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Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me "come".
Q. I have had three boyfriends, but now I am married and my husband is intent on making me "come". Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me even come close, except for with clitorial stimulation. Even when I do get to THAT ...
A. 22 January 2008: II DID IT! My husband and I have done what I thought was not to be! I finaly came for the first time a few weeks ago! (Would have posted eariler but I was having trouble with my lil girl) And Holy Cr@p was it.....yea...wow...I don't evn know who to ... (read in full...)
What does it mean if lesbians went "all the way"... what is that??
Q. when two women have sex or "go all the way" what exactly is the difference between foreplay and just fooling around as lesbians and having sex/going the whole way? if that makes sense like if two lesbians say "we went all the way last night"...
A. 19 January 2008: it could mean all of the above. It depends on their prefernce. Some lesbian perfer oral, and some perfer dildos and such. But one thing it means for sure...they both had lots of FUN!!!!
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Anne... (read in full...)
Does a woman get a choice of whether she can have a Caesarean or not?
Q. if a person is pregnant do they ever get a choice of whether they have a caesarean section or not? my cousin is 6 months pregnant and shes scared of going through the birth. All answers would be appreciated, thank you...
A. 8 November 2007: I just had my first little girl two weeks ago.
Most hopsitals save the C-section for a last resort. I don't THINK you can choose to have a C-section unless something is wrong with you or the baby. You would have her aske her doctor.
Labor a... (read in full...)
Is he shy or just not into me?
Q. okay, I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months, and I want to know if he is actually taking this seriously...I'm always the one to call him, which isn't very often, I always propose we go on dates, and I'm always the one to make the first ...
A. 8 November 2007: It sounds like he's not taking it seriously. You need to talk to him and find out whats up.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's family won't acknowledge me and my boyfriend won't stand up for me. What can I do?
Q. the man that i have been dating for the last three years is an enabler to his family and also a people pleaser. his family does not acknowledge me. they did acknowledge me until we broke up for a short time back in the summer. they really do not ...
A. 8 November 2007: I know this is a very offhand way to look at it, but I would say (blank) them all! But if you want to be with him, then ignore his family. My family doesn't like my husband, but they can't give me a reason why!!!(good luck finding one anyway)If he's ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me on this, please? There's a chance that I might be pregnant...
Q. Hey. I have a question, and anyone with a good advice to help me out, i'd really appreciate it. To start it off, my period is pretty irregular. although it comes between 28-35 days. and it doesn't go over that. however today is..sept 1, and my last ...
A. 8 November 2007: You need to go to a doctor, if you haven't already. I just had my first lil girl two weeks ago and I had the same symtoms you did when I was first pregnant.... (read in full...)
Why am I so jealous?
Q. I'm 19, I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half and we're both madly in love. I just have a serious problem with jealousy! Hes a very good looking man and we were friends before we got together. I saw what he was like before when...
A. 8 November 2007: It is kinda true it does show that you care about him a great deal, but jealousy can tear a relationship apart. It's natural to be a little jealous, but make sure you keep in check. Also, keep in mind: HE CHOSE YOU. He wants to be with you, not the ... (read in full...)
Was it the right decision to break up with her?
Q. Hi everybody! I was in love with someone for the last one year and 8 months. As the time went, our relation become fade due to the followig reasons : She was racist and i tried to change her attituds towards racism, but she could't change a...
A. 8 November 2007: If you belive that you made the right descion then you did.
your ex seems to have a few issues that she needs to sort out, and maybe it is best that you two are apart. If you asked her to change/work on something that reallly truly bothered you and ... (read in full...)
How can I get my friend to speak to me? Did I do something wrong?
Q. Hi all, would like an opinion on this please. I had a firework party the other night. Inviting all the people that I care about and all my friends. The trouble is that two of them used to date, and although they are really cool about the situatio...
A. 8 November 2007: It does not sound like you did anything wrong, you did what you thought was best, and your friend should realize this. Give her time, she may come around on her own. Let her know that you are there for her. If she does not come around, then you are ... (read in full...)
Is the saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater" true?
Q. Is the saying true? Once a cheater, always a cheater?" Is it possible that the 'cheater' simply hasn't found the right one, or is it a flawed gene or something? Can a married man (for instance) find love outside his marriage and maintain that he ...
A. 8 November 2007: No, the saying Is not true. A person makes the choice to cheat or not to cheat, it has nothing to do with past realtionships. Marrige is supposed to be a one-on-one forever kinda thing, but if you both AGREE to open up the relationship and you are ... (read in full...)
I like this girl and want to date her, I don't know what to do.
Q. i like this girl and would like to date her but i don't but i don't know what to do. I got to know her about 2years ago when she fancied my best mate. And she couldn't get over him so she used to talk to me alot about him etc. I kind of helped h...
A. 11 October 2007: Just aske her out on another date. If she accepts, then wait until the end of the second date to ask her if she would like to be your girlfriend.
I would NOT push for a kiss, that is kinda rushing things, and if you have ever waited on a girl to ... (read in full...)
I still love him, but now I think he hates me. What can I do?
Q. Met a man 1yr10mths ago,after 3mths he told me he was married.I asked did he want to finish me,he said no.We stayed together and I grew to love him so much.In may his wife and kids came here on holiday and stayed until october.We were still ...
A. 11 October 2007: Being the other woman is always hard, but it is a situation you put yourself into, and being dicovered is one of the consequences. If he is acting like he hates you, then he probaly trying to blame everything on you, even though it takes two to ... (read in full...)
My sister and I are close, and I'm jealous of her.
Q. I have a problem and I need help. I'm 14 and my sister is 15, and we are very close. But I am so jelous of her. Okay, most of the guys I like end up liking her. Every girl and guy in my grade tries to be friends with her, they act like I don't even ...
A. 11 October 2007: If you hate being the one in the shadows, step out of them. You said you are shy, and I'm guessing your sister isn't, so try being more outgoing. Talk to people, let them know you are just as cool and special as your sister, more so because you ... (read in full...)
She's dreaming of her ex so what does that mean about us?
Q. i apologize in advance if this is confusing but im really confused right now and need some help. ok so about a week ago i had a dream... well more of a nightmare in which my fiance broke up with me over the phone because she said her ex wanted her ...
A. 11 October 2007: If you trust her then don't worry. Dreams are exactly that dreams. They can be truth and they can also be lies. Until she gives you reason not to, trust her. And try not to worry so much. It's bad for your immune system ;) lol j/k.... (read in full...)
Do I tell my best friend's brother how I feel?
Q. I've been extremially close with my best friend since Kindergarden. Starting over the summer i started to like her older brother, she knows this, and constantally said that he likes me back. Then i moved away, halfway across the country to be exact. ...
A. 11 October 2007: That's not really a big age difference, besides age ain't nothin but a number. I would say that you should let him know how you feel, but Long distance relationships take more than the usual mass amount of effort to sustain. It's hard on both sides ... (read in full...)
Does my cellulite repulse him?
Q. I have some cellulite on my thighs and my butt... my boyfriend says he doesn't even see it, and constantly talks of how much he loves my butt. However I am worried that he may be lying and that he may find me less attractive because of it. Is there ...
A. 11 October 2007: Well, I'm not a guy but I can relate.
I am pregnant, and I have horrible stretch marks on the same area. I used to have an A+++ body (pardon my saying so, I worked out constantly and ate like a saint.), so I was a bit self conscious about it. Aft... (read in full...)
Anyone had A.D.D. as a kid?
Q. My sister insist that my child has A.D.D. Whenever I tell her he doesn't seem to be based on the signs which I've Googled. She says I just don't want him to be. I don't want to get him tested,because there are no real test. I think a huge part of ...
A. 11 October 2007: It's sounds like you just have a very happy healthy child.
Most four year old bounce off the walls, it's what they do best. It's sounds like he just likes your sister's kids, and gets excited when he sees them because now its PLAYTIME!!! As for gett... (read in full...)
I've just started high school and like this cute guy. How can I get him to like me?
Q. I am only 12 and just started high school but I have seen this really cute guy, problem is guys never like me because I'm probably pretty but I have spots on my face. Please can anyone tell me how I can get him to like me it would help me more than ...
A. 10 October 2007: Ehh, You might have messed up there. If you really like him you should have told him so, now if you approach him he might think you are messing with him. The best thing I ca tell you is that you should just tell him you like him. Your never gonna ... (read in full...)
My husband is scared of having sex with me now I'm 5 months pregnant. Anyone else experienced this?
Q. Been with my husband for 6years now, hes 26 im 24 and 5 months pregnant with our son and he refuses to have sex with me, hes afraid hes going to hurt the both of us. most of the time ok with not having sex because the pregnancy has me feeling very ...
A. 10 October 2007: I am currently 38 weeks pregnant. My husband was SOOOO scared that he was going to hurt the baby, He refused to have sex with me. Finally after months of trying to reassure him that he can't hurt her, I MADE him come with me to one of my OB/GYN's ... (read in full...)
I've just started high school and like this cute guy. How can I get him to like me?
Q. I am only 12 and just started high school but I have seen this really cute guy, problem is guys never like me because I'm probably pretty but I have spots on my face. Please can anyone tell me how I can get him to like me it would help me more than ...
A. 10 October 2007: I don't even have to see a picture of you to tell you that you are a beautiful young lady. Do not ever let anyone, even yourself, tell you any different.
If you would like some adivce, I would need to know a little more about your situatio... (read in full...)
Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me "come".
Q. I have had three boyfriends, but now I am married and my husband is intent on making me "come". Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me even come close, except for with clitorial stimulation. Even when I do get to THAT ...
A. 10 October 2007: L.O.L., RCN.
You do have a point.
And, yes, I am an Extremely lucky woman, I have the sweetest man in the world. He is perfect, in my eyes, and always has me striving to do my very best for him, which is what prompted my question in the first pl... (read in full...)
We've traveled the world together and she breaks up with me now because I lied about watching porn! What do I do?
Q. I have been with a girl for almost a year. We traveled the world together, weve been to saudi arabia, italy, greece, everywhere. she broke up with me because i lied about looking at porn. I have never been this depressed what the heck do i do, i ...
A. 10 October 2007: You might want to get to the root of the problem here.
Is she mad be cause you lied, or is she mad because you watch porn. If she is mad because you lied, go apolgize. It will do more good than harm. If she is upset because you watch porn, ask her ... (read in full...)
How do women want to be treated, nice doesn't seem to work, or am I too nice.
Q. OK, Im starting to get the picture, My gf is seeing that im insecure, boyish emotionally and not allowing my normal, assertive nature to show in my relationship... How do I change the way I see myself in relationships. I need to show the strength ...
A. 10 October 2007: MOST Women want honesty, love, loyalty respect, the list goes on and on. They want a nice caring loving man But they also want a man who has CONFIDENCE. Just like men want a woman that makes other men jealous, so do women, the more confident and ... (read in full...)
I need sex, what do I do
Q. i feel like i am going to die without sex what should i do i am 12...
A. 10 October 2007: Uh, Sorry if this is rude but the only way a twelve year old should be havin sex is with his hand.
You don't NEED sex, you just want it,
"Be careful what you wish for, cuz you just might get it all, and then some you dont want." Chris Dau... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Big milestone..... over 300,000 unique visitors over the past month :-)
Q. Cool... Over the past month, from Sept 8th to Oct 9th we had over 300,000 unique visitors to the site! According to google analytics we had 302,516 visitors. It doesn't seem that long ago I was posting when we had passed 250,000 visitors/month. ...
A. 10 October 2007: Awesome. I just joined this site a few weeks ago and I love it!! Glad to know it is doing so well, I don't want it to go anywhere.
Keep it up the awesome work, boss man!!... (read in full...)
I don't find him physically attractive, and if it were he and I isolated I wouldn't care but I want my man to be attractive to my friends, as well! Should I consider leaving him?
Q. I have been dating a man for about a month now. When I met him, I was not physically attracted to him, when I got to know him...all of him, I became attracted in other ways. I feel like I'm falling in love with someone that I am not physically ...
A. 10 October 2007: I apologize for calling you shallow. I didn't mean it that way. Let me try to explain what.
I once dated a young man who was cover head to toe in 3rd degree burn scars. We had been best friends forever , and he confessed to liking me, and I had li... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of this irritation during my period?
Q. it appears that when im due on my period i get thrush.. i dont understand why.. i think its thrush anyway because its itchy and red and really sore.. how do i get rid of this and why am i getting this? is it because of the pill im taking? (micro ...
A. 9 October 2007: you need to go and see a OB/GYN, but until then I would suggest using Summers Eve Maximum Strength Anti-itch gel.
It is a pain releiver and skin protectant, and it will help.... (read in full...)
Get girl or keep friend?
Q. One of my friends moved out to another state for a job. He proposed to his girlfriend of two years, but after living with him for 2-3 months she decided she wasnt happy and she moved back out here. When she came back she told me she liked me and ...
A. 9 October 2007: Ask her out.... (read in full...)
Stay with immature girlfriend for our daughter?
Q. When my girlfriend is mad she likes to push my buttons, it seems as if on purpose. It could be something as silly as me wanting the bedroom door shut in order to catch some shut eye, and her refusing to leave it closed. It's like we have reverted ...
A. 9 October 2007: I agree with tommy7. She must have a reason for being so childish. Do you spend alot of time together? I used to do silly stuff like that just o get my boyfriends attention. but that's just me ,she might have a differnet reason. sit down and talk ... (read in full...)
What are risks with oral sex?
Q. so recently i performed oral sex on my girlfriend and im just curious as to what risks there are? we are both virgins and we have only been with each other. is there anything i can do too make things safer without losing pleasure...
A. 9 October 2007: If you are both virgins, and you are not having any kind of intimate contact with anyone else. I see no problem. If you really want to be sure, you can get tested.... (read in full...)
What is this discharge?
Q. i am 16 and this might be too long but plz answer my questions i will be veery thankful it will make my life alot better. I have this liquid stuff coming out of my vagina it has been there for as long as i can remember probably before when i starte...
A. 9 October 2007: Honey, Only a doctor can tell you what your dicharge is, but i seriously doubt you are going to die. OB/GYN's (female doctor) are normally very nice about these things,but if you don't want to ask them, you are going to have to talk to your mother ... (read in full...)
He's verbally abusive but I love him
Q. Dear Cupid, You really got it wrong this time. I just broke up with my boyfriend of one year and am going through some hard times. I really love him, but after struggling for this whole time we were together I finally see the part of him I could n...
A. 9 October 2007: No other advice is nessesary. Take Tigerlily's words very deeply to heart, because she is absoultely 100% Correct.... (read in full...)
Is this the real deal?
Q. Im a twenty year old female attending school two hours away from my hometown. I have an apartment at school where I stayed during school breaks for the last year. I met a guy at my job, and we have been dating for 10 months now. I love him so ...
A. 9 October 2007: Go for it girl. It sounds like you have got it going on!!
Be happy!!
Goodl uck... (read in full...)
Not pregnant! yet I havent had a period in months, what do I do?
Q. hia i've got a problem ! well the past few months i haven't had a period but i'm not pregnant as i have taken a pregnancy test and had hormornal blood tests ! i am only 16 but i dnt no what to do ! help x ...
A. 8 October 2007: Have you spoken to your mother?... (read in full...)
Does anybody know of a relationship that has come through after a partner has cheated repeatedly?
Q. Does anybody know of a relationship that has come through after a partner has cheated repeatedly? Im interested as the advice i have been given by family and friends is 'walk its not the first time, a leopard never changes its spots' Thing is...
A. 8 October 2007: in my personal experience, once a cheat always a cheat, and if you truly love someone you dont hurt them and cheating hurts... (read in full...)
It's our first time and need loads of tips on how to do it, please!
Q. Ok this is going to sound soooooo stupid but how do you actually have sex? Me and my gf have decided we are ready and shes decided to get the injection and we have some condoms as well but neither of us have never done anything like this. We are ...
A. 8 October 2007: First there is no such thing as a stupid question. there isn't really a textbook on having sex, but if you want to do oral, focus on her clit. Watch her, she will let you know if she likes something. some girls like it when you stick your tounge ... (read in full...)
How do I hide my stuff from my parents?
Q. I need to hide my contraceptive pills from my parents, but they look through all my stuff! Any ideas where to hide it??...
A. 8 October 2007: Well, I can't really condone you hiding stuff from your parents, but I do respect the fact that you are using protection. If you must, keep it on your person. Just make sure you dont have any extra corners!!... (read in full...)
Hi ex is still part of his family, how do I cope? Help?
Q. my bf says he loves me but his ex is still a part of his family how can i cope with this also there will be a family picnic this weekend if she is there what should i do ...
A. 8 October 2007: Ignore her. Its only a big deal if you make it. If she talks to you, be polite. If she knows she makes you uncomfortable, she will take advantage of it.... (read in full...)
I don't find him physically attractive, and if it were he and I isolated I wouldn't care but I want my man to be attractive to my friends, as well! Should I consider leaving him?
Q. I have been dating a man for about a month now. When I met him, I was not physically attracted to him, when I got to know him...all of him, I became attracted in other ways. I feel like I'm falling in love with someone that I am not physically ...
A. 8 October 2007: Yes, you are crazy, pardon my saying so. If you love him, what he looks like and what other people think should not matter. No offense, but that is kinda shallow.... (read in full...)
My friends are racist - how can I stop them?
Q. My 17 year old boyfriend of a year is an Indian Sikh [im 15] which is not at all a problem, but when i first told my friends about him they were being, well,racist; just because he wears a Turban and is Indian. When I did tell them, their immature ...
A. 8 October 2007: They are being immature and they are no friends of yours. Continue to stand by your man,and to HADES with what other people think.
And I give you a standing O by the way. It is very mature and very brave of you to stand up for people instead of sink... (read in full...)
My wife is a slob around the house and neglects me. Can I trust her to live up to her promises?
Q. I have known my wife for 7 years. Married to her for 5 years. During this time my wife has had 5 operations and has been diagnosed with Lupus. I have Multiple Sclerosis so my health isn't the greatest either. For the past 2 years or more I ...
A. 8 October 2007: I have a suggestion for testing her, but it is major taboo so if you would like to know it send me a message. ... (read in full...)
My wife is a slob around the house and neglects me. Can I trust her to live up to her promises?
Q. I have known my wife for 7 years. Married to her for 5 years. During this time my wife has had 5 operations and has been diagnosed with Lupus. I have Multiple Sclerosis so my health isn't the greatest either. For the past 2 years or more I ...
A. 8 October 2007: As much as i respect the commitment and sanctity of marriege, it sounds like you would be better off without her. Marrige is not 5%/195% (she gives 5 you give 195). You BOTH have to give 100% of everything you are and everything you have got to make ... (read in full...)
Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me "come".
Q. I have had three boyfriends, but now I am married and my husband is intent on making me "come". Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me even come close, except for with clitorial stimulation. Even when I do get to THAT ...
A. 8 October 2007: Thanks.
She said that I probably am not really relaxing, and that you have to be TOTALLY limp noodle for that to happen. She said that if I tense up, then it will hurt. She said that is actually normal to have diffficulty with that,and that onl... (read in full...)
Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me "come".
Q. I have had three boyfriends, but now I am married and my husband is intent on making me "come". Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me even come close, except for with clitorial stimulation. Even when I do get to THAT ...
A. 8 October 2007: Hmm. Well, I am headed of to the doc tomorrow to see what she thinks, but I belive I am just gonna let it happens when it does and not worry about it. I do agree though, about the stress thing. I am 37 wks pregnant so it might just be i am under too ... (read in full...)
Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me "come".
Q. I have had three boyfriends, but now I am married and my husband is intent on making me "come". Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me even come close, except for with clitorial stimulation. Even when I do get to THAT ...
A. 6 October 2007: Thank you all for your input.
My husband is actually being quite nice about the whole thing. He's not being pushy, he just LOVES pleasing me, and that supposed to be the ultimate. He says that if it never happens then it never happens and its okay... (read in full...)
Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me "come".
Q. I have had three boyfriends, but now I am married and my husband is intent on making me "come". Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me even come close, except for with clitorial stimulation. Even when I do get to THAT ...
A. 6 October 2007: In response to Uncle Phil:
Thanks for the response.
WE have tried going beyond that point(By myself and with my husband) and it just starts to hurt worse.
Any thoughts?... (read in full...)
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