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writes:I was tempted to lie about my age when I was posting this question because anyone as experienced as I am have must leaned these lessons by now but I have not. When my marriage dissolved I had been with him from the time I was 14 until i was 27. I'm afraid this has made me very naive. I've had a handful of relationship one of them serious and I'm currently dating a guy who's Mormon for the last 2 years. Seriously I saw myself remarrying this man but he has a huge problem;he's horribly addicted to pornography. Exactly I don't have an issue with these type of things but he's making it impossible to accept. He's dishonest, will not include mean refuses to stop I think it's getting worse. Lately I believe that he's hooking up with wemon online and meeting them for sex. My question is how real are those "hook up tonight websites" and why does he feel compelled to do this? I know it's not technically cheating? Is there any way to get concrete evidence? Thanks a lot any help would be appreciated
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (13 April 2014):
 So, in the last 2 years of dating this man has he ever been open, honest not cheated or used porn?
Get on the computer and check out the websites for yourself, you will get a rough idea who you are seeing as a potential husband.
Learn about life before you date another man. You need to experience the 21st century, get to know yourself, stop being gullible. Your an individual, you don't need to be with a man to have value.
Dump him
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2014): Claiming to be religious means nothing, or having a religious "affiliation". I was with someone who talked it up but rarely walked his talk. In a belief system in which an individual is meant to abstain from alcohol, drugs, pornography and anything degrading to women, prayer, kindness etc., I actually saw very little of this and a lot more of the stuff he WASN'T meant to do. Always an excuse of course.
This guy is really scsummy. Ditch him. Massive lesson, words mean nothing unless they are backed up by the corresponding actions.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (13 April 2014):
 1.) horribly addicted to pornography
2.) dishonest
3.) hooking up with women online and meeting them for sex
What other "concrete" evidence do you want? This man ISNT marriage material or worth dating or for that matter even getting to know better!
Run for the hills
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 April 2014):
 Why even bother to get concrete evidence? He's dishonest… He may have a religious affiliation but that doesn't make him an honest, upright and trustworthy man.
Who cares why he feels compelled to do this? He does it! I would end this relationship, no need for much explanation here, and move on. There are men who are honorable and who want to be monogamous.
This guy ain't one of them!
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