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... Send *ine a private message | | | *ine's profile:hiya all! well my name is Tine and im from Belfast, in Northern Ireland... the place isnt exactly the best place in the world, with all the trouble but its where i call home. I'm 23 and unfortunately i don't know it all, however i've had enough experiences to make me the person i am today. I've had my heart broken on several occasions, and i'm sure i've broke hearts myself - no1 is perfect!
The one thing that makes me happy is seeing others around me happy too and i feel that my work is never done unless i know absolutely everyone around me is feeling 100%.. what kind of person would you be to let all those around you fall down?? At the minute i am working full time but also at college studying to be a Social worker, not just for kids though, for the elderly also, i have a lot of time for them.
I absolutely love giving people advice on anything really and i do admitt that i don't know everything, nobody does but as the days go by i learn more and more and as i learn i pass that knowledge on to others and it gives me a buzz to know that i have made someones life better, even if its just by the slightest bit!! Also one quality that i have that my friends love is that im honest and straight talking, if you ask me a question the only way i know how to answer it is honestly. And i find that i am the one my friends and family come to first for advice. so hopefully that should help you lot out there!! |
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Should I stay over my ex's house?
Q. I'm still speaking to my ex boyfriend and we've decided to remain friends but now, he's inviting me to spend the night at his house. I'm so confused, I don't know what to do. Part of me wants to stay because he's going through a rough time right ...
A. 8 August 2006: well if he is going through a rough time at the minute then stay with him to show him that you are a good friend to him however stay in a completely different room to him so that it wont be a case of the both of you waking up next to each other, ... (read in full...)
My wife has a problem with me seeing my sick mom!
Q. Hi, I hope you will be able to help me on this: We have got married few months ago, good thing is I made it so clear about my commitments towards my mother right before we get married and she agreed. Since marriege I have accommodated so many req...
A. 8 August 2006: you need to talk to your wife about this because it is obviously something that is getting worse with time. ask her this question, how would she react if you were taking her attitutde towards her mother?? she would not like this one bit and being ... (read in full...)
Worried about my girlfriend's past rape... Is she still a virgin? Should it be forgotten?
Q. My girlfriend was raped when she was younger, disturbingly by her own brother, does that mean that she lost her virginity to him. I can't stop thinking about it, it fills me up with hatred and it don't make me feel very good, it really bothers me. ...
A. 8 August 2006: well think about this, if this is how you are thinking about your girlfriends rape how do you think she has been feeling about it?? you need to be strong for her and respect her wishes that if she doesnt want anything done about it then you have to ... (read in full...)
His mum said to mine he chases anyone in a skirt!
Q. where do i start - i went out with this boy for a week. he broke up with me and text me and said i dont think it will work. i only see him weekends and chat with him once in a while on the phone. His mum said to mine he chases anyone in a skir...
A. 8 August 2006: being honest i think this guy is just asking you to reassure himself that he can get you anytime he wants. He must love the attention of being wanted or find himself a stud and does this to make him feel good about himself. Truth is i dont think it ... (read in full...)
Im Pregnant and have just split with the babys father, I dont know what to do from here!
Q. i am 5 months pregnant and have just split with the father of my baby i thought he was the love of my life but he was just a user now i dont know what to do im scared and now im alone, i just cant understand how someone i loved so much could treat ...
A. 7 August 2006: the only way to go from here is up. You do not need someone in your life who is only going to lose you and break your heart. Im sure you have family and friends around you and now that you are single and pregnant you need them now more than ever. ... (read in full...)
If he only calls when he doesn't have anyone else...
Q. If a guy only calls you when he doesn't have a girlfriend, does that mean he has feelings for you, or are you his 'go-to' girl?...
A. 6 August 2006: no your his go to girl - think about it if he only ever calls when he has nobody else then your his safety net to fall back on, if this is happenin to you stop it now because you shouldnt b treated like this... (read in full...)
Should I fight for him?
Q. dear cupid my boyfriend has just broken up with me and i am heart broken i dont no what to do. i loved him sooo much and i still do he said he didnt see me as a gf any more but im confussed just 15mins earlyier he said he loved me sooo much i dont ...
A. 6 August 2006: it sounds as though he loves the attention your giving him and loves all the reactions you make whenever he does dump you. Truth is it sounds as though he wants to keep you running after him that way you'll always be a safety net incase anything ... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend says she want's to be a single mum
Q. i'm 17 and my gf is 15. she has just found out that she is pregnant. we did have safe sex but obviously not safe enough. we have been seeing each other for almost two years now and i'll admit that i love her very much. she says that she is going to ...
A. 31 July 2006: how about writing her a letter and giving it to her, if she wont see you and she wont answer your calls then this seems the only option. She is probable thinking that this will ruin your life and thats why she has done this. But you need to let her ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my girl but I want her back
Q. i kissed another girl, and my girlfriend broke up with me.we were in love and can be again.i regret what i ve done and am ready to try and be happy again.how do i get her back.how do i win her trust.or change her perspective. x ...
A. 29 July 2006: you may never change her perspective because you have broken the trust that she once had with you however you need to tell her how sorry you are. She may not want you back at the start but thats just to be expecting. I say dont give up telling her ... (read in full...)
Still thinking about my friends husband.....
Q. Still thinking about friend's husband (March 28). Now he is my friend's ex-husband. My feelings have deepened for him and we still talk/text nearly everyday. He never initiates the contact but always responds immediately to my calls/texts. It has n...
A. 29 July 2006: but do you think that this "friend" of yours is pushing you towards having this trail seperation because this is what he has done too? If you dont love your husband, fair enough but show him the respect he deserves and stop calling and texting this ... (read in full...)
We planned to go out then he couldnt go, I still went he says I now dont care...
Q. Me and my boyfriend had aranged to go to thorpe park together and some how it was called of . me and my friend decided to go and he now thinks i dont care about him and he is really angry with me but i love him so much !!!!...
A. 29 July 2006: did he give you a reason as to why it was called off?? this sounds like there is a lack of communication between you both, talk to him about it. Ask him why he think you dont care? and why the day out was called off? maybe there is a valuable ... (read in full...)
I want to find my father, but don't want to hurt Mum or my stepdad!
Q. Me and my mum had always lived together, just us two, until a few years ago when she remarried. I care about my stepdad but I don't get on with him that well. My mum always said she never wanted me to find my father and I never did too until re...
A. 26 July 2006: you should definately tell her, and do it sooner rather than later! There is obviously something that your mom holds agianst your dad and thats why she doesnt want you to try to find him. So i say ask her why she doesnt want you to meet him, maybe ... (read in full...)
My BF cheated on me with my friend! I'm angry and confused...
Q. I have always been against serious relationships because I always seem to get hurt. Well about a year and a half ago I was introduced to this boy and of course I didn't want a serious relationship and he did. We struggled for about 6 months a...
A. 24 July 2006: dont beat yourself up about this, none of this business is your fault! I say just completely kcik this guy to the kerb, you deserve so much better. If he tries to go out with all your friends he's obviously not that bothered about your feelings and ... (read in full...)
My mum thinks this guy only wants me for sex, but I'm sure he doesn't!
Q. Hi, I'm feeling really confused at the moment. I've liked this boy for over a year, but I've never spoken to him and we met on the streets. I was chuffed when he asked me for my digits today. Problem is, he's 22 and I'm much younger then him, and...
A. 24 July 2006: for a start what fella doesnt look at porno mags? Maybe some seem like they dont because they dont get caught doing it in shops but most of them do it in private! Its just a guy thing. You mom is right to be concerned tho, if he is much older than ... (read in full...)
I want to be with my new boyfriend; I'm just not sure I love him...
Q. I know this is long but thanks for taking your time if you read this: Okay maybe I have been wording it wrong on here when I ask for advice but it seems like people are misreading it, so I will try to make it more understandable. sorry. I have be...
A. 24 July 2006: firstly i think that you can easily love someone else even if yu are not entirely happy with yourself, think to yourself, who do you know is 100% happy with themselves. Because i cant think of anyone that i know. Fair enough if you've said that you ... (read in full...)
In love with my 13-years-older friend and I don't want to risk the friendship!
Q. I'm in love with my good friend, but he's 13 years older than me. How can I tell him I love him without ruining our friendship?...
A. 23 July 2006: one way or the other i think that you need to keep your feelings to yourself otherwise if u let everything go then your friend will feel too uncomfortable around you and before you know it you will see less and less of them.... (read in full...)
Started cheating on my boyfriend... now I have strong feelings for both guys!
Q. My bf and I have been going out for 6 years. He and I have gone through a lot. He is always by my side when I am in trouble. And I stood by his side when his company is in bad shape.. I started cheating on my bf 2 years ago. I met someone o...
A. 23 July 2006: you need to come clean before someone else tells him. You cant blame your boyfriend on you cheating, its your fault and nobody elses. You should have said to your boyfriend that you were feeling neglected right from the start so that he could make a ... (read in full...)
Everyone is enjoying summer... Except me!
Q. Just wanted to rant and get it off my chest. I feel like everyone in my uni are enjoying their holidays except for me. I have to resit an exam, so have to revise over the summer. Everyone seems like they are doing something- all the time, going ...
A. 22 July 2006: how about going out with family members? by going out to pubs and clubs with them, your guaranteed to always have something to talk about and by doing things with them then this will give you a chance to meet new people rather than relying on your ... (read in full...)
I dont know why hes not going near me all of a sudden ?
Q. Dear Cupid, I was going out with a really nice guy for a couple of months. We were getting on great together and were in love. Suddenly he never talks to me and never goes near me. I try and ask him why is he not talking to me but he always walks aw...
A. 22 July 2006: maybe he's feeling guilty about it or maybe he's just doing it for the attention because he knows that you will give it to him. How do you get over him? well for a start tell yourself that this is not what you need, you need communication within a ... (read in full...)
Im really confused, hes always teasing me sometimes I like him sometimes I dont!
Q. right theres this guy and he like teases me all the time and i don't think i like him but in a way i do, i know i feel something for him and i don't know what or why and its really confusing and he like teases me for no reason and its reali annoying ...
A. 22 July 2006: sounds like you want him but you're scared incase its not what you think. I say try it out just the once and see how it goes. Maybe he is just teasing you and when you give him the green light he'll back off. So just try anyway, you'll never know if ... (read in full...)
Hes always got an excuse not to have sex, what can I do ?
Q. Im really fed up that my boyfriend always says its the wrong time for sex! Doesnt matter what time of day, what day of the week its always something in the way... today hes hot.... its been hotter than this before and we have had sex, im getting ...
A. 22 July 2006: have you ever tried waiting for him coming home from work in the sexiest underwear you have? or how about cooking him a romantic meal with a number of aphrodiasiacs on the menu? A woman has many sexual desires and in order to feel sexy herself she ... (read in full...)
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