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writes:Been with my husband for 6years now, hes 26 im 24 and 5 months pregnant with our son and he refuses to have sex with me, hes afraid hes going to hurt the both of us. most of the time ok with not having sex because the pregnancy has me feeling very uncomftorble. so anyways hes not freaked out by my changing growing body. but really i dont know what it is. is he really satisfied with just using his hand? i just dont know. before i was pregnant he had to have it all the time. anyone have any advice or experienced this before. im getting concerned because its another 4 months of not having sex. or do guys just change when their wives get pregnant. Reply to this Question
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX  +, writes (10 October 2007):
 I am currently 38 weeks pregnant. My husband was SOOOO scared that he was going to hurt the baby, He refused to have sex with me. Finally after months of trying to reassure him that he can't hurt her, I MADE him come with me to one of my OB/GYN's doctor's appointments and i asked her if there way anyway earthly possible for my husband to hurt the baby by having sex with me and she looked ath him and said:
"Is your penis 8 feet long"Dr said.
"uh... No."My husband replied.
"Ok, then take your wife home and bang her brains out and be happy."
On a more serious note, the point of that is is the you CANNOT harm the baby by having sex. let your husband read this and if you need anymore help message me.
I have sex with my husband alomst every day, and my doctor says that my lil girl is PERFECTLY HEALTHY!!! Tell your husband that your baby can feel what you feel, so the happier he makes you the better, lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): I have a 6 month old & am 4 months pregnant again..My husband never stopped wanting sex for 1 minute. We even did it 2 weeks after I gave birth although you're told to wait 6 weeks. My friend has 3 kids, and she said every time she was pregnant, her husband would not touch her. Some men find pregnant women just unattainable to have sex with. Wether they think they wil hurt you, the baby, both, or they are just unattracted to you at the time because they hate the thought of sticking their man hood up there knowing there is a living person inside...It is one of those things. You should just ask him which one of those things it is that is bothering him..hopefully he can be honest with you.
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