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writes:Ok so my boyfriend and I have only been dating for four months but have been friends for over two years. He wants to have a threesome and I am not against it but I need advice on helping with coping with it. When I think about it I get angry and jealous that he can do stuff with anouther girl but I cant do the same. Please help me understand and realise that this is innocent.!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): my advice don't do it. You're not going to be with this guy forever, and the next guy or your future husband will have a hard time dealing with this....
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 Don't do it. That's my advise.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (19 June 2010):
 Four months isn't much time. It's way too early to include another person, in my opinion.
Don't agree to a threesome just because he wants it. If you're not completely ready for something like that, it's only going to make things more complicated and leave you with some pretty unpleasant emotions. You already feel jealous and insecure, and you haven't even gone through with anything yet. Don't you think that's a big red flag?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (19 June 2010):
 Why not insist on a threesome with another guy??
I'm thinking your boyfriend wouldn't be so gung ho about that!
Listen, you don't have to do ANYTHING you're not comfortable with. Don't feel like you HAVE to do a threesome. It's NOT innocent if you don't like it.
You don't need anyone else in your relationship, and I think it'll be damaging in the long run.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): I'm afraid you are against it. To you a threesome would be cheating.
Just say no, this isn't something you'll be comfortable with, you don't want to share him with anyone. if you do this just to please him then you'll be crushed. You'll have to watch him give another woman something that is only meant for you.
Don't kid yourself, you are completely against it.
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