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writes:So me and my boyfriend have been together going on 4 years, we have a little 22 month old girl, who's our everything. But for the last year we've had problems arguing over little things, his family have always been on our case from day one and doesn't bother with our little one. We finished over Christmas but he begged for me to take him back and things would change , now he doesn't touch me kiss me or hug me, we haven't been intimate for 5 months and whenever I try he brushes me off and says he doesn't want to. He's changed all passwords on every account he has and also changed his phone passcode, I'm only 21 and he's 24 but Iv put a little weight on due to health reasons and treatment which I have now stopped to try and lure him back because I think he finds me unattractive I just don't know if I should stay, or whether he's going elsewhere and someone else is paying him attention
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reader, spiritual butterfly +, writes (7 August 2016):
First and foremost you cannot control what he is or isn't doing and if he isn't being affectionate that speaks volumes.You probably haven't done anything wrong to him.Sometimes the feelings and attraction just wears off.Self love is most important and if he doesn't love you back you cannot force it or change it.Very rarely does a relationship last forever.It hurts when the relationship dynamic changes and it's not what you want..Never let a relationship define you.Being single has many benefits.Focus on your child and let him go ad much as it may hurt grow and learn from this experience
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reader, Serpico  +, writes (6 August 2016):
"but Iv put a little weight"
More likely than not, there is your answer.
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reader, N91 +, writes (6 August 2016):
 Have you asked him ?
There could be a whole host of reasons that we couldn't guess at. Just sit him down, explain to him that you've noticed he's being really withdrawn lately and that you haven't been intimate for a long time and it's really starting to bother you. That way he has his chance to explain his side to you and you can work from there.
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