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*unaticLove92
writes:Okay so my life is complicated...this is going to get confusing..just a warning before you get started...Okay well first off about 2 years ago I cheated on my ex for my girlfriend im dating now (for 2 years)...well I still love my ex and my ex says she still loves me...But shes dating what used to be my best friend(like practicly brothers)...and I found out she actually cheated on me first those 2 years ago when we broke up...Thing is me and my ex have made out since we broke up and text secretly behind our bf/gf backs... I dont know what to do because my ex and me are perfect for each other its just she seems like shes so caught up in her current relationship to worry with me...but she obviously cares if she would take the time and the chance of getting caught to be with me and kiss.On another hand I love my current girlfriend very much and she loves me...should I leave my temptation alone and stick with my gf...or should I go with what my heart really wants which is my ex..i dont want you to think im just some douchbag cause i know thats what it seems like, ive just got caught up between 2 women I care for...toIdk if you have any insight on the situation please help
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reader, Jen1689 +, writes (28 March 2011):
 Mentioning that doesn't make what you're doing right. You've been cheated on by and have cheated on both of these girls and you're wanting to continue a relationship with them? Why? So you can continue to be cheated on and you can continue to cheat on them? You're never going to be happy if you keep going with this. But I doubt you'll be willing to let both of them go. None of you deserve any of each other if you're willing to betray one another like this. You guys have some twisted ideas about relationships and friendships. None of them involve honesty and loyalty. Good luck if you continue with either of these girls. My guess is the shit's going to hit the fan sooner rather than later.
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reader, LunaticLove92 +, writes (27 March 2011):
LunaticLove92 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDamn yall are harsh lol probably should have acknowledged the fact my current gf has cheated on me twice with one of my other best friends in the 2 years we've been together. But I guess that doesnt really matter
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011): Yes Jen is 100% correct. You have some twisted definition of love by cheating on all involved and your ex is also doing the same. So in that sense you're perfect for one another since you're both cheaters and lying deceivers. And realize that any of this 'drama' is all your own creation. You don't just get caught up in all this. You are making choices and decisions to get to where you are now. Methinks the only thing you love ultimately is putting your penis in these women. On the flipside, so does your ex, she likes receiving it from more than just you! Sloppy seconds anyone? Cheers!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011): Wow you just love the drama. Just be single yeah, stop hurting these women
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (27 March 2011):
 1. Break up with your girlfriend and get back with your ex. Your girlfriend doesn't deserve to be cheated on. She shouldn't have to be in a relationship with someone who admits his heart isn't in it, which you admit to. Go back with your ex, because cheaters should be with each other and leave decent people alone.
2. Stop calling your ex and getting all dirty behind your girlfriend's back. You know what you are doing is wrong. If your ex was so hot for you and in love with you she would be with you instead of her boyfriend. She isn't. The same goes for you.
I'd choose #2 if I were you.
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reader, Jen1689 +, writes (27 March 2011):
So let me get this straight... You cheated on your ex with your current girlfriend, but you're cheating on your current girlfriend with your ex? And you claim to love both of them? Wrong. You don't love either of them if you're willing to hurt them like that. You need to break up with both of them and figure yourself out before you try to have a relationship with anyone. Good luck.
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