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Can she claim to be interested still? do I date him or do I just forget about him?

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Question - (1 September 2015) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2015)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

so I really like this guy and he really likes me. the problem is, one of my friends (we used to be close but now we're not) really liked him about a year ago.

They didn't even date. he claimed he never liked her but she has told me previously that they were about to date. but anyways, now he wants to date me, but she all of the sudden decides that once again, she wants to be with him. she's been saying for the past year that she's over him and that she didn't care about him anymore.

do I date him or do I just forget about him?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (1 September 2015):

Honeypie agony auntIs this really the only available guy around?

And honestly if you and your "former" friend are in your 30's aren't you just a LITTLE to old to call dibs on this guy?

If you and your "former" friend aren't really friends any more I don't see the problem. You want to date him, he wants to date you... What she wants is kind of irrelevant, isn't it?

I mean she can WANT to be with him all she wants, but obviously it is not what HE wants....

Are you sure OP that you are in your 30's? Not teens?

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