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This question has 11 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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5 December 2008: Hey, Okay, basically, people like to label people, but why do they take it so far? Goths: They are supposed to be depressed, they wear black, and people don't like them because they are either different or they think that because they wear bla...
Be yourself, don't change for anyone
This question has 10 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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9 November 2008: Hey, this is just my personal opinion. This isn't a question, just an opinion, and I would be happy to hear yours :D I believe, firmly, that you should not change who you are for anyone. I think that everyone is different and unique and diffe...
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Be yourself, don't change for anyone
Q. Hey, this is just my personal opinion. This isn't a question, just an opinion, and I would be happy to hear yours :D I believe, firmly, that you should not change who you are for anyone. I think that everyone is different and unique and diffe...
A. 13 April 2009: Anonymous: Hey, I'm not saying that there aren't small bad habbits you should change, just firm beliefs and who you are as a person.
If you were happy the way you were before you met the man you're in a relationship with then you shouldn'... (read in full...)
Be yourself, don't change for anyone
Q. Hey, this is just my personal opinion. This isn't a question, just an opinion, and I would be happy to hear yours :D I believe, firmly, that you should not change who you are for anyone. I think that everyone is different and unique and diffe...
A. 29 December 2008: scythe: Exactly, obviously, if there are any small habbits that are annoying, you could, maybe, change the, but never, ever your beliefs, or morals, or anything like that. I agree with that, if you don't know yourself, it's impossible for anyone ... (read in full...)
Be yourself, don't change for anyone
Q. Hey, this is just my personal opinion. This isn't a question, just an opinion, and I would be happy to hear yours :D I believe, firmly, that you should not change who you are for anyone. I think that everyone is different and unique and diffe...
A. 23 November 2008: Hey, Thank you!!! Don't worry I won't! :D :D :D... (read in full...)
Be yourself, don't change for anyone
Q. Hey, this is just my personal opinion. This isn't a question, just an opinion, and I would be happy to hear yours :D I believe, firmly, that you should not change who you are for anyone. I think that everyone is different and unique and diffe...
A. 18 November 2008: Lol,
Thank you!!... (read in full...)
Unwritten rule of dating
Q. One unwritten rule of dating is not to bring up sensitive subjects. Current US policies, or other social questions, or deep philosophica/religious subjects are supposed to be taboo. This unwritten rule seems especially strong for men. It's somewh...
A. 11 November 2008: In my opinion, you should always get to know someone properly, before you consider haveing any kind of relationship with them, it leads to less fights in the future, and like you said, if you strongly disagree with them, it would be awkward.
... (read in full...)
I grew two inches in two weeks. What's happening to me?
Q. HI! this is crazy ok, im 14 and at school they measured us last month. they measured me at 5'5 1/2. well now im 5'7 1/2 a month later. whats going on?!...
A. 11 November 2008: Don't worry, growing is normal, my cousin, I saw him last year (he's 2 years younger than me) and he was shorter than me, this year, he's grown a hell of a lot, taller than me, don't worry, it's completly normal. Trust me, my friends would lo... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be friends with a teacher without it looking suspicious?
Q. Hi. I have a bit of a situation. My chemistry teacher this year is awesome. Probably one of the coolest guys ever. While he is incredibly gorgeous, I don't want to date him ever. He's really become like an older brother to me this year. We're always ...
A. 11 November 2008: I don't see any reason why not, aside from the one that 'monica90' pointed out, which, I agree would be bad. On the other hand, if you're sure, that he just wants to be friends, and nothing more, I don't see any reason why not, if he is a ... (read in full...)
My family will only accept him if he converts and he won't.
Q. I'm a muslim girl from a rich prominent muslim family, who are moderately religious not hectic muslism but nevertheless practicing muslims. I've been in a relationship with a white christian guy for 4 years ( we've tried to break up but can't and to ...
A. 10 November 2008: Wow, this really sucks! I also don't think your boyfriend should be forced into a decision like this, especally if he doesn't want to, he loves you, but his religion is his religion, that shouldn't be taken away from him, and I'm glad that you have ... (read in full...)
Be yourself, don't change for anyone
Q. Hey, this is just my personal opinion. This isn't a question, just an opinion, and I would be happy to hear yours :D I believe, firmly, that you should not change who you are for anyone. I think that everyone is different and unique and diffe...
A. 10 November 2008: I agree, we should really think about whether what we are doing is right. Yeah, that really does suck, about your parents wanting you to be like your cousins, I'd hate it, no offence to my cousins, lol, but if I were being them, I definatly wouldn't ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering what walks of life the aunts and uncles come from?
Q. Dear posters, I think its wonderful to have people from different walks of life, to be able to come here and look at others situations with a different set of eyes. its great! On to my question, I was left wondering what each and every one of you...
A. 9 November 2008: Okay, well, basically I am 15 years old and am currently attending secondary school in my last year (year 11) and am trying hard to get into college.
I am, hopefully, going to be taking in college Psychology, Sociology, Law and maybe History ... (read in full...)
Second date ideas seriously needed here!
Q. hi people at dearcupid, I'm 19 at uni 70 miles away from Manchester (uk) where my actual home is and I've been on a date with a girl who lives in the same area. Last Monday the 3rd November, (I tend to come home every 2/3weeks). I did not know her ...
A. 9 November 2008: If you guys had no problems on your first date, I'm sure everything will be great on the second. My friend and her boyfriend talked non-stop before they even went out, and still have loads to talk about now. If you're still getting to know her, then ... (read in full...)
My Love Life (This really sucks)
Q. This is what I wrote from my hi5 blog: Well.... my love life has become my love death, so I'll start from the beginning. Please don't judge me on all of this because I never really had online relationships that much this year. So far this year I ...
A. 9 November 2008: Instead of going on internet dating sites, how about you go out and meet people, make friends, and who knows, maybe you will find someone you truly care for, and who truly cares about you. You can't rely on the internet because, as you said, they ... (read in full...)
BigSis and Bitchology
Q. {Please read to the end} When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch, and when I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch. When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way...they call me a bitch. ...
A. 9 November 2008: That's awesome!! I love that!! It happens everywhere. Awesome you're not taking any notice, and even more embracing it lol :D Awesome, awesome, awesome, don't you EVER change. :D ... (read in full...)
Why can't I just swallow my pride and say I'm sorry?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. Once in awhile, we'll get into these little arguments. Nothing serious. But, I have a lot of pride, which I know is a bad thing. But then, with him, I've learned to just swallow my pride and ...
A. 9 November 2008: Sometimes, our pride controls us instead of us controling it. It's hard to say sorry, but we know we have to, make sure your boyfriend knows your sorry, it may be hard, but nessessary if you really love him. Make sure he knows you love him, sorry ... (read in full...)
Should teenagers date before 16? What should they limit to?
Q. So what do you think? Should people date before 16? And if they do, what do you think are the limits in a relationship? :) x...
A. 9 November 2008: I see absouloutly no problem with dating before you're 16, my friends have all had boyfriends before that age (now, before, either way...), so yeah, nothing wrong with it at all.
I also don't think there are any limits as long as you're comforta... (read in full...)
What can I get my 16-year-old boyfriend for Christmas?
Q. hiya its almost christmas!!! and my boyfrind has already brought me a gift and i have no idea what to get him he's 16 and it so difficult on what to decide on what to get him its our 2nd christmas together weve been together for a lil ova a...
A. 9 November 2008: I agree with the others, you can't go wrong with something homemade. You could make a photo album, or a scrap book of all the times you have spent together, put tickets into anything you've been together that you've kept, and anything else you can ... (read in full...)
Whenever I end up liking a guy, he seems to be interested for only a few months! Why is this?
Q. I'm a 23 year old female, and I've never been in a relationship. I'm attractive: when I go out to classes, or restaurants, or the grocery store, or bars, guys frequently approach me. I'm intelligent: I am in law school on a full scholarship. I think ...
A. 9 November 2008: Well if you ask me, those guys don't know what they missed, you seem like a nice, intelligent, thoughtful person, it doesn't make sense to me either.
Don't worry, keep being who you are, there will be someone for you soon, you say guys approach... (read in full...)
Be Yourself, No Matter Who That Is.
Q. I've heard alot about how girls/guys are afraid to be themselves around their lovers, because they feel that they'll lose interest. I think you should be who youare, no matter how you dress, act, talk, or think. Love is love, no one should be judged ...
A. 9 November 2008: Oh My God, you have basically summed up entirely what I believe, I honnestly and truly believe you should be yourself no matter what, like my icon
'Be who you want to be, not what others want to see'
I strongly believe you should be yoursl... (read in full...)
Am I so wrong for wanting to leave my husband and make a better life for me and my kids?
Q. I still care about my husband but I am ready to move on and better my life and the lives of my children. I have been with my husband 9 years now but for the last 6 years my husband has not worked and I have been the one supporting our family ...
A. 9 November 2008: I see nothing wrong with you taking your children and leaving your husband. Yes you married him for better, for worse, but the thing is, he hasn't exactly been pulling his weight, he hasn't gotten a job, you need a break. You also said you should ... (read in full...)
Why did my friend betray my trust?
Q. I am so annoyed right now and need advice. Do you think it is ok for a so called best friend (a guy) to tell my other girl friend about the night me and him came close to sleeping together?? I am so upset about the fact he told her ALL of the ...
A. 9 November 2008: In my opinion you and your friend should have spoken about whether you should tell anyone, this was between both of you and should have been both your decision to tell someone. Yeah. I agree, some things are just supposed to be private and not ... (read in full...)
He's hurt me terribly but I love him! What do I do?
Q. Okay, so I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and throughout our relationship there have been a few things that have been rough, but what couple doesn't have that? We managed through it...or I managed through it. About a month ago, I j...
A. 7 November 2008: Hey, glad everything worked out for you :D Hope you guys remain strong :D Communication is they key lol, good choice in talking to him. Good luck, he seems really sorry, so, from what you've said, you have nothing to worry about :D ... (read in full...)
What is her problem?
Q. Hi, my best friend finally admitted that she has a weight problem (she was in denial for years). So now she is on a diet and she's giving me a lot of heat just because I'm being supportive!! She said I'm being optimistic and she hates me for that? ...
A. 2 November 2008: Hey, that really sucks! It sounds like your friend wants to loose as much weight as she can, and feels that she can do better in a competition, which is wrong, if you feel comfortable in what you're doing, stick with it, it's not up to her what you ... (read in full...)
I really love gothic, black metal music. Does everyone go through this phase?
Q. i am a gothik girl but don't wear a lot of black.. but love the music.. black metal .. death metal..because of the state of war i lived in... anyways,i just wanted to ask if this a normal phase?i mean does everyone get threw with it?because it is ...
A. 2 November 2008: Hey, yeah, two months along, I know, but ah well, think I should reply. Anyway the others are right, it's a type of music, who cares what anyone else thinks, if you enjoy it, then that's that!
I'm kind of the opposite, I like the clothing... (read in full...)
A boy likes me but I don't like him back!
Q. there's this boy in my middle school that likes me but i dont like him. im goth and he's starting to wear black evry day 4 me. its annoying!!! hes spead 3 lies about me cause i rejected him. last week his buddy was teasing me about nick liking me so ...
A. 2 November 2008: If you don't like him, you don't like him, that's that, he needs to accept that. Maybe you could talk to Nick, and tell him, you just don't feel the same way, and you don't want him to go changing his style, into yours, just because he likes you. ... (read in full...)
I don't feel attractive enough to get a nice guy.
Q. hi everyone:) i have a small problem,id like to change it if i can.im single and really hoping to find someone soon for the long haul.my problem is,most guys im attracted to are ( in my opinion) wayyyy out of my league.im not ugly by any means,but ...
A. 2 November 2008: Hmm...maybe you should stop looking for the perfect guy, and stop looking for anyone to date at all. You could start by going out, making new friends, and then see where it leads to, it's always best to get to know the person first, and you never ... (read in full...)
Why is he suddenly acting so insecurely and being horrible?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost two months...although we have known each other for 6 months and part of that we started out being friends with benefits, everything was great until just the other night. He got all upset when i ...
A. 2 November 2008: If he was cheated on by his ex, then it's possible that he's worried about loosing you in the same situation, loosing you at all. Even if it didn't happen in his relationship 4 years ago, he probably gets angry because it's the best way he can ... (read in full...)
She is So Close to Her Ex and I Can't Understand Why? What do I do?
Q. Hi. I've been with my fiancee for 4 months. We're more like high school sweethearts. The only problem I have is her ex. She keeps in touch with her ex up to this day. She had an intimate relationship with him for 3 years. She broke up with him a ...
A. 2 November 2008: I can understand why this is hard for you in many ways. However, some people, just stay close to there exes, I know many people who are still friends with theres, though none have ever done what he's done to your fiancee. I guess even after ... (read in full...)
What do you do when an exes mate judges you because you split with their friend?
Q. You date someone for over a year, they lie to you, you finish with them, they manipulate you back many times. You dont trust them again though. Its all a mess and you know it wont work but they always tell you it will. Eventally you end it for good ...
A. 2 November 2008: Well, your exes mate is proabaly just trying to stick up for him because thats what mates do, they have their friends back, no matter what. The best you can do is just ignore his comments, it's not his buisness to get involved with yours and your ... (read in full...)
In need of some big advice about why life sucks.
Q. how will i know if i found the right one for me?just because somebody is treating me and we both feel comfortable doesn't mean that we are right for each other......it might not last...but what are the for sure signs?n why do people pop in and out ...
A. 2 November 2008: Wow, these are some big questions.
I've never been in a relationship before, but I guess you know if you've found the one, because you just feel it, you know he's the one for you, the one you want to spend the rest of you're life with.
I do... (read in full...)
He's hurt me terribly but I love him! What do I do?
Q. Okay, so I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and throughout our relationship there have been a few things that have been rough, but what couple doesn't have that? We managed through it...or I managed through it. About a month ago, I j...
A. 2 November 2008: I really don't know what to say.
Look, I know you love this man, but if he is insensitive to your feelings, and has hurt you the way he did, then, why stay with him? I know you love him and everything, but if it is going to be like this for the ... (read in full...)
What's the best way of coping with a break up?
Q. My boyfriend of a month just broke up for me today, and I'm reacting really badly to it. I had a foreboding it would happen, and now that it has I'm really upset, even though I tried to prepare myself the best I could for what I knew was coming. I ...
A. 2 November 2008: This must be really hard. I guess there is no 'best way' of coping with a break up. All you have to do is take it day by day, it may get easier, and maybe go out, you may find someone else you like more than him. Sorry, this isn't really the best ... (read in full...)
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