Is it fair that my family smoke around me when I'm pregnant?!
Q. Dear cupid aunts im 22. and pregnant. And have moved back.in with my parents because the babys dad left and as i was living.with him in a rented house i now cant afford the rent on a single wage. I love my parents and am grateful for all.they ...
A. 19 April 2012: For all of these replies stating that it's the parents house and thus their rules, get a clue!
The dangers to pregnancy and the pregnant woman are well documented. For those parents and people living in that house not to consider the health o... (read in full...)
Is it fair that my family smoke around me when I'm pregnant?!
Q. Dear cupid aunts im 22. and pregnant. And have moved back.in with my parents because the babys dad left and as i was living.with him in a rented house i now cant afford the rent on a single wage. I love my parents and am grateful for all.they ...
A. 18 April 2012: Show these videos to your family:
Pregnancy and Smoking (Pregnancy Health Guru)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i-LqwmfHZDY
Secondhand Smoke
http://www.videojug.c... (read in full...)
Unexperienced boyfriend, need help please!
Q. Hey everyone, this is strictly a sex related question I'm having a slight problem. My boyfriend and I both are 21 and have been going out for 4 months, and we have already made love. The thing is is that I took his virginity, so he is new ...
A. 11 April 2012: Steps you could take: 1. Have him masturbate to orgasm half an hour to an hour before you guys have sex. Make sure he washes clean with soap. -- this will make him less likely to have that hair-trigger. -- this will allow him more time to wo... (read in full...)
Do girls shave their pubes when they have sex?
Q. I'm a virgin still at the age of 19, I've had plenty of flings but I'm waiting for that right guy to lose it to, and I reckon it will be soon. One thing - do girls shave their pubes when they have sex? I know this sounds ridiculous but i...
A. 11 April 2012: Now from a man's perspective, what matters most to me is that you trim the wild pubes and present a nice shape. Trying to be so careful how I say this, as you can imagine... Some men apparently like the "bald" look on women. Some men like a l... (read in full...)
I love wearing briefs, am I the only one who does this?
Q. Hey all. Am nearly 15 and am gay. I love wearing briefs. But if anyone found out i wear them they would take the mick. So i wear boxers over them. What i want to know is am i the only one who does this or used to do this. Cheers. Xx =)...
A. 11 April 2012: I wear briefs all the time. When i work, when i am driving, whenever I am out of the house, I am wearing briefs beneath my pants.
I do occasionally wear boxers when I am home alone, but I do not normally ever wear them under my clothes because ... (read in full...)
His depression is depressing me.
Q. My boyfriend got a DUI last weekend. Since then he has been very depressed. I realize its only been a week, but his depression is starting to depress me. He only communicates with me via text message and its only been every other day that I...
A. 7 April 2012: While I do not encourage drinking alcohol and he very likely may have a problem, especially since drinking alcohol negatively affects and reduces effectiveness of Paxil... What you should do is show up on his doorstep with a case of cold beer (hi... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any wise words of advice for online dating?
Q. I have finally made a break from a relationship that has not been going anywhere for years and I did not want to waste anymore time. I did fall for someone I used to work with and the feeling of attraction was mutual but neither of us moved it f...
A. 5 April 2012: Beware some of the dating websites. Many paid "gold" or "premium" profiles are actually spam attack ads which ask for your email address and send you links to websites which trigger auto-loading spyware to infiltrate your computer to steal your ... (read in full...)
He's catholic and I'm pentecostal , I'm in love but scared!
Q. Hello. I'm 22 - never dated before. For the first time really, I'm meeting a guy who has what I'm looking for but problem: I'm a staunch christian so growing up, i taught lots a thingss. He bets just for fun of it, ofcourse u know christia...
A. 30 March 2012: First off, I will copy what I said to the poster in this link: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/religious-views-are-tearing-us-apart-must-it.html and adapt it for your needs, based on the information you have provided. ... ... Your situati... (read in full...)
Do you think I am Asexual?
Q. Hello everybody. I am seeking some advise from you. I am a 21 years old female and recently i've been dealing with something that trully botheres me. I have been in relationships before, and i have taken my time, plus the guys were always very...
A. 29 March 2012: It is possible some key part of your life when you were younger may have turned you off psychologically to sexual activity. There is nothing wrong with loving companionship: cuddling, snuggling, etc. as you describe. Romance is something you sh... (read in full...)
I cant orgasm when being fingered, is this normal? question to lesbians or girlies!
Q. This is a question for the girlies! More so lesbian girls/women...........when me and my ex girlfriend where having sex I never seemed to be able to orgasm when she fingered me. Is this like this for other women too? And how can I overcome this as I ...
A. 29 March 2012: The thing about being "fingered" is that there are so few nerve endings INSIDE the vagina that fingering does little or nothing for many women. The key to your orgasm is stimulation of both the clitoris and the Gräfenberg Spot ("G-spot") from inside ... (read in full...)
Looks don't matter, or, are men really this shallow?
Q. Well, I know that people always say that looks don't matter to guys, or that they're not the most important thing, but are they just being polite? 'Cause I read an article and it really made me lose a bit of hope in men... http://livingw...
A. 29 March 2012: Yes, they are being polite. Most AMERICAN men have been brought up in a "supermodel" world where thin is the key to most women getting a guy.
Some men have no concern what you look like, as long as personality and lifestyle fit with them, they cou... (read in full...)
Is wearing a sheer or see thru bathing suit OK?
Q. My boyfriend (of many years) asked me to remove the lining from a couple of my bikini's, so that when we go to the beach they will be see through. I did this to one of my darker suits, the results being not too dramatic. More noticible on top, but ...
A. 29 March 2012: I would hope that you have everything in the right places and not too much in the wrong places.
Some older (more conservative) individuals may be offended. Parents of small children or teenage boys will most likely have some case of mild to extre... (read in full...)
I don't want to admit I like him first, how can I make him make a move on me?
Q. Exactly a year ago, I met a guy at my college. He is European and he is 7 years older than me. We met because he asked my best friend to introduce us. I knew the guy is a big player and he knew I have several guys too. We hung out for a few days ...
A. 27 March 2012: What you should do is start cuddling after sex. Begin talking about your favorite things: movies, actors, colors, flavors, flowers, etc. Try not to focus on clothes or expensive brand names, because most guys could care less about the brands of ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a girl to ask a guy out?
Q. Is it wrong for girls to ask guys out? The reason why is because...well you know the deal Overprotective old school parents They always tell me about how guys mess all over you when you flirt with them and stuff and that it isn't Ladylike to ...
A. 27 March 2012: There is nothing wrong with making the first move and putting yourself out there when you are in a comfortable state of mind and companionship with the one in whom you are interested. Many old-school cultures still hide behind the misogynistic (wo... (read in full...)
What goes through a women's mind when a guy ejaculates prematurely?
Q. What goes through a women's mind when a guy ejaculates prematurely? Three times in the last couple of weeks I've been with this really hot girl and each time it's ended far too quickly. The first time, we had dinner and some drinks in a few ...
A. 27 March 2012: The key to premature ejaculation NOT MATTERING is to make sure she is fully satisfied before you even go for the gold. You should try a couple of things to resolve this problem: 1. An hour before having sex, masturbate to orgasm and wash cl... (read in full...)
Religious views are tearing us apart. Must it end this way?
Q. Hi everyone, I have a problem in my relationship. my girlfriend and i are in different religious. she is muslim and i m atheism with a catholic background. We have been couple for over 3 years. We both love each other for so much but we never rely ...
A. 27 March 2012: Your situation is not unique. Many people of different belief systems live long happy lives together. My own mother-in-law was raised in an extreme Southern Baptist setting. She married a Devout Evangelical Catholic man. The agreement between th... (read in full...)
Problem when using new vibrator
Q. Hey guys first time here.I cant find any info so im hoping you guys can help. I just got a rabbit vibe, every time it touches my clit i get an intence feeling then i go pee its really embarcing but it just happens i cant control it. I even tryed ...
A. 27 March 2012: http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sexandrelationships/female_ejaculation.htm
Female ejaculation is normal. You have a very sensitive clitoris. Using the rabbit can bring on intense orgasms and some women "squirt" (believe me, there is a whole section ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friends little sister
Q. So I am in a sticky situation ... Here's the story . I love my best rinds little sister she is 17 she is incredible mature for her age she graduated high-school when she was 15 and studied in Spain for a year. She is smart , funny and charming young ...
A. 27 March 2012: First off, and you will hear this from many other AA's: She is not yet legal. She is 17. You are 22. What happens if you "consummate" or seal the deal and have sex or get her pregnant? YOU will be imprisoned for RAPE. That is the law. Not tryin... (read in full...)
How can I make my parents and grandpa see that I need to have my phone?
Q. My parents just took my cell phone. Its spring break! I cant talk to any of my firends. Im going to my grandpas house tomorrow. He says I dont spend enough time with him when im there. None of my friends live near by, he dosnt have internet, and no ...
A. 27 March 2012: What you need to do is call your friends from a LAND LINE phone. You are a teenager. I did not get my first cell phone until I was 30. Yeah, that may seem strange, but back when i was your age, if I wanted to talk with someone, I would pick up the ... (read in full...)
My family is a classic case of undiagnosed mental illness and I am stuck in this extremely unhappy situation
Q. I don't know what to do, Im sure my husband has ,some kind of mental problem, but he won't see a therapist . Our sons also have some genetically inherited issues, what I think it might be bipolar depression,. But I can't diagnose him, as Im not a ...
A. 27 March 2012: You need to find a therapist who will coordinate with you to do an in-house consultation. He/She will be able to observe the activities of your husband and son and get a sense of the problems. Make sure you find someone who is certified and honest. ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my 7 year older 1st cousin
Q. I'm a girl and i have a huge crush on my older cousin. She is 7 years older than me but still, everytime when she comes over to our house she is all i can think about. I have known her since i was little and we are very close. But i can't help that ...
A. 26 March 2012: IMHO, there are many reasons the general public frowns on intimacy or sexual relationships between siblings, cousins, or other close blood-related relatives.
99% of these are religious stigma, even though 75% of all relationships and marriage... (read in full...)
How to keep anal sex clean?
Q. hi there, im going to be having anal sex with my bf soon and i was wondering how to keep it clean as in how not to make a mess. if anyone knows that would be good thanks :)...
A. 24 March 2012: The thing about anal sex is that it could severely injure you if not done correctly. First off, lubrication is key. Getting a home enema kit is advised - you can get those in any store with a pharmacy in the section where you find canes, ... (read in full...)
Dry humping and pregnancy?
Q. Im curious is it possible for someone to fall pregnant from dry humping. At first I thought it wasnt possible until someone said it happened to them. The thing is my friend and i were making out and he was dry humping me in just our underwear and he ...
A. 24 March 2012: The only way you could get pregnant from DRY Humping is if his penis presses into your vagina during his climax. You would have to be ovulating and the sperm would have to penetrate the fabric between you both. Dry humping without clothing is far ... (read in full...)
I long for a baby! Is this normal?
Q. This isnt a serious problem ive always liked kids, but i turned 23 and all of a sudden started longing for a baby, suddenly its all i can think about and its made worse by the fact that i have a sudden influx of nieces and nephews. We're going to...
A. 19 March 2012: As a man, even I have these urges. I have wanted to father a child for years now and been in the unfortunate situation where it is not financially, emotionally, or medically feasible with my wife. You are having the same craving that millions of... (read in full...)
Could I get pregnant on the last day of my period?
Q. Hi, I'm sixteen years old. Last month, it was the very last day of my period and there was hardly any blood but I was still spotting and I gave my boyfriend oral sex. He came in my mouth and I swallowed it and continued to suck him off. He pulled ...
A. 9 March 2012: One thing I can infer from your description of the problem that I do not see mentioned in the other answers: When he penetrated you after the oral sex, and he said he was close to orgasm, it is possible he had already orgasmed. Some guys do tha... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with my currently platonic best friend.
Q. Let me just start by saying how horrible at the dating game I am. I'm a high school senior girl, and I have yet to have a single official relationship or even kiss a boy. I've had plenty of guys like me over the years, and the farthest I've gone is ...
A. 9 March 2012: The choice is yours. However, if he spends all his time with you as a friend, how much time does he spend with the girl he has liked for over 2 years? He may be fantasizing about HER but really want YOU. SHE could be his excuse to make you ... (read in full...)
I never told her how I feel but I still love her, how do I talk to her again? Should I even bother if she is in love with someone else?
Q. Hi....!! I m a boy of 15 yrs old... 1 yr before I was reading in a residential school.... I loved a girl.. In the same hostel.... We were friends for 2 months.. After that I felt that I was in love with her...... After some time I heard from my ...
A. 9 March 2012: First, I can tell that you do not speak English as a first language. However, from what I am able to decipher, you are a 15 year old and you think you are in love with a girl that you met in school.
Second, since you are only 15 years old, you... (read in full...)
How can I know if my girlfriend's had an orgasm?
Q. i have been dating my gf for 1 year and 3 months now. the sex is great...at least for my part. im worried that she might not be liking it. she tells me that she has an orgasm but im not really sure. how can i tell if she does or not? plus anot...
A. 8 March 2012: All men and women have orgasms differently. Some are loud and passionate, some happy and giddy, some laughing uncontrollably, and others showing no signs whatsoever. ALL women who orgasm have an increase in their breathing and heart rate. The ... (read in full...)
Do I just have to be okay with no sex in my marriage, or should I find someone to give me that "experience" my body is craving?
Q. Hello, I really need someone to help me out. I have been married to my husband for almost five years, and we have two children together. Ever since we had our second child, my husband and I have had very little to no sex. He could care less about ...
A. 8 March 2012: I am in a very similar situation. Before we got married, my wife and I were always hot for one another. However, after the first week or so of marriage, it all faded out. She has no interest in sex except perhaps once every two or three MONTHS. I ... (read in full...)
Why would my Bf react in this very strong way when I touched his anal area?
Q. Most men like some anal activity; yes or no?? Is it wrong to insert a finger in your bf anus if you blow him? My bf almost went beserk and told me to NOT do that!!Is he scared that i might find out he had sex with another man....or is he just scar...
A. 3 March 2012: Speaking for myself, the anus is an EXIT ONLY situation. There is never any reason for anything to touch or enter that vicinity, outside of showering it clean or my doctor examining my prostate.
While some men are more open and adventur... (read in full...)
I've gained 40 lbs since dating my boyfriend and feel really insecure
Q. Hey everybody, I am in a very happy, healthy relationship with my bf of a bit over a year. We have great sex and all that, too. I'm a bit concerned though, because I have a thyroid problem and so I have gained quite a bit of weight. I was abo...
A. 3 March 2012: Sit down with your BF and ask him directly, without qualms or judgement, if he loves your extra padding or dislikes anything about it.
Honest, open and direct questions are more important in a relationship than constantly wondering and never kn... (read in full...)
Been dating 6 months and I love her. When can I raise possibility of sex with my virgin girlfriend?
Q. Im a male aged 22,i have been seeing my girlfriend for almost 6 months,she is 18. I love her so much she's the most important person in the world to me.I tell her often how much I care about her and would do anything for her. She doesn't really s...
A. 3 March 2012: My advice:
Get her to trust you wholeheartedly.
Hug her often, hold her while sitting together, snuggle with her and just lay together, sharing body warmth. Prove to her that you love her by making it clear you wish to share your presence wit... (read in full...)
Will I be able to have sex more than once the weekend I lose my virginity?
Q. Hi everyone! I am wanting to ask some general advice about first time sex. I am 21 years old and i have been in a long distance relationship for 4 months now with a man I met at univerisity. Im a virgin but hes not. basically i am going to visit ...
A. 3 March 2012: The first thing you need to do is get some KY Lube or another brand of "intimate" lubrication. There is always going to be some form of friction, and the more lubricated he is/you are, the better it will be for the both of you. If you have a hymen, ... (read in full...)
Is he thinking of impregnating me?
Q. My boyfriend confuses me again and again...I am 20 and he is 36. We've been dating more than half a year. When it comes to sex, we use the pull-out method. From the first, he stated that he wanted no kids. I shrugged it off since I'm young and ...
A. 3 March 2012: From the man’s point of view, and I might just be betraying a sacred shush code or something, many of us want to try it at least once just to make sure we can get away with it and to find out if we are as fertile as we think we are. Sure, it may ... (read in full...)
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