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writes:I am completely in love with my gilfriend. We were just friends for 5 months or so and we've been dating for about 6 months now. I cant tell if my girlfriend really loves me, or if she just playing me. She always talks about how hot other guys are, she always hangs with other guys that i know in the past she's hooked up with, and she never says anything nice to me or compliments me. She straight up ditched me to go hang with a bunch of other dudes she thinks are hot, and lately when we make plans to hangout and....have sex she bails because her "stomach's been hurting alot". she says she loves me, but i know she cheated on the old boyfriend multiple times, but she says i'm different. I dont know what to do, is this a waste of my time? Reply to this Question
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reader, St Augustine  +, writes (24 September 2008):
For your mental health is important to meet other women. I know that in this moment it sounds unbelievable but you need to go and tell her you need a break and that right now you need a bit of free space. Meet other girl learn and you will see your relationship with her will change totally!
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (1 August 2008):
Ditch her. She's not worth your time and effort. She's playing games with you or she's really not that interested and stringing you along simply because you're there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): Sounds like a 'waste of time' to me... I'd try to move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): Yes, Yes and yes..It she is a waste of your time. If she truly loved you, she would respect you by not calling other men "Hot." And by not hanging out with other men. You need to find it in yourself, that you deserve more. You seem like a nice guy, but dude, look elsewhere for love. She only loves herself. You need to love yourself enough to find someone who loves you as much!!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (31 July 2008):
 Dude, for your sake, you have barely dipped your toes in the ocean of love.
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reader, frostydoll +, writes (31 July 2008):
 dude, you need to leave her, befor she will leave you.
she is definatly using you, and there is no other way you can put it in. there is million girls in the world, dont waste your time on some one who doesnt respect or listens to you.
hope ill be helpfull. :)
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (31 July 2008):
 Yeah. She's a bad girl and you like her because it's a challenge. She's testing you to see what you'll put up with. Be a man, put your foot down and you will earn her respect. She knows you love her so she's taking advantage of it. Set your boundries or she will step all over you.
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