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Been together 3 months and he's starting to irritate me, should I just call it a day?

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Question - (18 June 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm in a real dilemma and don't know what to do. I met by boyfriend 3 months ago. We get on well although we have never been out on a date. He just comes to my house and we hang out. He calls/texts each day sometimes we talk for ages.

The problem is that recently he has started to get on my nerves. He came to see me the other day at my house as usual, then he left mine to go out to the pictures...with his mates. It's not just that though, like when I text him, he won't reply sometimes for hours. The when he texts me, if I don't reply, he calls me. I don't want him to do anything for me which he doesn't like and I don't really enjoy the sex either, he is too rough.

Do you guys think it's time I called it a day?

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A female reader, Liza999 Canada +, writes (19 June 2010):

Liza999 agony aunthmmm I dont think you have given it enough time! Firstly you need to get out of the house! He may be a little inexperienced and shy and feels that your place is a comfort zone! You can always teach him how to touch you eventually but this relationship is so new and I think you have got a good base. You can chat, he obviously is into you ...I think you just need to plan a date for the two of you and see how you feel about him not in the confines of your personal space! Give us an update!

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A female reader, lovepuppy88 United States +, writes (18 June 2010):

if your not happy why waist your time. You should be happy not annoyed. And you have never been out. what fun is that. make youself happy girl!

good luck =]

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (18 June 2010):

AuntyEm agony auntNo I think you should stay with him...he sounds like an absolute dreamboat!!!!!

Seriously!!!, you arnt happy and he isnt playing along either. Do you really need anyone else to tell you to end it???

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