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writes:On friday night i ended things with the guy i was seeing for 2months. He said he was sure he was ready for a relationship and i wasn't prepared to wait around. At the time i told him i couldn't be friends as i would be upset when he started seeing other women. He wanted to be friends. The next day i text him saying i missed him and he said the same back. I told him i didnt want to lose him. He said i kind already had coz i didnt want to be friends. I said i would try as i wanted him in my life, if he wanted me in his. He said if i carried on that way he didn't. And when i said id try my best not to be, his response was 'i don't think so, i don't know what to think'. Whats this mean? He poked me on facebook sun morning but nothing else. I miss him and want him around. What should i do? Please help, thank you
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 April 2012):
 yeah watch people... go to museums... sit in outdoor cafes sipping coffee and smiling at babies...
ENJOY your holiday... it's not much of a holiday if you drag home with you now is it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiona few weeks ago I was on holiday and I had him to text everyday which was really nice. I'm going on holiday tomorrow for a week, alone and won't have him to text. It will be so lonely and I don't know if I can enjoy the holiday if I don't have him to contact to make me feel less alone. any suggestions?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 April 2012):
if he poked you on facebook all day it's because YOU POKED HIM BACK.
sadly it means nothing
I would ignore it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe poked me on facebook all day today, which is what we used to do when we were seeing each other but then we text as well, which he isn't. What does this mean? does he still want me around? or is he feeling guilty or something else? Thank you, everyone
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reader, oldbag +, writes (9 April 2012):
 Let him go or you will end up being hurt even more , you cant be friends.Its hard at first but you will get used to it. He may come back if you give him a chance to miss you he may not . But you have to get over him and you cant if you are in contact.
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reader, Lucky786 +, writes (9 April 2012):
 He sounds a bit immature to me and it's obvious your friendship didn't mean much to him as he has let it go so quickly. Even if you said you didn't want to be friends in haste, a true friend would forgive.
I think he was glad when you ended it and he isn't really interested in being friends. I'd say cut your losses and move on.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 April 2012):
Let him go.
You want him as more than a friend and he's not ready to be more than a friend... you are holding on to a dream
I don't believe we can truly be friends with ex partners.
FriendLY yes.
Civil YES
truly be friends... so rare as to say NO... not do able.
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