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Hi. My name is Anne, but my favorite screen name is XxAngelDust13xX. I am 18 years old. I just gave birth to my first daughter, Megan, on October 22, 2007. I am very happily married. I live in Florida. I don't really have any counseling experience, I just love to help people. If you do take my advice, it is at your own risk.

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Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me "come".

Q.   I have had three boyfriends, but now I am married and my husband is intent on making me "come". Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me even come close, except for with clitorial stimulation. Even when I do get to THAT ...

A.   22 January 2008: II DID IT! My husband and I have done what I thought was not to be! I finaly came for the first time a few weeks ago! (Would have posted eariler but I was having trouble with my lil girl) And Holy Cr@p was it.....yea...wow...I don't evn know who to ... (read in full...)

Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me "come".

Q.   I have had three boyfriends, but now I am married and my husband is intent on making me "come". Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me even come close, except for with clitorial stimulation. Even when I do get to THAT ...

A.   10 October 2007: L.O.L., RCN. You do have a point. And, yes, I am an Extremely lucky woman, I have the sweetest man in the world. He is perfect, in my eyes, and always has me striving to do my very best for him, which is what prompted my question in the first pl... (read in full...)

My wife is a slob around the house and neglects me. Can I trust her to live up to her promises?

Q.   I have known my wife for 7 years. Married to her for 5 years. During this time my wife has had 5 operations and has been diagnosed with Lupus. I have Multiple Sclerosis so my health isn't the greatest either. For the past 2 years or more I ...

A.   8 October 2007: I have a suggestion for testing her, but it is major taboo so if you would like to know it send me a message. ... (read in full...)

My wife is a slob around the house and neglects me. Can I trust her to live up to her promises?

Q.   I have known my wife for 7 years. Married to her for 5 years. During this time my wife has had 5 operations and has been diagnosed with Lupus. I have Multiple Sclerosis so my health isn't the greatest either. For the past 2 years or more I ...

A.   8 October 2007: As much as i respect the commitment and sanctity of marriege, it sounds like you would be better off without her. Marrige is not 5%/195% (she gives 5 you give 195). You BOTH have to give 100% of everything you are and everything you have got to make ... (read in full...)

How do I fight my attraction to this guy?

Q.   I am married, for 10 years and I have been a stay at home mom for the last 6 years. I recently started going back to school and working. What I am going through right now is I am attracted to another guy at my work and I'm trying real hard to ...

A.   8 October 2007: If your marriage is important to you you will continue to fight it. I wont be worth losing your husband for some guy that may or may not like you. Try this. Everytime you start to think about the other guy, Think about your husband and how much you ... (read in full...)

Is my husband telling the truth?

Q.   I have been married with my husband for 10 years, Last week while they were taking him some X-rays, I readed his text messages (It was the first time I did it)and I discover that his Research assitant was inviting him to celebrate something and that ...

A.   8 October 2007: Yes, I think he is telling you the truth. It sounds like your man is being very loyal, and that is rare. As long as he is not persuing, you shouldn't either. ... (read in full...)

Is there a problem here?

Q.   my boyfriend says he loves me and says he sees a future with me but doesnt call me much and shows little affection and care.what should i do?and what could be the problem?...

A.   8 October 2007: Actions speak louder than words. You need to sit down with your man and let him know how you feel. If he continues to be,shall we say, aloof, then I belive it would be best for you to move on.... (read in full...)

Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me "come".

Q.   I have had three boyfriends, but now I am married and my husband is intent on making me "come". Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me even come close, except for with clitorial stimulation. Even when I do get to THAT ...

A.   8 October 2007: Thanks. She said that I probably am not really relaxing, and that you have to be TOTALLY limp noodle for that to happen. She said that if I tense up, then it will hurt. She said that is actually normal to have diffficulty with that,and that onl... (read in full...)

I won't give up my unborn child - should I go and live with my mother?

Q.   Ok I'm kind of young-ish and I missed my period, I've been puking, mood swingy, I was crying hysterically last night for hours on end, anyway so I think that I might maybe be pregnant and my boyfriend says he doesn't want a kid "right now". My fat...

A.   8 October 2007: I am 18, an i am 37 wks pregnant. Honey, I know eing pregnant is a huge responsibilty, but abortion is murder. I can understand why you want to give the child up, but that wont solve your problem. Which woul you rather live with, a child, or the f... (read in full...)

Legal question???

Q.   is it illegal for beauticians( or whatever their exact title is) and anyone else in that line of work to see a minor(under 18 in the u.s.) nude if they are removing hair or other things? what about a masseuse? What do woman think of a groomed, not ...

A.   8 October 2007: I dont know about the legal issue, you should try to GOOGLE it. Being groomed is always a plus. Girls like to look at mens butts, but no girl wants to look at a male BEAR rear!! keep it clean keep it neat, and your sex will always be sweet!!... (read in full...)

How do I get over my first kiss?

Q.   Im 14 and last night me and my friends went to a hotel party, where there were all these older guys who play state footy for melbourne, anyway I started talking to this really hot guy who is 21 and the next thing i know we were kissing and having ...

A.   8 October 2007: Well, if you cant stop thinking about it, it must be special!! Don't focus on the fact that hes gone, if it was good, focus on that. Not very many girls are lucky enough to have that fairy tale perfect firsy kiss. Be happy! YOU GOT YOUR FIRST ... (read in full...)

Should I call him, or leave him forever?

Q.   Could you give me an advice? The man i used to date this year he always hasn't enough time to see me. He usually apologised that he was so much occupied with his work which is true in some point. However, the last time i saw him this weekend he said ...

A.   8 October 2007: Well, has it been a meaningful relationship? Were you happy with him, even though you Don't see him alot? You need to decide if the relationship is worth it. Then you really need to wait and see what he does. Sometimes people say stuff they dont ... (read in full...)

Can it be possible that he really loves me?

Q.   recently i don't know what to do my ex boyfriend and i dated for 4 years on and off. he always tells me he loves me and that were meant to be and that he cant live with out me. he's cheated on me so many times and even had sex with with many of my ...

A.   8 October 2007: If you love someone you don hurt them, which means you dont cheat on them. Go out with whomever you like and to hades with what that jerk says. You deserve better.... (read in full...)

I think my female friends don't like me for me.

Q.   I have a really really long penis and I get made fun of because it looks like im hard, but im soft. The girls who im friends with only like me because i have such a long penis and i really want to be friends with them also because we're friends. ...

A.   8 October 2007: They ae not being true frienda and you need to find some friends who will like you for the many other reasons then the size of your penis. those girls are being immature and your better off without them... (read in full...)

What should I do if he wants to be part of our lives again?

Q.   I called my daughter's dad, left a message to call back. He called. Judging from the tone of his voice, he wasn't having a good day. Everything that he is going thru has been broughten upon him by his doings onto my daughter and I and others. ...

A.   8 October 2007: Tell him to bug off. He doesn't need to be trying to guilt trip you, so dont let him.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is signing up for online dating services.

Q.   What does it mean when your partner signs up to an online dating serice and is looking for females around our age in the state we live in? We live together and he otherwise is very loving and caring towards me. Known him for 7 years and togeth...

A.   8 October 2007: You need to talk to your man and see whats up. That doesnt sound right at all. Talk to him and then update. XxAngelDust89xX... (read in full...)

This guy that likes me makes me nervous.

Q.   ok theres this one guy that im really scared of. he supposedly likes and he always calls me sexy and hot. it makes me feel nervous and i tell him to stop. he bugs me alot and tries to make me feel guilty that i dont want to go out with him. you cant ...

A.   8 October 2007: Ignore him. If he continues to bug you, tell him to buzz off. If that doesn't work, get a male friend to tell him to leave you alone. If that doenst work go to an adult. Adults are there for a reason. Be Safe, XxAngelDust89xX... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a 16 year old girl.

Q.   hey. This may seem odd to a lot of people out there, but I think I'm in love with a 16 year-old girl. I'm friends with her mother who delivers baked goods to my shop. Sometimes "Diana", the mother, will send "Jocelyn", her daughter, to my shop to ...

A.   8 October 2007: honey, I'm sorry to have to say this but you are way too old for her. Continue beeing a good friend but there is way too much of an age differnce between you, and with the stepdad being such a jerk it might cause even more problems for her if he ... (read in full...)

Should I try to call him, or wait for him to call me?

Q.   theres this one guy who i got his number a while ago. we talked to each other alot. he seemed like a nice guy and i liked him. but he stopped calling me all of a sudden. is this a sign that he wants to break up if we were ever together? should i ...

A.   8 October 2007: Sounds like he doenst want a relationship, but he also might have lost our number!! if your brave, call him. if not wait it out i guess it really up to you... (read in full...)

If he knows I like him, will our friendship change?

Q.   i like this one guy alot. i always have the urge to talk to him and be with him. but when i picture him as my boyfriend it seems kinda weird. idk if he seems like the kind of person that would be a boyfriend because hes kinda a dork which is exactly ...

A.   8 October 2007: If he is a true friend your feelings about him should have no effect on your current relationship. Personally, I think he should be flattered. I would wait until you are sure of where you stand abotu him before letting your feelings abotu him show. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and I broke up, I'm 14 and really feel as I'm meant to be alone.

Q.   Hi, I'm 14 and constantly have recently, (a few months ago) ended a 3 year relationship. Eh we still have feelings for eachother and whatever but I know I should not get involved with him again, and I don't plan to. But I feel like since he has been ...

A.   8 October 2007: You may hate hearing that you have your whole life ahead of you, but it is true. Please dont be offended, but you need to boost your self esteem. You need to try being more independent, try going it alone for a while. After i broke up with my first ... (read in full...)

I told my mom we had sex, now she won't talk to me.

Q.   Dear agony aunts and uncles... me ad my boyfriend have been together now for 11 months, we are both 15 and have recently lost our virginities to each other. i have been honest with my mum all the way through our relationship and have told her ever...

A.   8 October 2007: I am a 18 year old mother to be and I can kinda understand your situation. You care about your boyfriend enough to take that step, and it think its wonderful that you are open enough with your mother to able to tell her that. As for her reaction ... (read in full...)

My questions are stopping me from having sex

Q.   hey. im 16 and really want to have sex with my boyfriend. i emotionally and physically feel ready but there are just a few things playing on my mind about it. will it hurt? will he compare me to other girls? and what will he think of me after? an...

A.   8 October 2007: Communication is key to a sucessful and healthy relationship. Let your partner know that you would like to have sex with him, but you are curious about a few things before you are ready to take such an important step with him. Then just fire awa... (read in full...)

She won't leave me alone after rejecting me.

Q.   When she rejected me, she said she still wanted to be friends and wanted nothing to be awkward, but now i feel that was a lie. I tried for a friendship with her for a few months, and she didn't put any effort into it. I gave up a little more then a ...

A.   8 October 2007: Tell her straight up. A friendship between the two of you is not going to work and will be unhealthy. It sounds like she is just taking advantage of your kind nature and you need to put a stop to that.... (read in full...)

Update to my last question

Q.   This is an update to my last question... I just talked to him and after a very long, kinda weird conversation, i found out we both feel the same way. We both have wondered if the other person is "the one" and we both feel very frightened of that ...

A.   8 October 2007: You know you can add your own comments to your own questions the same way you give advice on other peoples questions. It makes it easier for people to give advice on questions you have updated!! Click on the link at the top of the page that say... (read in full...)

After our breakup he wants to meet.

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been on a break for about 10 days. We talked once online, he IM me first and it was short. I told him about my weekend and how much fun it was. I had lunch with his mom cause she was concerned about what was going on and we ...

A.   8 October 2007: Well, it really depends on why you broke up in the first place. I don't belive that going and talking to him will do any harm, but if you don't want to get back together, stand your ground. Don't let his friends/family, or the way he looks/ is ... (read in full...)

There's a dance at school and my girl wants me to take her, but I'm nervous and no good at dancing.

Q.   Hi, I am here again. I just learned that there is a sixth grade dance. I am nervous and I am not that good at dancing. My girlfriend wants me to take her. (Mod note: it's good to use proper grammar and spelling at 6th grade don't you think?) ...

A.   8 October 2007: Note to Mod: (Laughing) I agree. Very smooth, by the way. Well, first of all, do You WANT to go? If so, just wear a nice shirt and jeans (preferably clean) and RELAX. No one is going to be watching you, so just try to have fun. Tell your... (read in full...)

I am curious as to why hetrosexual males want anal sex?

Q.   I am curious as to why hetrosexual males want anal sex? I personally have always considered it to be a homosexual activity and wonder why straight guys would wish to engage in this when they have other options?...

A.   8 October 2007: Curiosity killed the cat but here you go anyway!! (I asked a few guys for their input) Because your Rectum is tighter than your vagina,and it feels really good to them. Also because your backdoor it considered taboo, so it's kinda a thrill f... (read in full...)

I have never given my boyfriend a hand job before.

Q.   I have never given my boyfriend a hand job before. What should I do? Should I be naked or I have no idea what to do. ...

A.   8 October 2007: Breathe, girl. Hand jobs are easy. You can't really go wrong on them. Just start out slow and easy and then watch for signs from him. he's the only one who an tell you if he likes itt or what he wants you to do. Dressed, undressed, dressed ... (read in full...)

Do you think it's wrong to look at porn and masturbate at age 13?

Q.   I am 13 and I look at porn and masturbate. I have this urge to have sex, but know I shouldn't in case I regret it later. Do you think it's wrong to look at porn and masturbate?...

A.   8 October 2007: No it isn't wrong. Actually I think it is a very mature way to handle your desire. Have fun ;) , XxAngelDust89xX... (read in full...)

Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me "come".

Q.   I have had three boyfriends, but now I am married and my husband is intent on making me "come". Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me even come close, except for with clitorial stimulation. Even when I do get to THAT ...

A.   8 October 2007: Hmm. Well, I am headed of to the doc tomorrow to see what she thinks, but I belive I am just gonna let it happens when it does and not worry about it. I do agree though, about the stress thing. I am 37 wks pregnant so it might just be i am under too ... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend so why do I have a crush?

Q.   Ive been going out with my boyfriend for a few years now and everything in great, we're stronger than ever and Im sure he's "the one", my problem is this: A couple of months ago a new guy joined my firm and Ive developed a stupid crush on him...we...

A.   6 October 2007: Physical attraction is normal, so don't worry about it. It's only a big deal if you make it that way. Just dont act on it.... (read in full...)

I like this guy, but I don't want to get picked on.

Q.   there is a guy at school i really like, i have liked him for a few months now, he always gets called names at school cos he sometimes smells a bit sweaty. i know its not nice but i still like him. he doesn't always keep his self looking perfect and ...

A.   6 October 2007: First off, you shouldn't care what other people think, it's none of their business. Second, Some people cannot help how their boyd works, and its complelte rude and unfair to pick on someone for the way they were made. We have no say in our phys... (read in full...)

Dating advice.

Q.   What is the best way to go out with someone? Please, I need big advice!...

A.   6 October 2007: You need to be more specific. The best way to ASK someone out is to just ask. If you want to know where to take her, find out something that you both enjoy and go do it together. Anything else, ask.... (read in full...)

A girl he knows for three weeks, told him to stop being friends with his best mate.

Q.   is it right to stop friendship with your best male friend cause a girl he knows for three weeks tells him to?...

A.   6 October 2007: No, it isnt right for her to do that. And it isnt right of him to listen to her either. you need to talk to your "friend" and find out where he stands.... (read in full...)

He keeps hurting me! I keep loving him! Should I give him another chance?

Q.   Hi guys. I've met this great guy, let's call him Tom in May. We met at work. He was really sweet, he bought me flowers and everything was perfect.We started dating.In July I had to leave the town for a month. He replied for my two e-mails and that's ...

A.   6 October 2007: Your friends are right. You don't need to waste your time on him. Your better than him, so chin up and move on.... (read in full...)

I don't want to make the first move and ruin our friendship... What should I do?

Q.   I am 15 and have never had a proper boyfriend. I am not completly worried about this as i love having so many great friends that are boys. Recently i have noticed that this one boy (lets call his bob) has been constantly looking at me and blushing ...

A.   6 October 2007: You'll never know until you try. If he is a true friend, then he will only be flattered by the fact that you like him. If he says no, then shake it off and act as you normally would.... (read in full...)

He's 21, I'm 14 Should I ruin my plans OR dump my love.

Q.   hi ive ot a problem because i'm young(14) and my boyfriend is older(21).please don't tell me how wrong our relationship is n illegal i've heard it so many times. my mom isn't worried shes meet the guy and she lets him stay round every night which i ...

A.   6 October 2007: End it. He's no good for you.... (read in full...)

I'm 15, my boyfriend is abusive, I'm afraid and don't know what to do.

Q.   well to put a long story short. i have been with my boyfriend since my 14th birthday and i was 15 in may, 17 months i have been in the relationship and for about 9 of it it has been terrible. i have wanted to end it but i cant cos he says if i do i ...

A.   6 October 2007: You need to end that. He has not right to treat you that way. NO ONE DOES!!! Talk to your parents or a family member/Adult friend that you trust. If you must call the cops. You need to do whatever is nessesary to SAFELY remove yourself for this... (read in full...)

My brother keeps hurting me more and more. I don't know what to do.

Q.   My brother and I have always fought mainly playfully but recently he has been hurting me more and more. My mum and dad know but they don't know what to do any sugestions about options that we could try...

A.   6 October 2007: You need to let your brother know that he is hurting you, and if he keeps on, talk to your parents again. they need to step in if hes not going to stop. I hate to say it, but if that doesn't work, hurt him back. Reminder: It's only playing unt... (read in full...)

Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me "come".

Q.   I have had three boyfriends, but now I am married and my husband is intent on making me "come". Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me even come close, except for with clitorial stimulation. Even when I do get to THAT ...

A.   6 October 2007: Thank you all for your input. My husband is actually being quite nice about the whole thing. He's not being pushy, he just LOVES pleasing me, and that supposed to be the ultimate. He says that if it never happens then it never happens and its okay... (read in full...)

Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me "come".

Q.   I have had three boyfriends, but now I am married and my husband is intent on making me "come". Everything feels GREAT, but none of my partners has ever made me even come close, except for with clitorial stimulation. Even when I do get to THAT ...

A.   6 October 2007: In response to Uncle Phil: Thanks for the response. WE have tried going beyond that point(By myself and with my husband) and it just starts to hurt worse. Any thoughts?... (read in full...)

My bf wants a threesome, should I do it?

Q.   my bf says he wants a threesome !! is this something i should do or not ? ...

A.   5 October 2007: It's not a question of SHOULD its a question if do you WANT to or do you feel COMFORTABLE with it? If it doesnt appeal, then dont do it... (read in full...)

My friend wont leave my boyfriend alone!

Q.   please help me i have this friend that likes my boyfriend and he said he doesn't like her he thinks she's to full of herself [which is true lol] and he says i am the only gurl for him......i always see her looking at him talking about him or ...

A.   5 October 2007: Sound like a perfectly wonderful friend to me NOT!!! Tell your "friend" to back the heck up off ur man!!... (read in full...)

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