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I'm in a relationship and we have a child but I'm in love with someone else! What should I do?

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Question - (4 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2007)
A female South Africa age 41-50, *ins writes:

Hi. Ok, my question.

I'm in love with someone who also feels the same way about me. There is no age problem. We are both adults. One problem is that we live in two different states. The second problem is, is that i'm already involed in a relationship. It is not a happy relationship, but I do stay with him because of our child we have together.

Me and this guy, we correspond each day, and tell each other how we feel... he want's to visit me, but I can't as i'm in a relationship. He knows about my relationship...

What should I do...?

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A female reader, xxmissxx United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2007):

xxmissxx agony auntThe heart wants what the heart desires!

Follow your heart, you only live once, do you really want to look back in 10 years time in this unhappy relationship and kick yourself for not being true to yourself.

If the feelings mutual with this new person, then go for it, who knows you might crash and burn, but you might also live a happy life together.if you dont try youll never know.

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A female reader, faith scott boreanaz United Kingdom +, writes (4 September 2007):

 faith scott boreanaz agony auntI feel the relationship your in currently has ran dry, perhaps you should split up therefore you can go and finally be with the other guy who wants to see you so badly and have a happy relationship with him. I also think that if you do this you can let your childs father see your child from time to time, I feel this will be a happier situation for all three of you.

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