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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): i really want to know what has happened since you first posted this. i hope you reported those girls to the police !! . They are really sick minded !!.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): The police will take him seriously. Why would he lie? That is ridiculous. It takes a lot of guts for a guy to go to the police about it. There are organisations made JUST because of it. It's very well known now that men can be raped like that. It was all over the TV with Ads and stuff for men to call in to make sure they knew it was ok to tell someone about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): You can't. Unfortunately, there's a double standard that says that men are not supposed to be selective. They're supposed to be "ready to go" at all times. In time they will stop picking on you but they won't forget it. The cops won't believe you, i'm afraid.
It goes without saying that you shouldn't play strip poker again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): imagine if it were 2 guys doing that to a girl. its assault report them then they wont be laughing!!
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 Seriously, DON'T go to the police and don't claim that you were raped. If you think people are laughing at you now they would really be laughing at you then.
Generally it isn't right for a guy to say any bad thing about a girl but these girls have crossed a line and made themselves fair game and you have to turn the tables. If the girls in question are in anyway unattractive then you can play that up, if not then you can say that the one who was sitting on your chest broke wind or smelled or something like that and the whole situation was so "gross" that of course you didn't get a hard on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): that is assault - you may have been playing strip poker but you did not ask to be violated like that, and you indicated no and struggled too. If you were a girl and that was two guys, people would be saying go to police station ASAP. But since you are a guy you are supposed to be up for it reagrdless of situation and whether you want it or not. Hence the gay name calling. Tis not fair - and i would seriously consider going to the police. Maybe its your word against theirs but you did not ask to be assaulted and who knows, it may shock them into never doing this to another unwilling person. No means no, whether you are a man or woman.
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reader, Elydiese  +, writes (18 June 2010):
I'd phone the police, thats sexual assault
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): Report it dude, and pray to God the coppers take you seriously. If the genders were reversed I can only imagine the shitstorm that would ensue (rightfully so).
Don't let these chicks get away with it. If they're 18 or over you could make the rest of their lives a living hell by filing charges for sexual assault and/or rape. They wouldn't be laughing so much then.
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reader, AvgGuy1  +, writes (18 June 2010):
 YouWish nailed it. You were essentially RAPED!
And of course you're not going to get excited. MOST guys DON'T get excited in a fight or flight situationl. Why would you? Follow YouWish's recommendations and tell the beotches that if they don't stop the harassment/slander that you're going to the cops.
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (18 June 2010):
Aside from this being sexual assault, you could easily defend your manhood by saying you didn't get an erection because the girls were really ugly.
Sounds like you need to find some better friends though dude. You don't need that kind of shit happening in your life.
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reader, Becca64 +, writes (18 June 2010):
 that is absolutely disgusting. I agree you were definately raped. they had no right to do thtto you, and anyone who thinksthat is funny is disgusting
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (18 June 2010):
 this is weird and creepy and sounds like an ineffective form of sexual assault
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reader, Matts,girls2810 +, writes (18 June 2010):
just say you like a tease not someone that just goes for it, you like a little game ;)
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reader, YouWish +, writes (18 June 2010):
 WHAT?! OMG. If you were a girl, and two guys did that to you, it would be RAPE. You were raped. You gave no consent to two girls ripping off your shorts and violating you.
Of COURSE you're not excited. Of course you're trying to get up! You don't want this to happen. You didn't chicken out of a threesome. You were raped by 2 women after a game of strip poker.
How long ago was this??? You should call the police and have those two charged with sexual assault, because that's EXACTLY what it was. Don't put up with it. You're not a "pussy" any more than a girl who's violated in that way is a "slut".
Go take action against these girls who did this to you. If she so much as utters any more insults towards you, tell her you're calling the cops on her. End of story.
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reader, Matts,girls2810 +, writes (18 June 2010):
you didnt know what wuz going on the girls are just immature. you dont need to prove anybody. over time it will go away and people will forget all you can do is say hey at least i actually can get attacked by two chicks and deal with it .
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reader, TimmD +, writes (18 June 2010):
 Ummmmmm..... tell them you don't have an erection for less than 5 girls at a time?
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