Masturbation - is it common?
Q. ive always wondered, is it okay to masturbate? is it common or not? everyone goes round saying 'you're a wanker' etc. is this because everyone does it or am i a one off?...
A. 9 October 2007: Everyone either does it or has done it!
Some women (and men) even buy toys to help them along!
Im sure your aware that most women will own a vibrator or clitoral stimulator, so what do you think they have one for,,,,,,,ill give you a hint, its not ... (read in full...)
I am gay, should I come out of the closet?
Q. im gay, should i come out the closet? my parents are VERY homophobic. just yesterday they saying how being gay is such a waste....
A. 9 October 2007: Ok, hun i think you should definatly come out because you cant really live a lie, if your gay you shouldnt deny it to anyone-certainly not any homophobs! Even if they are your parents!
Once they know theyll probably be in a bit of denial (most are)... (read in full...)
What are the relationship 'bases'?
Q. What are the bases in relationships?? x...
A. 2 October 2007: Its not just about sex in a relationship or so others have put it, the sexual bases.
The bases (as in foundations) that hold a relationship together are (as said before) trust, loyalty etc.
You show eachother compassion, affection as in kissing,... (read in full...)
He said hes begining to like me but he has a wife and child. What am I going to do?
Q. I like this guy and he said he's beginning to like me too..but the problem is he has a wife and a child..what am i going to do?..should i believe him?...
A. 23 September 2007: I say, instead of assuming things wont work out (probably wont but...), make sure first as hes admitted he likes u!
Ask him out-right first if hes in love with his wife and ask him what he thought was going to happen after he told u he liked u!
... (read in full...)
During a break my guy got with a barmaid. Hes back with me but he's still drinking in the pub she works in. I want him to stop drinking there!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years we broke up in March for 6 weeks and during that time he started seeing the barmaid of the local bar he drinks in. We got back together and she kept on phoning him even though he was back with me. ...
A. 21 September 2007: Im not taking sides here, just stating facts!
You were on a break, incase you werent entirely aware of the circumstances of being on a break it means for a certain amount of time (or forever), you are not together!
You both can do exactly as you p... (read in full...)
I went out and cheated on my girl. I want to make it work with her for my daughters sake but my feelings aren't the same anymore..
Q. hi.I need suome advice of wot to do!I have been with my fiancee for 6 and half years and we have an 18 month old girl.Last weekend saw me go out and stay round a mates!I ended up taking a girl with me and we made love!I really dont know what to do ...
A. 21 September 2007: This will sound harsh but i think you want to live the fun of the single life and have the security of your relationship. im afraid, you cant have both!
If your feeling different about your parnter, you may find it very hard to shake off.
So ma... (read in full...)
What are the chances of a relationship working in the long run, if you left someone else for them?
Q. I just wanted to know that if you are in a long term relationship and leave for another person. What are the chances of this working out? What's in it for the long haul?...
A. 20 September 2007: Do whatever you think is right, you will, however, be taking a huge risk! But theres risks in anything you do in life. you only live once so you now have two options, Option 1: Stay with your current relationship, possibly be unhappy, (im assuming... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend, but I have feelings for someone I consider my soulmate, too!
Q. I have been in a relationship for a year now and I love my girlfriend to death. The only thing thats bothering me is I have began to have feelings for another girl. I feel like she is my true soulmate but I know that I can never have her. As long as ...
A. 20 September 2007: If you truely want to persue this soulmate of yours, ask her first what she thinks. If she agrees she feels the same for you as you do for her, then let your current gf go, as said by someone else, shed be hurt and offended that you found your sou... (read in full...)
Ladies: what can I do to win her over? Any suggestions??
Q. why cant i win her over? what do i do? she likes someone else more then me at least i think. we have gotten close but then she faded away. how can i get her to like me again? what can i do that she'll never forget? ladies help!!!...
A. 20 September 2007: Tell her the truth, but try not to sound too needy! just tell her you like her and wanted her to know that. whatever it is your feeling, let it out, it may be the way she smiles, or the way the wind blows in her hair. whatever it is tell he... (read in full...)
I wouldn't have cheated if I had been sober, but how do I shake this feeling of guilt?
Q. Hello everyone. I've been dating this wonderful girl for about 2 months now, but something has happened to turn my life upside down. Last weekend, I went out drinking with some friends of mine, and I wound up cheating on my girlfriend. I d...
A. 20 September 2007: The guilt is telling you that you love your girlfriend. These things happen, just forget about it, focus on your girlfriend and just learn from your mistake. I thinks thats all you can do hunny. xxbest of luckxx... (read in full...)
How do I make myself ejaculate?
Q. hi i want to know how to squirt by myself i kinda have but i want to really squirt. How do i do that?...
A. 19 September 2007: If you can get hold of it, then i know of a great gadget that will help you get to climax!
Its called the dolphin, its a clitoral stimulator, just a blue stick with a vibrating dolphin at the top!
You can buy this only at ann summers for just £12... (read in full...)
Is it best to stay friends after a break up or better to sever all ties?
Q. is it best to stay friends after a break up or is it better to sever all ties? my ex and i were very close and he often said i was his best friend as well as girlfriend! We broke up amicably and he said he wanted us to be like ross and rachel i.e ...
A. 19 September 2007: I think you should remain friends if its a mutual agreement.
Iv been able to remain close friends with someone i dated for about 6 months, we did lose contact although we were friends.
If you care enough to consider him a friend then youd want him... (read in full...)
He told his ex-girlfriend all about our sex life! What should I do?
Q. So, ive been seeing this guy for two months now. Im completely in love with him already, and he feels the same about me. But the other day when he was at work I couldnt help myself and took a peek at him IM messages. I looked at the conversation he ...
A. 18 September 2007: Ok, i think hes was being very disrespectful towards your privicy, although, im afraid to say, if you confronted him, he could throw the same accusation at you for invading his privicy.
He is in the wrong, and if you build a good enough argu... (read in full...)
What time of day should you weigh yourself?
Q. are you supposed weigh yourself at night or in the morning? i thought it was at night but my friend says its in the morning? please help...
A. 15 September 2007: Weigh yourself in the morning after youve been to the loo and before you have any food or drink.
This will giv you your exact weight.
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Married for all the wrong reasons. Met a soul mate in someone else. Pls help.
Q. Married for all the wrong reasons. Met my soulmate in someone else. Please help....
A. 15 September 2007: This all depends on what is really classed as your soulmate?
What occurances make you think this other person is your soulmate?
Why did you marry for all the wrong reasons?
I really want to help you, although you need to be more specific. Im... (read in full...)
Since getting a bf, she's started ignoring me! How can I get her to like me, or even just be my friend again?
Q. Ok im 16 and have this really good friend who i have been really good friends with for about 2 years. She got a boyfriend about a month ago that she really likes, and nothings been the same since. Ive liked her ever since we've been friends and i ...
A. 14 September 2007: Im afraid to say that she seems to really want to move on. Shes happy with her new bf. I know you miss her friendship,but shell come back when shes ready, shes in the honeymoon period, let her enjoy it. Just be there for her when she needs you, a... (read in full...)
Want to lose weight by not eating.
Q. Ok well i'm 14 and i want to loose weight as im 9 stone which is like pretty bad for my age i'm fat really..i wanna loose weight by not eatin..but i wanna know what will happen to my boobs? will they shrink?? please answer thanks xxx...
A. 13 September 2007: ok hun, this is a very seriouse matter! Your boobs shrinking should not be the concern if you stop eating! The concern is that you will become anorexic! Do not harm your body this way, there is a simple solution that you can do that doesnt mean ... (read in full...)
Want to lose weight by not eating.
Q. Ok well i'm 14 and i want to loose weight as im 9 stone which is like pretty bad for my age i'm fat really..i wanna loose weight by not eatin..but i wanna know what will happen to my boobs? will they shrink?? please answer thanks xxx...
A. 13 September 2007: ok hun, this is a very seriouse matter! Your boobs shrinking should not be the concern if you stop eating! ... (read in full...)
26 year old virgin... Please help me!
Q. hey, im 26 and i know this is going to sound so stupid but im still a virgin ive had no trouble with men its just when the time comes i chicken out and make excuses to get away and then i never ring back, i feel like a teenager still. i want to ...
A. 13 September 2007: Firstly, this is normal for someone to feel like this about having sex for the first time. Age is but a number. If you have a partner that you are ready to try this with, and fully feel you are ready, here are tips to help you along: always m... (read in full...)
Does it make me a bad person to do something for myself for once?
Q. What are peoples reactions to thinking of number one. I have spent my whole life making others happy over myself, being walked all over, let down, used and a human punchbag (verbally) for peoples problems. Does it make me a bad person to do so...
A. 13 September 2007: I used to mate around with people who i thought were friends. They were terrible friends, infact, pathetic excuses for human beings!
I would let them walk all over me, put me down, give them anything they wanted, do any favours at all.
Do you know... (read in full...)
Is there any hope or is this all too messy to sort out?
Q. Help. Another threesome question with a twist: when first meeting my boyfriend 3 years ago I was a story teller and prolific liar. Blessed or cursed with the ability to say what I believed people wanted to hear. I told my boyfriend that I had ...
A. 13 September 2007: I havnt had an experience like this, lets just say i have a hidden talent for seeing reason and logic.
When you love someone, deep down, you want them to be happy, you want them to lead the right path of life.
So if this means letting them go, then... (read in full...)
What should I do about the woman I love who already has a boyfriend?
Q. Hello. I am in a torrid emotional sexual affair with a woman who has a boyfriend. We kept ending starting again cos theres so much attraction. We are like best friends as well and can talk about anything. We decide its safer not to see each other ...
A. 13 September 2007: You dont have to give her an ultimatum, although you could give her an option.Thats a nicer, more understanding way to put it.
She is still with her bf, so that may tell you something about how she feels already, although she may also be wait... (read in full...)
He is moving again due to work and I don't know how to tell him how I feel...
Q. realy need your help it looks like the guy im love with is moving again for work. but this time i wanna tell him how i feel but i dont know how to... please help! im so close to tears even when writing this. he moved back in april but then cam...
A. 13 September 2007: Ring him, and ask him if there is any other logic reason why he didnt want you to be matched with his friend.
he might tell you the truth then.
if he doesnt , then im afraid your going to have to swallow your pride and be honest with him.
te... (read in full...)
Is it normal not to like sex? It's an invasion of privacy for me!
Q. Is it normal to not like sex? i mean i know its not normal in that most people DO enjoy sex but is it anything to be worried about that i really dont like it? It feels far too intimate and like it is a complete invasion of my privacy. i'm 22, ...
A. 13 September 2007: I think the worry of having an unsatisfying sex, is taking over your mind.im sorry if that sounds too forward.
Your obviously tense about the whole thing, which isnt abnormal, although you are still young at 22, and you have plenty of time to try ... (read in full...)
Some tips to help me orgasm from penetratiev sex?
Q. Hi, I need tips to help me orgasm from penatrive sex. I have never had an orgasm. My boyfriends penis size is fine, we have plenty of fore play too. I always orgasm during cunnilingus, am I too used to the thrill of oral sex maybe? Can you sugg...
A. 13 September 2007: While hes penetrating you, use your own finger to stimulate the clitoris.
This is not only pleasure for you, but is also a turn on for him.
also try having intercourse while your on all fours.
This makes it easier for the penis to grind the ap... (read in full...)
After the handjob, I went to the toilet and may have come into contact with my vagina. Could I be pregnant?
Q. On saturday I gave my boyfriend a handjob and he came on my hand. After that, I went to the toilet and may have come into contact with my vagina. Is there any possible way that I could be pregnant? How long does it take for the sperm to die once...
A. 13 September 2007: The only way your ever going to know, is to do a pregnancy test.
I feel it very unlikely that you will be pregnant, as the sperm really needs to be deeper into your vagina for this to actually take affect.
Although , put your mind at ease, ta... (read in full...)
He said the love has faded and he doesn't need me anymore. I feel used. What can I do?
Q. I met a boy who I enjoyed spending time with, he was so sad when I first met him, he didn't know a lot about the world outside of where he lived. so I did what I could to start showing him how somethings could look through other perspectives. ...
A. 13 September 2007: Depression can do strange things to the mind, it can make you say and do things you either dont mean or dont normally do.
stand by him.
yes he has lied about loving you, but he likes you as hes said himself he needs you, so stick with him, hel... (read in full...)
Is there any hope or is this all too messy to sort out?
Q. Help. Another threesome question with a twist: when first meeting my boyfriend 3 years ago I was a story teller and prolific liar. Blessed or cursed with the ability to say what I believed people wanted to hear. I told my boyfriend that I had ...
A. 13 September 2007: Im going to be extremely blunt here, and cruel to be kind and say that you should leave him, have enough guts to say to him " you know what i need to leave you and start fresh again", get out and away , rejuivinate yourself, attepmt to recreate a ... (read in full...)
I'm in a relationship and we have a child but I'm in love with someone else! What should I do?
Q. Hi. Ok, my question. I'm in love with someone who also feels the same way about me. There is no age problem. We are both adults. One problem is that we live in two different states. The second problem is, is that i'm already involed in a relation...
A. 13 September 2007: The heart wants what the heart desires!
Follow your heart, you only live once, do you really want to look back in 10 years time in this unhappy relationship and kick yourself for not being true to yourself.
If the feelings mutual with this new pers... (read in full...)
I found his secret phone and txt from a girl at work. Hes an alcoholic and we split loads but I hate being on my own so we get back together.
Q. i have just found out my partner of 3 years has been cheating on me, i found a secret mobile by his side in bed while he was drunk as usual!, it was full of explicit texts to a girl he works with, i couldnt believe wat i was seeing, i know he hasnt ...
A. 13 September 2007: I seriously think you need to get out of this now! I know you might not like being on your own, so why not tell him you need a break, get your own life into perspective, pamper yourself, go out with friends, try to live a temperary life of your own... (read in full...)
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