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writes:I am so annoyed right now and need advice.Do you think it is ok for a so called best friend (a guy) to tell my other girl friend about the night me and him came close to sleeping together??I am so upset about the fact he told her ALL of the personal details that happened between us. Am I overreacting or was this very wrong of him? :( I know she is close to him too (but aren't some things meant to be kept private?) I feel so embarrassed.
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reader, vamp-gal  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 In my opinion you and your friend should have spoken about whether you should tell anyone, this was between both of you and should have been both your decision to tell someone. Yeah. I agree, some things are just supposed to be private and not spread around. Maybe you should talk to him about how you are feeling about this, that's the best thing I can say, so you both come to an understanding and you may also find out why he told her anyway.I'm not sure he betrayed you, I don't think he thought you'd mind, because you're all friends, the thing to make sure, is you make sure, he knows not to tell any one else, he may not, but just incase, he may not have realized that it would cause you to feel betrayed and embarrased.So, have a talk with him and see what happens.Hope everything works out.
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reader, boo22 +, writes (9 November 2008):
 hi honey, of course you feel hurt and i'd feel the same. unfortunately this guy is far to immature for you to be messin with,that's obvious as he couln't keep his mouth shut. a gentleman never tells they say,and he's no gentleman. good luck in the future x
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