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I am having an affair with my friend's wife! Is it okay to keep on with this relationship?

Q.   I am having a relationship with my friend's wife. She is a wonderful lady but her husband is a real jerk. My relationship started 10 years ago when her husband left overseas for work. Then we just talked over the phone and had lunch. Subsequently ...

A.   9 March 2011: no not ok. Period.... (read in full...)

In love with 25 years between us

Q.   I am in Love with a Young Lady 25 years younger. She loves me as well. Will this relationship work 15 to 20 years from now? Why? support your response....

A.   1 February 2011: relationships are made from love trust and respect. People say age matters. It doesnt! Im witha seventeen yr older man and have been for two years. People said we wood break up within a month. Well.... Lol trust love and respect is allll u need. No ... (read in full...)

Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated with me, now that I'm pregnant?

Q.   I really need advice from a non judgmental view point. I had been in a relationship with this guy for the last 2 years. He is in the army and so naturally things were always kind of difficult. But now I know that he was lying to me and cheating on ...

A.   21 January 2011: its not his gf who needs to know all this. Its him. The gf prob aint gonna care that ur preg and shes gonna look at it like ur trying to mess up their relationship. What goods it gonna do to tell her? Make him do it.... (read in full...)

Should I ask this co-worker out?

Q.   Should I ask this girl out? I work with her and have recently realised I have feelings for her when I actually look forward to go to work just because she is there. Problem is while we flirt and stuff we aren't very much alike she hangs out with a ...

A.   20 January 2011: i wont say yes. i wont say no. heres why. i dated joey from work for 2 months and then found out he cheated on me. i hated going to work after that. he was popular guy. i was quiet girl. kinda ur situation. another thing i dated a guy named jase and ... (read in full...)

When poverty comes to a man's life, why does the woman slip away through the window?

Q.   when poverty comes to a man life why do woman slip away though the window. Y? ...

A.   12 January 2011: im not sure why but i know if the woman actually loved u she would stay with u. I stayed with mine thru being homeless... (read in full...)

I want to date my co-worker.

Q.   I want to ask out one of my male coworkers, but I'm not sure if it is a good idea. We talk and joke around a lot and he seems genuinely interested in me, but I don't want to make it awkward if he doesn't like me. How should I go forth in this ...

A.   11 January 2011: as long as sex isnt right away........it shoodnt be awkward. My first work relastionship went well. No sex until we knew we were ready. Another work relationship i had went horribly wrong and i still work with him and i hate those days. It totally ... (read in full...)

What should I say or do to help him not be teased and to understand him more?

Q.   this guy at school acts like a girl and he dresses like a guy . people teases him and call him gay but i dont think they should. i dont know how to approach him asking is he gay or not and might offend him. i personally think he just enjoy acting ...

A.   6 January 2011: simple answer to this: befriend him.... (read in full...)

Is there such a thing as too big?

Q.   i've only ever had sex three times and im wondering about my penis size. The first girl i had sex with actually giggled when she saw it but she told me not to worry because her ex boyfriends was huge. The second girl was shocked. She couldnt believe ...

A.   2 January 2011: it definelty depends on the girl. Personally...i dont like them that big cuz they hurt!! A good size can range from five to eight for me. But anything bigger feels like ur ripping me open. Lol but yeah depends on the girl for sure... (read in full...)

He's angry because he found my diary from BEFORE we were together that has pictures of an ex!

Q.   soo my bf was looking for something in the spare bedroom and came across my diary. Which of course had pics of my ex and the last time i wrote or even looked in the diary was before my new bf and i were even together! He said he didnt read it...just ...

A.   1 January 2011: he says he didnt go thru it...it accidenytly opened to the page with the picture on it...and noothing fell out of the diary...which is crazy cuz i had tons of loose papers in it. Then he said he might just start his own diary and take random pics ... (read in full...)

Age differences and what is acceptable?

Q.   Hay I am just wondering, how big an age difference do you think is still acceptable? I know the whole "love has no boundries" thing but I can't help thinking that a 20 year age gap is just a little weird, it's like a 1 year old going out with a 21 y...

A.   28 October 2010: Love is blind. I'm 17 years apart from the love of my life. And I'm ok with it. Who cares what people think is acceptable? ... (read in full...)

Biggest age gap you've ever seen?!

Q.   Hi, ok. are u sitting down people? I seriously need a word of advice..i've fallen in love. madly, deeply inlove. And this man is in love with me, but we have to keep our relationship secret because we are afraid of what people might think. We ...

A.   28 October 2010: Girl!!!!!! I envy you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm in love with an older man and I'm soooo worried about what others think too, but you have to let it out! It will cause people to talk stare and whatever but who cares if your in love!!!!!!!!! ... (read in full...)

Losing my virginity..how and where?

Q.   Hi i'm 14 and think i am bi. I want to lose my virginity, but i don't know where to meet someone at my age. Also i have been talking to someone on msn who is gay and 17 and say they will help me lose it, but he doesn't live near me, though he did s...

A.   28 October 2010: I honestly think you should wait for the special person!!!!!! U r only 14 and I know when I was 14 I wanted to lose mine too but I waited until I was18, and it was with someone I love. Enjoy ur life while ur young, I know I sound like I'm lecturing ... (read in full...)

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