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writes:How do women feel about men with a medium size so called beer belly? Hard to get rid of and be a stud at 54? Does it really matter that much? Reply to this Question
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Make it a voddy n coke or wkd blue (theres a drink high in calories!) n you're on :oDC xxxxx
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Let's have several beers in honor of all the posts and all the posters!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): I can't answer the main part of your question however if it makes you uncomfortable then get rid of it. It is possible and if you're serious about getting rid of it be serious about and don't make excuses that it will be too hard or you won't be able to. Eat an exercise well.
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reader, wildman +, writes (21 February 2008):
wildman is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks to all the great answers. I am not looking for Ms July but I just am a little frustrated at having a beer belly at the present time. I try to walk but I am not sure if I will be able to change that much. I do like to party and that doesn't help either.
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reader, h20gal +, writes (21 February 2008):
 I work out and take good care of myself, keep myself thin, and in the past I have always disregarded men with a belly, it is not a turn on. However, last Fall I met a man who is chubby (although not a beer belly), and I am so completely head over heels in love, if he were to get bigger (which he probably will) or develop a belly, I will stay as long as he lets me. What I see are men with big bellies who think they are studs and want young beautiful women. Look around and find someone who will either see past the belly, or change your perception.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (21 February 2008):
 My husband of 30+ years has acquired a round jolly belly. Just perfect for serberts (not sure how to spell this but I hope you know what I mean).
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (21 February 2008):
Hi
I dont go for washboard stomachs. I like a smallish hairy beer belly to be honest! Nothing resembling a pregnant woman, but something to stroke is good cheers!
If a guy drinks too much beer though, thats a no no :o(
But chubby = good.
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): I am 46 and spend a lot of time working out to look good for the exact reason that I don't want to have to 'settle' for a man that doesn't look good. I know that if I don't look good men that look good won't find me attractive and that works the other way.
We all get 'love handles' as we age and that doesn't bother me, but if it looks like the man may be a couple months pregnant, it's a turn off.
I am curious....how do you feel about women that don't take care of themselves and have a beer belly? Are you looking to hook up with ms july?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): well i mean, im a lot younger and all but i will share my input.. haha
if i were 54 & married to guy with a beer belly, i think id be fine with it, because by that time, i should feel comfortable with him & looks shouldnt change that.
if your not married, beer bellys probably arent on someones want list, but i doubt it would make a difference. im assuming that people at 54 arent picky like they would be when theyre younger.
and truly, as cliche as it may sound, personality is what does it. i was hesitant to believe it, but its so true. i think someone who is your age is wise enough to realize that looks or a beer belly is important.
good luck with everything!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): personally - i dont go for 'studs' - since im not perfect looking, if a perfect looking guy asked me out i would assume he is a psychopath. sometimes imperfections make one more approachable - at least you would attract women whose values arent so superficial. good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): Hey!
Im 34 and have spent the last year getting over a guy who has a beer belly! He also wears glasses and is 48 and is balding. I would marry him tomorrow if he only loved me!
Hope that helps! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): I'm sure it all depends on the woman you ask. A woman who herself has a beer belly might not mind. Whereas a woman who is very health conscious it might not suit her tastes.
I don't think anything is impossible. At your age, my father too started to work out and eat really healthy and now is in wonderful health, lowered his cholesterol and strengthened his body alot. It did wonders for his stamina and for his mental health too. He feels great.
Anyways if that is something you would like to get rid of for health reasons and just to improve your appearance to your liking, it is a very attainable goal. The most IMPORTANT thing to do is detox your body and clean out your colon. And then do a cleanse on your liver. For more information on this, look up the "master cleanse." There is plenty of information on it online.
To reduce bloating you need to drink alot of water to flush out your system of toxins and you need to cleanse your colon, periodically. And at the same time, you need to feed your body supplements and a bunch of herbal remedy's to heel your body of years of damage. That is why a detox is so important. So when you look up "the master cleanse" you will find everything you need to know. This is not a one day thing. It takes perseverance day after day. It will work though.
For maintenance, you need to eat lots and lots of fruits and vegetables and eat plenty of lean protein. Just make this your regular diet after your cleanse is done. And even though the detox (if you stick to it) will decrease bloating in your body, you need to get in a exercise routine in order to strengthen your heart and lungs and build your muscles again and really get your abs back into shape. Start walking at your own pace on a treadmill. Do a few sit ups and do some weight training. Make it a routine and do it 3 times a week. Little by little you can increase the frequency and/or the intensity of your workouts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): You might get a real diverse range of answers on this question, dear. I am 52 and my fiancee is 50 and he has a small belly. And..I find him absolutely adorable...belly and all. Becuase he's got the most loving affectionate attitude and he treats me wonderfully. So to some woman, a belly doesn't matter...it's what's inside that counts. Quit trying to be Mr Studly and just be yourself. You might generate more genuine interest, that way. Good luck
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