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writes:So I met this amazing Muslim girl. I like her but she does not know it, maybe she knows because I have been very special to her. She will be moving away from my city without knowing what I feel for her. Is it recommended to tell her and not be selfish? Will it affect the relationship we have?(I am not Muslim.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): Hey! :)
To be honest, I think that you know that you have to tell her. I've been in this situation about three times (lol). I'm always the one who takes the risk between friendship and relationship, and twice it has worked for me.
I'm only 16, so ofcourse none of the relationships lasted, but it was definitly worth it. I had the time of my life really getting to know these people.
The one time that it didn't work... well I got over it. I mean it's much easier getting over someone when you get rid of the "what if's" in your head, and hopefuly then you can just continue your friendship if she doesn't feel the same :)
I hope it all works out for you :D
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reader, Rico  +, writes (19 June 2010):
Hey bro go for it u would never know how or of she feels the same way about u if u don't tell her. U might regret it later of u don't tell her. Good luck
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reader, CamiAzreal +, writes (19 June 2010):
 I would tell her . I have this a quy friend who liked me for 2 years and never told me, he called me one niqht and i hadnt seen him in like a few months (and i was in a different state) and he told me and i told him i was sorry but i didnt feel the same and he said ok and we have been friends ever since and i dont think it affected our friendship at all ( ;
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): You might have to consider what is more important to you...the feelings you have for her or your friendship for her? Once you express your feelings to her, your friendship might not be the same but you will never know unless you give it a try. I am a Muslim girl and my advice is that you should go for it and tell her how you feel. All the best!
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