have a f**k buddy bu...
A. 27 August 2008: You say everyone, but you really mean your friends...
I think knowing someone before you have sex is important. You know what i mean - making sure they aren't nasty old men trying to use you, or dodgy drunkards etc.
Well, if you enjoy it, go... (read in full...)
Why smoke?
Q. ok i dont know if dis is a article or not but its a poem i made here goes : why smoke its not a joke you know you could croak its not like sugar and spice its like making sure you have lice it makes you stink whats next you gonna drink...
A. 27 August 2008: To Dazzerg!
The public demonises smokers to save the children - to stop it being cool! The same way we demonise drug abusers etc.
Wake up, and of course it's fair. you could stop - there's plenty of help nowadays, it's just pathetic.
Jel... (read in full...)
My friend hates my boyfriend. I have to choose.
Q. Hi. My friend made me dump my b/f because she made it clear she plain hates! him. I love him, but i'm torn i half now, not knowing i have him. I hate choseing! Friend or boyfriend, friend or boyfriend?!?!!? aaaaahhahahahahahahhhhhhh!!!!!!...
A. 27 August 2008: Nah don't tell her - if she brings it up, say yeha, well, he's history or something along those lines.
Jelly
xxx... (read in full...)
Am I fetishizing foreign women?
Q. I am a white male but almost all the girls I date have been black, hispanic, asian, ect. I don't why I just like dating outside my race, but somebody said I was fetishizing foriegn women when I do that. Is it bad to date exclusively outside your ...
A. 26 August 2008: That's like saying it's bad to mix breeds of dog. Some people don' like it but most aren't that bothered. I find other races attractive, but i also like lots of white people and (incidently) all my friends are white or half and half. I don't th... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex today, what to do now?
Q. So..me and My Girlfriend Had Sex Today..It was good and all..Problem is..we did it Six Times...Nother Problem..they were all unprotected..and I know there's a possibility that she might be pregnant..I'm not scared or anything just worried..cuz my ...
A. 26 August 2008: Wait a minute, Sonny. Having a baby is no laughing matter. I strongly, STRONGLY advise abortion. You are not ready yet. You aren't maried. You are still at shcool...Hmmmm... great life aheasd of you. Why not wait until you have a stable income... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex today, what to do now?
Q. So..me and My Girlfriend Had Sex Today..It was good and all..Problem is..we did it Six Times...Nother Problem..they were all unprotected..and I know there's a possibility that she might be pregnant..I'm not scared or anything just worried..cuz my ...
A. 23 August 2008: She could quite easily get pregnant. If you don't want a baby then you can use the morning after pill, though that shouldn't be used as regular contraception. Jelly xxx... (read in full...)
The girl next door is one of my best friends and like a sister to me, only recently I've developed feelings for her, what to do?
Q. well i live next door to this girl whos a little younger than me weve lived next door to eachother for our whole lives, shes one of my best friends and like a sister to me and recently ive developed feelings for her ive thought about it and me ...
A. 23 August 2008: Well - you could try spending more time with her, maybe invite her to a cafe or something, and if she responds, then maybe it could work.
Remember, if you want to love her as a girlfriend, you have to be loyal and when you break up, you have to ... (read in full...)
I can't remember what I did with my tampon at my friend's house!
Q. Argh!!! I had a blank spot and I took out my tampon at my friends house and I can't remember what I did with it!!! They didn't have a bin and it's really bugging me that I flushed it down the loo, coz, though I'm not sure, it could get stuck. even ...
A. 22 August 2008: Smile
:)
The bad thing is that i badly have a crush on her brother...
Oh well. Sorry for all the typos - The keyboard's been playing up.
Yeah, I don't think i can do anything about it.
Thanks for responding!
Jelly
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I think I'm in love with my wife!
Q. Dear all, This is in response to the many posts I have read about people who are in love/lust with a forbidden fruit such as sister in law. I think Im in love with my wife, we have known each other for 3 years and been married for one but I st...
A. 21 August 2008: Love is the best thing since sliced bread in my opinion, but like sliced bread, it can go off pretty quickly if left unatended...
Jelly
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Am I moving too fast?
Q. i am 14 ,15 in december and i had sex wif my girl friend i have only been goin out wif her 4 2 weeks am i movin 2 fast...
A. 20 August 2008: Did you ask for sex or she - mate, make your questions a bit more descriptive - it won't kill you! Jelly xx... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable by wanting to leave my house to my children rather than my husband?
Q. Hi. I have been with my husband for two years. He moved into the house that I own from proceeds of a settlement from a previous relationship that produced children.. he came with basically nothing just a good wage. Since we were married my ...
A. 20 August 2008: How old are the sprogs? If they are minors, and something happens, then, I would advise your children stay in your house with your hubby. However, once they are 18+ then you could leave it up to them. You can always leave money to your husband, but ... (read in full...)
Obama for president?
Q. Wow this is so intense! I origanly come from America but live in Canada! But I cant belive it there could be the first black president! I dont have a problem with couler and have been doing about slavery in history and I think we've came so far! I ...
A. 20 August 2008: Oh come on - he's not THAT black...
I really don't know what the fuss is all about - America's so f***ed up already it's gonna take a genius to sort it all out. Though i suppose it is a step in the right direction.
I'm so glad I'm brittish. Th... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a teacher. Will these feelings go away?
Q. I'm 16 and I've been in love with this teacher for 2 years now. At first it was obsession. I know so much about him because he's my cousin's best friend. So its like he's a part of the family. Always at family parties and stuff. But anyway it reall...
A. 20 August 2008: If I gave away a pund every time one of these teacher - pupil relationships work out, I still be a rich little girl. You don't need to mess with his head and should stop messing up your own. Try going out with someone younger. Chances are if y... (read in full...)
What should you do if you love your uncle?
Q. what should you do if you love your uncle? if you know its true love and you alredy tried to back away but you just cant because you know its true love but forbidden what are the consequenses for this act? and can you like be together? a...
A. 20 August 2008: Don't even go there. Ow! It would be tears before bedtime on a major scale! You can love your uncle the same way you should love your parents. You shouldn't (for lack of a better word) "fancy" them. I'm afraid that your uncle is a know go area -... (read in full...)
My fiance's grieving is hurting our relationship. Is it normal?
Q. Hello all, My fiance's dad past away two weeks ago. I have never been through the death of a loved one meanless to say I have no references to help her out. We live in Florida and her dad past away where he lived in California. We flew the...
A. 3 August 2008: oh, and I dont think all the emotions she is going through can be written in a book.
Jelly
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I really like him but is he worth all that?
Q. help! I have a madly big crush on this lad. And in the past hes a big crush on me. A couple of months ago though, he started going out wth someone else, and ignored me for 5 weeks. Then his gf made up a rumour to make me jealous. and he found ou...
A. 3 August 2008: I dont really get this question but if you like him and he likes you then fine. Watch out for jealous exes though. When you say he went mad I take it he dumped her. I hope it works out all right.
Jelly
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My fiance's grieving is hurting our relationship. Is it normal?
Q. Hello all, My fiance's dad past away two weeks ago. I have never been through the death of a loved one meanless to say I have no references to help her out. We live in Florida and her dad past away where he lived in California. We flew the...
A. 3 August 2008: Give her some space for a bit - but mind not to much, or she'll get the wrong end of the stick. Grief is a horrible thing and takes time to heal over, like an emotional broken leg, you have to let it heal before you can think straight again, and ... (read in full...)
What do you do when you can't afford a therapist?
Q. This isn't a relationship question, although when it comes down to it, it can be. I can't do this anymore and I just can't afford a therapist. I don't have health insurance and my job doesn't give me enough hours to apply for it. I was wondering if ...
A. 3 August 2008: You could always try bubble popping, if it's stress... but you haven't atually said what's got you down! We will always help you, but we need some guidance!
Jelly
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I'm obesessed with calories and even stopped eatting to loose weight.Do I have an eating disorder?
Q. Do i have an eating disorder? I have always been thin, but when i started my period (quite late, last year), i did put a few pounds on, i went from being size 6/8 to a 10/12. It didnt seem to bother me while i was at school though and i was happy ...
A. 3 August 2008: The best way to lose weight is to eat quite early in the morning, you know what they say: A king's breakfast, a prince's luch and a porper's dinner. This will also help you sleep better. You are sixteen! You do not need to diet at sixteen (Unless ... (read in full...)
Should we have underage sex? I'm not sure...
Q. my girl friend told me the other day that she wonted sex but i dont no if we should because of are age im 14 and she is 13 but i dont wont to say no because i dont wont it to effected are relationship wot do i do?...
A. 30 July 2008: Sex is one way to end a relationship - if thats what you want... I would say Im not ready and have done with it, she may be really cool, but if she dumps you because of it, then (with all due respect) good ridence.
You havent said if shes a virgin... (read in full...)
It has been a crazy friendship for years, but I do have feelings for her. I don't know if I should try to be with her.
Q. hey there's this girl i've known all of my life. but its been a bit of a crazy friendship, but we were really close. u see we grew up and went to school together until i was in 6th grade, cuz i had left that school. we soon lost cantact with each ...
A. 30 July 2008: Hi Shadow. (My cat's called shadow, btw, great name;))
She has a boyfriend - maybe she likes you but she really doesnt need the hassle of you falling over her and breaking her and her bf up.
The could be a chance if she breaks up but by no mea... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to have a physical relationship with this guy?
Q. I have a guy-friend. We used to be close but dated briefly and are just now renewing our friendship. Last time I spent time with him, we were joking around and ended up making out. Today, when I saw him again, he kissed me good-bye. I still have ...
A. 30 July 2008: Oh go for it!
However, you cant let yourself be tied down by this and you have to make him understand you will see other people if you so wish once you are apart! He is obviously laid back about it and i doubt anything will come of it so just enj... (read in full...)
I'm 14, should I suggest to my girlfriend that we have sex?
Q. i'm 14 and i really feel the need of having sex with my girlfriend (she's 15), though i'm not sure she would want to (they say boys want it more than girls do)...but i really do. i really really love her and its been about a year since we started ...
A. 30 July 2008: Sorry - but i think you know the answer to this. 1) Its illegal. 2) You are not ready because you are thinking she isn't 3) You worry too much 4) Its illegal. Point proven.... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt my wonderful fiance, but I don't want this amazing, loving affair to end.
Q. In Love with two people! I'm 35. Fiancé 32, Lover 21! I can't believe I have let myself get into this situation, I have a really nice Fiancé, 2 kids aged 2 and 5 we don’t argue, we still have Sex a few times a week. My problem is this a year a...
A. 29 July 2008: What a right little state you got your self into!!! Dont split up the kids - they maybe young but they need their mother - THEIR REAL MOTHER! THEY NEED THEIR FATHER TOO!! Get a grip and stop fooling around with this lover of yours! You have... (read in full...)
Are these signs of becoming pregant?...
Q. can i be pregnant??cause bout a week now i been sleepy,lazy..wanna cry for no reason..senitive..feels like i wanna thow up but dont..waking up with deadaches..my tummy is always turning..are these signs of becoming pregant??...
A. 29 July 2008: Have you had sex? If the answer is no -then you are not. (Unless you had a donor and a bad case of amnesia) If you have then get your self tested - sooner you know the more options etc etc Jelly xxx Did you miss sex ed. or something?... (read in full...)
Can one ignore her first and only sexual experience, an unpleasant one, and consider herself a virgin?
Q. if losing your virginity is a state of mind is it acceptable for a girl to want to ignor her first intercourse (being unpleasent one) and concider her self still a vigin untill willingly giving her self, (it only being her second time?) [Added from...
A. 29 July 2008: She is a virgin in the same respect as someone who uses tampons isn't a virgin - her hymen is partly broken thus she isnot a virgin - however, virginity of the mind can stay until you lose it willingly. Jelly xxx... (read in full...)
How do you know if you are ready for sex?
Q. how do you know if your ready for sex???...
A. 29 July 2008: You are ready for sex when you dont feel anxiuos or ask this question. If you love him enough and you are prepared to either live with abortion or having a kid then you are ready. A stable income tends to help aswell ;) Jelly xxx... (read in full...)
I have brown discharge before my period. Is this normal?
Q. is brown discharge normal? i seem to get this usaully before my period is it normal??...
A. 29 July 2008: I get brown stuff after mine - but were all different.
Jelly
xxx
Take care
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I need tips on how to do an abortion myself.
Q. okay, so im 14 and about a week ago, i had sex. and we didnt use a condom. but heres the thing, it was in the pool. im affraid to tell my parents that i might be preggo. and i dont want to tell them at all. my bf bought a preggo test, but i have to ...
A. 28 July 2008: You should go to your clinic. You should tell a good mate. It just helps to talk about it. Telling your parents isn't really a great idea, unless you cant get an abortion. However, if you are pregnant, you have to get it sorted out. You can't ignore ... (read in full...)
Are girls turned off if guys have hairy asses?
Q. I've been complemented on having a nice and big ass, but the thing girls don't realize that i have a hairy ass. So here's my question, is it a turn-off, or do girls mind if guys have hairy asses??...
A. 28 July 2008: Everyone is different, and as long as the hair isn't matted or dirty then, no, I don't think it is a problem. Lots of women like hairy men.
Jelly
xx... (read in full...)
I am so embarrassed... how do I stop thinking about this incident?
Q. This really isn't a relationship question but I need advice..please :( So I was in self defense class today and I was paying no attention when during the second half of class, my partner brought it to my attention that I was bleeding on my foot. I ...
A. 23 July 2008: You say it was on your foot - was it your foot cut, or your period?
I feel for you if it was the latter - not very nice.
Oh well - onwards ever onwards!... (read in full...)
I'm being bullied again! What do I do?
Q. Hiya... I'm Being Bullied... AGAIN! The real bad thing is that they've started on my mate as well. I used to just ignore them, but today I went to sit with my friends and some not so friends and they told me, quite bluntly, to go and sit somewher...
A. 23 July 2008: Also, there's this girl in another form, and she wants to move to our form - which means one of us has to go to her form, and apparantly I'm "REALLY MEAN!!!!!" for not wanting to move and leave my friend behind!
Jelly... (read in full...)
My girlfriend became my stepsister!
Q. Ever since september 2007, my girlfreind and i have been together. She turned 16 last week and my B-day is in august. We've been happy and hav'nt had any big problems with each other, but what we didnt know up until feburary that year is that her ...
A. 23 July 2008: Well done on getting it sorted out! Have fun, and enjoy your life.
Jelly... (read in full...)
I'm being bullied again! What do I do?
Q. Hiya... I'm Being Bullied... AGAIN! The real bad thing is that they've started on my mate as well. I used to just ignore them, but today I went to sit with my friends and some not so friends and they told me, quite bluntly, to go and sit somewher...
A. 19 July 2008: I would try to sit with another group - but these people are the people in my class - all the girls except the annoyingly pretty ones without a braincell between them. It sounds kinda mean, but i really don't fit in with them... (read in full...)
My girlfriend became my stepsister!
Q. Ever since september 2007, my girlfreind and i have been together. She turned 16 last week and my B-day is in august. We've been happy and hav'nt had any big problems with each other, but what we didnt know up until feburary that year is that her ...
A. 17 July 2008: It was silly to lie about you breaking up.
Your parents have probs guessed something happened.
You are not blood relatives - there is nothing wrong with what you are doing.
Your parents are cruel to think you can ignore your feelings like that! ... (read in full...)
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