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writes: dear cupid my boyfriend has just broken up with me and i am heart broken i dont no what to do. i loved him sooo much and i still do he said he didnt see me as a gf any more but im confussed just 15mins earlyier he said he loved me sooo much i dont understand im confussed. just 5mins later after finishing with me he is going out with someone else i was shocked and sooo heart broken i dont no what to do he sends out mixed signails. he likes me fighting for him sometimes he does stuff to see if i fight for him i dont no weather he wants me to fight for him or not. please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Angelgirl +, writes (7 August 2006):
My boyfriend dumped me, it's about 1 year now and I'm still not over him...he lives on the same street as I ,and he has offered me a hand of friendship, but thats all it is, even though this friendship seems one sided, because if I didn't go to his house, then I wouldn't see him at allhe is involved with someone he chats to in america, but don't no whether anything will come of it...I still love him so much, and I don't no if I'm making things worse by calling at his house in the hopes that we will get back together...please can you help meAngelgirl
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2006): No, this is not worth fighting for and waiting for as askpaige says. Do you really want to go through a lot of stress and hurt trying to get him back? Especially if he's just playing games, with no consideration for your feelings.
Let this man go. There's others out there who will appreciate you and you'll enjoy. Six months (or less) from now, you'll look back on this one and wonder why you ever put up with his bad treatment for more than five minutes!
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reader, ask paige  +, writes (6 August 2006):
 hiya i think that if u let him go that u have given in and that if u really love him and i know what u are goin through ive been through this more then once and u no what i did i fought for him and it payed off even though it took time if u really do love him then it doesnt matter how long it takes to get him back because at the end of it it is all worth wating for good luck xx
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reader, Tine +, writes (6 August 2006):
 it sounds as though he loves the attention your giving him and loves all the reactions you make whenever he does dump you. Truth is it sounds as though he wants to keep you running after him that way you'll always be a safety net incase anything goes wrong wif these other girls. I say forget about him and move on, why watse time on someone who is hurting you time and time again. When you completely ignore him you're not giving him what he wants so stand back and watch his reaction this time.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (6 August 2006):
 If he is dumping you to see if you 'fight for him' then he is an insecure, game-playing fool with no consideration for your feelings...i.e. not worth the effort. Maybe he is dating someone else. Don't beg him to come back - it is just not dignified. Don't take him back straight away if he comes knocking your door down when he gets lonely - it sends a clear message that because you love him you are willing to let him do what he wants...not good, not the secret to a happy life.
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