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A question about the pill

Q.   Taking the pill, please help? Last month i started using Loette (the pill). Today is the start of my second round of pills as yesterday was the last day of my period (if this make sense?) I took 7 sugar tablets and now today i took an active t...

A.   26 June 2010: you might its hard to tell. why do you want to stop taking it? you wont be proteted... (read in full...)

Does masturbation affect virginity?

Q.   when i do the secret happit, does that may affect my virginity cause iam getting maried after few months and i must be virgin ? and how can i knew or be sure...

A.   26 June 2010: you only loose your virginity through sex. masterbating makes no difference dont worry... (read in full...)

What's the hang-up on swallowing?

Q.   It probably has been answered already, but what is the real hang up on women not wanting to swallow a man's ejaculation. Taste? Contents? Etc. Also, if you are going to let them cum in your mouth, what's the difference? Men go down on women and ...

A.   24 June 2010: from personal experience... when i swallow i actually feel ill. Last time i did I felt really sick and actuall went to bed! I told him i would only let him do it in my mouth every now and then. im not saying never, he can still have it as a birthday ... (read in full...)

How do I stop period cramps?

Q.   Wot can one do to stop period cramps....

A.   23 June 2010: i went on the contraceptive pill and mine stopped almost completely :)... (read in full...)

Should I ask my friend to take my virginity?

Q.   Hi everyone. I've just turned 22 and I'm still very much a virgin. The most I've ever done with a girl is a snog and those don't come around very often. I'm not particularly embarrassed about my v-plates, I hardly keep it a secret, but the ...

A.   22 June 2010: I think you should wait until you are with someone special. :) Its a big step and if you do it with the right person it will be really special for you both ... (read in full...)

Is this really cheating, I feel cheated in my marriage.

Q.   Two friends, a man and a woman, both married in their late 40s, the marriages are sexless and in trouble. We became sexually attracted from the lack of any intimacy at home. We talk often and sex is a hot topic between us. She asked me to have sex ...

A.   22 June 2010: i have to say i still feel you should tell your wife its over before you sleep with someone else. I understand completely where youre coming from but i personally am a strong believer of finishing one thing before you start another... (read in full...)

Watching anime porn...is it normal to be getting wet down there at my age?

Q.   I'm fourteen years old, turning fifteen this year. I am a female. I watch hentai every week. Hentai being anime porn basically. I enjoy it a lot. What I am wondering though.. When I watch hentai, I just sit with my laptop on my lap with my legs spr...

A.   22 June 2010: yeah hun thats normal to start getting those feelings and to start becoming interested. Just feel I need to say dont act on it, watching like this is ok but just keep it as just that :) But dont worry its normal :) x... (read in full...)

Tips on kissing and whether we should try when my dad is nearby..

Q.   MOD NOTE: Two questions combined Ok im going my first movie with my boyfrriend and my dad will be there and we want to makeout should we risk it? Also I dont know how to makeout and me and my bf want to makeout at the movies! how do i do it?????....

A.   22 June 2010: dont do it with your dad there. you dont want your first experience of kissing your boyrffriend to be while trying to hide it (unsuccessfully i would think) from your dad :) and as to the how part, I dont have any specific tips, though im sure ... (read in full...)

Difference between "love" and "in love"?

Q.   I was always wondering wat is the differnece between "loving someonne" and "being in love wif someone". My best friend says that she loves her boyfriend but she isn't in love. I don't know what it means to be in love at least i don't think so. So ...

A.   22 June 2010: When i broke up with my boyfriend... i had come to the conclusion i loved him in the way i love my best friend. Not the same 'in love' feeling as i used to have with him as a partner... (read in full...)

I would like to kiss a boy, but my parents watch me like hawks

Q.   Hey guys! well, im 15 and i have NEVER kissed anyone. i have someone in mind but im too afraid that my parents would find out some how or someone would tell. im not aloud to date yet so that means no dates! what do i do? do the guys tell people or ...

A.   22 June 2010: Talk to your parents about it, let them know youll be responsible, you wont take things too far and obviously wont have sex until it is legal and even then not until youre ready (but you seem really sensible and nt thinking about this, just felt i ... (read in full...)

Should I date my teacher?

Q.   hi. i have had a crush on my teacher for a while. she is right out of college i believe shes 23 im a 18 year old senior entering my last week of school. i guess she noticed i liked her and asked me to have sex after school. i did and it was amazing. ...

A.   21 June 2010: this is wrong because she is in a position of power over you while she is your teacher... (read in full...)

Dreading my doctors appointment...

Q.   well, I'm on a birth control pill to regulate my period, apparently my prescription expired which means I'll have to go in for a physical. And I'm dreading the appointment where they have to check you down there. I'm so uncomfortable with people ...

A.   21 June 2010: why would they check you down there? they never did for me. but if they do want to you have two options. you either take adeep breath and be braveand go with it... or when it comes to it you say no. no one can make you. not your doctor or your ... (read in full...)

Feel so alienated from my family since they found out I'm a lesbian

Q.   well, hello. heres the story, questions at the end. the other day, my mother found out i like girls. there was no question about me being lesbian (which i am) or bisexual. she was just pissed and all depressed about me liking girls. anywho, ...

A.   20 June 2010: if i were you, i wouldnt go to church if i didnt want to. she shouldnt force you to do any of that stuff that you dont want to do. she should respect you for everything you are, regardless of your sexuality. See if you can sit down with her and ... (read in full...)

He's cheating on me with porn!

Q.   a few days ago i found out that my boyfriend, who i've been with for 6 months, has been watching porn on a regular basis, it hurt alot. mostly because he made a point for 5 months of telling me he was proud because he hadn't watched porn or ...

A.   20 June 2010: i think he was really tactlesss in saying this to you. It is perfectly normal for guys to watch porn even when in a relationship. My friends boyfriend even has it on his phone ! she doesnt mind it though cos he is open about it. she has always been ... (read in full...)

Do girls find muscles attractive?

Q.   do girls find muscles attractive? cuz when ever i go out with a couple of my buddies who work out, i always find girls checking them out, so yeah.. what do you girls find attractive?...

A.   20 June 2010: its alla matter of taste, but i have to say i personally hate muscley men (sorry guys :P) but then aain if i got to know a guy who happened to have muscles it wouldnt be a factor, i jut wouldnt be initiallydrawn to them... (read in full...)

He said he would book a hotel in the city, I checked and there was no booking...

Q.   I am 29 and have been in a long distance ´fling´ for almost 5 months now. My fling and I live about a 3 hour planetrip away from each other. We met at a conference, both there on work related business and we ´clicked´, the conference was 3 days and...

A.   20 June 2010: well if he hasnt even bothered to reply he doesnt seem worth it !!! if he eventually does then I may take that back, but really.. if he is as interested as he made out he would have made contact by now. Yo seem way too good for him to me. DOnt... (read in full...)

Do boobs really matter that much? Feeling insecure!

Q.   So my ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for about 2 weeks. He is talking to this girl, I checked her FB profile out she has a son, has big boobs, big ass, she's like a muslim or something, she gets around, has a filthy mouth, she's fat. Why is ...

A.   18 June 2010: Mine are the same size as yours :) i am so SO self conscious. But at the same time, ive kinda come to the conclusion that if i guy doesnt like them then he doesnt deserve them. if he cant take me for what I am then Idont want him anyway... (read in full...)

Do you regret losing your virginity?

Q.   I would really like to get some kind of an idea of how many people regret losing their virginity because of the person or your age or those who wish they'd lost it earlier? People who wish they'd waited until marriage and those that wish they had...

A.   18 June 2010: I dont regret it, no. I made sure it was with someone I loved very much. I would have regretted it if it were a one night stand or similar, or if i didnt really love the guy (but not everyone feels that way). We broke up around 2 weeks ago, but... (read in full...)

Everyone is laughing at me because I was set upon totally unawares...

Q.   Me and two girls were playing strip poker in the basement of a party and we were getting down to no clothes. The two of them lost their bras and then they decided I should lose my shorts, cause that is all I had left. So they tackled me and one sat ...

A.   18 June 2010: that is absolutely disgusting. I agree you were definately raped. they had no right to do thtto you, and anyone who thinksthat is funny is disgusting... (read in full...)

He said he would book a hotel in the city, I checked and there was no booking...

Q.   I am 29 and have been in a long distance ´fling´ for almost 5 months now. My fling and I live about a 3 hour planetrip away from each other. We met at a conference, both there on work related business and we ´clicked´, the conference was 3 days and...

A.   18 June 2010: this sounds really weird. You knew somethingwas up but hedidnt explain it. Maybe checking up on him wasnt nice but it wouldnt bother him in this way if he dint have something to hide... why tell you he had a reservation if he didnt...? has he ... (read in full...)

Even though I'm extra careful having unprotected sex, I still worry something might go wrong.

Q.   My girlfriend and I have completely, unprotected sex. We're being really stupid about this (especially me) since I'm already and adult and she's still underage. Condoms are usually a little tight on my penis but, I forgot what the name was, that ...

A.   3 December 2008: A girl can get the pill at any age. you MUST use SOMETHING! you ARE being stupid.... (read in full...)

My periods have changed but I haven't had sex!

Q.   hiya, well a rather silly question but my periods are normally really regular.. and this month (now) i am supposed to be on and im not :S i'm 15 and obv never had sex etc etc, so i know its impossible to be preg, but im just scared ! this is t...

A.   3 December 2008: A lot of people dont stay regular at this age- dont worry about it.... (read in full...)

We don't know how to tell our parents about our age difference!

Q.   Im 16 years old and I've been seeing this guy who is 5 years older than me. We are afraid to tell my parents about us because of the age difference, which shouldn't be a problem. His family is friends with mine and he's been friends with my sister ...

A.   2 December 2008: Firstly... thats not a big age gap- even in your age.. and also, I am in the same situation... but worse. I am also 16 and my boyfriend is 26 :) I still dont see that as a big age gap. I love him so what does age matter? Tell them sl... (read in full...)

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