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writes:Does my ex still love me ? Hi everyone. Thanks for looking even if u don't read it all.Well basically to cut long story short. I was with my ex about 6 years, we split up due to arguing all the time and we ended up hating each other because of this. We had a technical split up for about 2 months then I thought we were back together we were doing boyfriend and girlfriend stuff again- going to family meals at Christmas, spending new year together and spending time with his family. But a month later I found out he has a new girlfriend.I asked him about it he didn't reply to any of my messages. Then we both went our separate ways for a few weeks. And now he won't leave me alone he texts, snapchats and face times me everyday. And I ask him if he wants to try again and he keeps dodging the question. I do love him and want to get back with him but I just want to know where I stand and what I should do. Thanks for reading please help xxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2014): Hes playing games. Any guy that lies, or simply avoids the fact that they have a new gf, but then is taking YOU around for the holidays and such, realky isnt a guy worth keeping around, What if you were his "new gf" and found out he was bringing his ex to holiday gatherings and what not, would you be happy about it? No, I say wash your hands of him hes no good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2014): "Does my ex still love me ?"
No.
"I just want to know where I stand . . ."
He hopes that you're dumb, clingy, naive and/or desperate enough to be willing to be strung along as his piece on the side, a vagina on-call available 24/7 strictly for his pleasure and strictly at his convenience.
" . . . and what I should do."
Muster up the self-respect, pride and dignity to raise your standards and walk away.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (9 January 2014):
 I agree with Honeypie, you need to let this go. Just to add why do want someone that treated you so badly and has the audacity to continue a relationship with his GF and continue to hound you with SMS. This kind of thrash is not worth the heartache. Move on and don't look back, you deserve so much more.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (9 January 2014):
 He has a GF - all he wants from you is sex. You gave it up before, maybe you will again (at least that is what he is thinking).
The fact that 1. he HAS a GF and 2. He is avoiding the subject of working it out, pretty much shows that all he sees you as, is a "fwb" or F-buddy.
Block his ass. Block his number, his whatever app. CUT him out of your life or you can play this tug an push for the rest of your life, wasting time on a man who doesn't WANT you as his GF. You are his back up, in case the GF doesn't work out or he gets bored.
Let him go. Not for his sake or his GF's sake, but for yours.
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