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I'm an English girl of sixteen. I live with my mother. My mother and father were constantly fighting due to their clashing personalities and interests, so they split up. I will learn from their mistakes and never make them myself. Hopefully, I will be able to help people by using the problems my parents had and helping people avoid those problems.

I'm open to all new ideas and will try and be as supportive and open as I can; however, if I disagree with something then I won't keep it to myself. I'll still try and keep it as nice as I can, just as honest too. Thanks for reading.

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Cyber-Sex - Cheating Or Not?

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12 June 2008: This has been on my mind after someone mentioned to me that she had cyber-sex with someone who wasn't her boyfriend without her boyfriend knowing about it. We've all seen or heard about someone (maybe even yourself) participating in cyber-sex, ri...

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She wont say she loves me because "you have not said the reason I am wanting to hear yet"-what does she mean?

Q.   I have been seeing this girl for a while, and we recently became a couple, and I have fallen in love with her. She has told me it takes her a while to fall in love or at least allow herself to feel that strongly because of her past. I have been ...

A.   1 April 2008: You could tell her that she's a kind, giving, beautiful girl, but that's not why you love her. You love her because she's herself. She's never pretended to be anyone else. You love her for her. Instead of listing all of the reasons, say "I love you ... (read in full...)

Was he complimenting me or the background behind me?

Q.   I send this guy some pictures of me in a trip I made to the Egypt. And he said he had never been there, so he hoped I'd enjoy it for both of us. Then he said" Thanks for the pictures; very beautiful" Did he meant the background or did he included ...

A.   1 April 2008: I agree with the others and think he is talking about the background, but you could always say, "Yes. Egypt is a beautiful place." And see if he says "Actually, I meant you." Or agrees with you. That could work. Wishing you the best xx... (read in full...)

She's selfish, immature, rarely has sex with me, doesn't trust me but I want to marry her?

Q.   i've been with this girl for two years in may and when things are going good its the best feeling, but its not like that all the time. i'm 24 and she'll be 21 in july. i love her to death, we are very different, i'm from maui and shes from kansas. i ...

A.   1 April 2008: Trust is the most important thing in a relationship. Trust and communication. If you have nothing in common, you can't communicate, and she doesn't trust you. Will things work out? That's what you need to ask yourself. Will it really work out? I ... (read in full...)

Help! I am seriously clueless when it comes to dating?

Q.   Hello! I am seriously clueless when it comes to dating. Just got out of a long term relationship. I'm gonna make This as short as possible. So I saw the guy I like on Fri. A bunch of us went out to dinner for his brothers bday. I am close to his ...

A.   1 April 2008: I think you should get in touch with him somehow. You are worried, so just ask if his brother got home okay. Then just ask him how he is and go on from there. Don't be scared. Just talk to him. Get in touch! Wishing you the best xx... (read in full...)

How can I assure him I won't leave?

Q.   I've met this man 18 years older than me while I was divorcing my husband. He treats me very nice and supportive. My life is back on track now. He says he can be my dad and worry I will leave him for a younger man. I love him and feel good being ...

A.   1 April 2008: There's really not that much you can do except prove to him that you're staying around by staying around. That's the only advice I can offer. Tell him you're not going anywhere, and that you'll prove it to him by actually staying around. Age is only ... (read in full...)

Is it possible not to have a sex drive?

Q.   My girlfriend told me she rarely thinks about sex, I found this a little strange. Is it possible to not have a sex drive?...

A.   1 April 2008: It can be a lot lower, but everyone has one. Human beings all have a sex drive. Every single one. Your girlfriend's sex drive is probably just a lot lower. She did say she thought about sex, just rarely. Means she has to have one. It's either l... (read in full...)

What is my BF trying to achieve by such comment to his ex?

Q.   Hi i just want to find out what this means...my boyfriend replied on the picture that the Ex girlfriend send to him by email he said "Damn can you plaese send it to my mobile, you are so beatiful" what could he possibly be hoping to achieve......

A.   1 April 2008: Honey, he obviously still likes her. I agree with what hlskitten said about achieve options. He isn't worth it if he says this about another girl if he's your boyfriend. I would leave him, myself. However, if you trust him not to act on these fe... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant, by these signs?

Q.   hi. my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex on saturday. and ever since monday morning my breasts have been very sore (tender). and this morning around 10am i was feeling so nauseas..but never throuwed up could i be pregnant? i have been using birth ...

A.   1 April 2008: I doubt you could be pregnant this early on. The chances of you being pregnant are slim due to your birth control, too. Sore breasts could be for a number of things. You also wouldn't get morning sickness this early on. It is only a couple of days. ... (read in full...)

Any got any tips on how to flirt?

Q.   How can I flirt, I know about smiling but that is useless because i smile at everyone. I am in a wheelchair so I can't stand up and lie near guys or sit on their knee. How else can I flirt?...

A.   1 April 2008: A look from the lower angle always helps. Tilt your head down slightly and look up at him. That's a good one. Keep eye contact, show your emotions through your eyes. It shows that you aren't afraid to be yourself. Play around with your hair a lot. I ... (read in full...)

Why is it I only like guys when they don't show me interest and have moved onto someone else?

Q.   hey my problem is i dont like guys who hit on me instead i like guys who dont care for me or who dont ask me out..earlier a guy lets call him jack was crazy about me but i rejected him and he moved on but since he started seeing this girl lets call ...

A.   1 April 2008: Nothing wrong with it at all. You always want what you can't have, remember. That's a good, accurate saying. It's quite common with people. Just don't act on it. If you act on your emotions then it can end up in people getting hurt, including ... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant even though I'm on the pill? Help!

Q.   hi im 19 years old nd iv bin on the pill on and off over 3 years now,i've bin takin it 6 months now with no breaks in between no missin pills or nothing,taking it as prescribed.a week ago i slept with my ex boyfriend,id taken the 9th pill that ...

A.   1 April 2008: The chances of you being pregnant are very very slim. You are no the pill and have been for a while. The pill is a VERY successful way of preventing pregnancy. There is also the fact that he did not ejaculate inside you. This means that there is no ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my best friend to back off and let me try to have a relationship with this boy that I think she's also attracted to?

Q.   Me and my best mate have known each other for 4 years and were really close, we tell each other everything. we are both mates with this lad, and recently he has been flirty with me, been texting me and we are becoming close - to the point where we ...

A.   1 April 2008: You can simply tell her that you appreciate her concern, and understand why she's worried, but tell her that you would really like to give him a chance. It might be different than what she experienced, if she actually experienced anything at all. ... (read in full...)

I'm young and in love, and want it all!! Is that wrong?

Q.   I'm young and in love! It's wonderful, and I KNOW I love him .... But I've had realtionships in the past where boys have hurt me (not pysically but emotionally). He says "I love you" everyday, and he always makes me feel special and loved. He's real...

A.   1 April 2008: You are not too young to be in love. Not at al. Age is just a number. You can do anything at any age. If you love someone, go for it. It isn't foolish to dream about something. If you believe he is telling the truth, then go for it. You can drea... (read in full...)

Opinions on my boyfriend and I's age difference?

Q.   I'm 18 and he's 27. When we are together, age is not an issue. We have a heck of a lot in common, and we are each very dedicated to making our relationship work. I will be telling my Mum about us soon, but before I do, I'd really apprecia...

A.   1 April 2008: You can fall in love at any age. If you love this person then DO NOT let him go, no matter what the age. After you become an adult you can just drop your age anyway. It's not important. Age is just a number, after all. So what, he's been alive ... (read in full...)

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