What stimulates women the most?
Q. What stimulates women the most, kissing, massaging or something else? I know I should know but just want to get a few ideas. If you just pretend there are no other issues blocking a sexual turn on such as looking at other women, porn or an ...
A. 2 March 2008: Thanks for the great answers. I think they will be most helpful.... (read in full...)
Does he still have feelings for me? If not, why would it be so hard to write that back in an email?
Q. My exbf broke up with me in early Dec. We live an hour away, he hadnt had a GF since his last 3 years ago and thought he was ready. Well he wasnt. Said wanted to keep in touch hang out occasionally and if it works out get back together ...
A. 1 March 2008: Sounds to me babe that he just wants to keep you on the hook while he is looking for someone else. That way he isn't totally alone, but doesn't have to make a real commitment either. If you really think you love him you might want to make a strong ... (read in full...)
Is there a happy-medium when it comes to porn?
Q. I found out that my boyfriend had a porn addiction in the past after I had fallen in love with him and been with him for over a year. I couldn't stand it and we fought and he did it a lot less. He only got "sucked in" because he got them in his ...
A. 28 February 2008: If you really love him maybe you could be oversexed for a while to cure him, get his mind off anything but you. It seems so hard to me to get women to go along. I never will understand why it has to be so complicated just having a very good sexual ... (read in full...)
My wife has a low sex drive, I can live with it but would really like if she gave me blowjobs, any ideas to convince her?
Q. I have a sad and serious problem. I have been married to a fantastic woman whom I love very much for almost 5 years. But our sex life is not satisfying for me. She has a very low sex drive and basically only likes the missionary position and ...
A. 28 February 2008: I know the feeling well. Does your wife say she's tired or have an excuse a lot of the time? I wish I could find the secret and I don't know why it has to be so damm complicated. Maybe shaving would help and making the penis area look a little more ... (read in full...)
I am attracted to a woman at work. Does she feel the same?
Q. I am a woman and I have developed a very close relationship with a woman I work with. We have become best friends and I have intimate thoughts of her. We are both married. She kisses me on the lips quite a bit. When we are out drinking and danc...
A. 28 February 2008: I would definitely go for it. Your husband's might like it. I know I would. ... (read in full...)
How do I stop his porn addiction?
Q. My boyfriend is still watching porn daily, and I can't stand this horrible feeling that I have. I've asked this before, but I'm not satisfied with any answers or results. How should I get him to stop watching porn? He wants to marry me and i want to ...
A. 22 February 2008: I believe if you give your boyfriend something to do with you sexually he may look at porn less and less. It is a habit that is a curiousity for some men including myself.
Of course all men don't do it, all men don't do anything the same, that wha... (read in full...)
I never seem to find anyone that meets or is even close enough to what am looking for in a guy.
Q. Hi, I never seem to find anyone that meets or is even close enough to what am looking for in a guy. My present boyfriend is unemployed and I feel he isn't making any attempt to get out of his present situation. My ex was opposite, hard w...
A. 22 February 2008: You sound like a stripper I used to email regularly and see once in a while. Please don't get mad at the comparison because I only mean the dissatisfaction with guys part only. I think she thought all guys were just there for her use and then they ... (read in full...)
I can't get the fact that she went to a 'naked party' out of my head.
Q. I'm having a real problem getting my girlfriend's past out of my head. I know there have been some other questions like this on the board, but nothing that really matches. Basically, I've been dating a wonderful woman for three months. She's am...
A. 22 February 2008: Sounds like a hot woman to me. I wish I could get mine to be a little wild like me. I unfortunately can only dream up things like that in my mind. You are a lucky lucky man don't blow it, be thankful and use it to your advantage. good luck... (read in full...)
Married and in love with a married man
Q. I have fallen in love with a man from work. we are both married and he has 3 children. we have known each other for 4 years and always been attracted to each other. at the christmas party we spent the night dancing together and from then on have ...
A. 22 February 2008: I would suggest thinking about the consequences of each of you getting a divorce and whether you both could weather that storm. I have a lot of the same feelings myself in my present marriage. I have emailed a woman for about a year, it was a s... (read in full...)
I didn't go out and party "a lot" so my gf left me. Any way I can show her I can be "fun" too?
Q. My girlfriend just broke up with me recently, and she gave no clear reason. Our relationship was fine we were completely fine, but i think it's cause i'm "lame." I admit I don't go out and party "a lot" but I have friends and we go out once and a ...
A. 22 February 2008: Sorry to say you might have to move on. I know it hurts a lot. If you find yourself bored with your life maybe you can change a little, but if not just do what you have been doing. Someone is out there who will like you for who you are, you are... (read in full...)
I'm 54 and need to know...how do women really feel about a guy with a beer belly?
Q. How do women feel about men with a medium size so called beer belly? Hard to get rid of and be a stud at 54? Does it really matter that much?...
A. 21 February 2008: Thanks to all the great answers. I am not looking for Ms July but I just am a little frustrated at having a beer belly at the present time. I try to walk but I am not sure if I will be able to change that much. I do like to party and that doesn't ... (read in full...)
How do I stop his porn addiction?
Q. My boyfriend is still watching porn daily, and I can't stand this horrible feeling that I have. I've asked this before, but I'm not satisfied with any answers or results. How should I get him to stop watching porn? He wants to marry me and i want to ...
A. 7 February 2008: I watch porn myself. My wife has gained a little weight and feels inadequate I believe. There is no real reason to feel that way. I believe men just like to fantasize about someone they can't have, I know I do. It gives you an extra arousal, ... (read in full...)
Do you think she is someone he would like to have an affair with??
Q. I have recently found out that my long term partner of 10 years has been emailing another woman in a way I feel is wrong. here are some examples: Hi Nici just a quick e-mail so you are in my contacts folder, hope you're ok and not enjoying the war...
A. 29 January 2008: Yeps, I am doing that myself right now, but it mostly serves as an outlet since my wife doesn't have sex hardly at all. Feels bad all the time she says.
I don't know why I do it, for excitement I guess. Worse than your husbands emails. Hard to ... (read in full...)
Our marriage has become boring. What can I do to get the spark back?
Q. my wife of 7 years last night told me she was unhappy with the marrage and felt like that for a year. she says that she feels like she is living with a brother rather than a husband and she doesn't know why she feels like this. we get on great lik...
A. 28 January 2008: Damm, I have the same problem. I think exercise like walking together and letting her vent may help with the lack of energy. My wife likes coffee so when I grind some beens and make a pot she gets in a better mood. I try to find things she likes to ... (read in full...)
No loving at home has me looking elsewhere
Q. I have a strip club, porn addiction. Is it totally wrong or can it be worked into a marriage successfully? My wife has been very negative towards any real love for a long time. I have been married for 30 years, but I am very interested in sex and ...
A. 28 January 2008: Thanks for the inputs ,peoriaman and baby duck. I am trying to work things out now, but have a bad habit of spending 100's of dollars on stripper girls and really find it hard to stop entirely. I know it is false but I feel like living a little on ... (read in full...)
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