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writes:I am a girl of 16 and have just found out my boyfriend cheated on me a week before christmas after a day of knowing the girl, my boyfriend has just turned 17 and shes 21. He textd me on christmas day dumping me then went away with her, but I didn't know he cheated on me till 3 weeks after I stupidly took him back but now I don't know if a love him because he only came back to me for sex and because she dumped him. He was flirting with me when he was still with her which makes it worse but I don't want to split up with him. I just can't look at him sometimes and am finding it hard to cope especially because I've just had my leg amputated and I am still learning to walk which adds too the stress. I dont know what to do... please help.
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reader, Donna1234 +, writes (17 March 2007):
This is typical guy........never thinking of anyone but himself and his sexual needs. He should treat you with more respect if he really loved you and you have a disability and he should know thatextra stress does not help. This guy obviously does not deserve any sort of relationship with anybody until he can be trusted. You deserve so much better so do the right thing and tell him it is time to move on. You are a young girl, there are plenty more fish in the sea that will treat you how you should be treated
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reader, AskEve +, writes (17 March 2007):
 If he cheated on you with her, he'll cheat on you again. Don't waste any more time on him, he's using you and has no respect for you whatsoever. Not ALL men are the same. You are still very young, enjoy your life and leave men on the backburner for a while. When the time is right you will find the right person but it's definitely NOT this guy! He'll only hurt you...
Eve
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (17 March 2007):
 Sweetheart, it sounds like you have enough to worry about without a guy that cannot even show a measure of loyalty to you.
I have given this advice to many others and I am going to give it to you now.
Every woman should be treated as a queen, and there are guys out there that share the same views as I do. It just takes a little work and patience to find them.
Now you go and find your Prince Charming. Doc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2007): I think you should listen to the part of you that can't look at him and end it with him as he doesn't deserve you! I can't imagine how tough things must be for you right now after your surgery but you definately deserve to have loyal, caring and honest people around you that love you and care about you, This guy sounds like a jerk!
Good luck and lots of love xx
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