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female
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30-35,
*utegirl89
writes:i have been dating this guy from past 5 years and have been in long distance relationship. in last one year we have been through rough patch and had broken up and we hadn't even met in last one year. The reason for breakup was because things were not working out due to behavioural differences and he was not willing to commit for lifetime. recently i met a guy for marriage prospects and we gel well, he wishes to take things further, my ex had come to know that i am liking a new guy suddenly he wants to come back, get married and have a happy life together. he has apologized for his stupid behaviour for not realizing my importance all these years and that he will never treat me badly ever again and does not want to let me go. kindly suggest , as i m in great confusion. i do share a bond with my ex as we have known each other for so long , but on the same time i feel that i should go with someone who is very sincere from starting to be with me.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (1 September 2015):
 I would also hate to marry an ex for the reason being, he doesn't want the new guy to have you. What a horrible way to start life together. Who can be sure that he's really going to marry you? Instead he could be just saying it to cause a break up with this new relationship first.
I would not be too quick to say the New guy is sincere. If you had said to him why you broke up with your ex he could be talking marriage just to prove he's better than your ex. Take your time and let the new guy prove to you in actions. Your ex came back in too late. It's his loss. It's cruel to lead someone for 5 years long distance but with no plans to close it.
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