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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have major situation! I was fine, I had everything friends, family etc. I was single and have been for over a year but I was happy just being me and having fun. However, 1. My ex text me saying that he is being sent to Afganistan for 6 mouths, I found upsetting but I was supportive as I knew this was what he wanted. The problem started when he said that he missed me, when I questioned he said that he still loved me. . .2. I was seeing a guy for about 5 weeks, it's nothing serious so I was really still single but I began to really like him but after a night out without him he began to question me and asking if I would ever cheat if we were together, I thought this was too serious and backed off. . .3. A guy from work, quiet, unconfident and shy told me that he had strong feelings for me and felt that he needed to tell me and I think he wants to take it further. . . As you can probably read I have 3 different problems all going on at the same time. I don't even know how to approach this situation, I like all of them but as you can see it is so complicated. I don't want 2 hurt any of them.Any advice?X
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reader, xfrancesxox  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 follow your heart . Dont put others people feelings before your own .
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (30 March 2009):
obey your heart and dont forget your brain,
in other words, hang up with whom you love or have unless he was unworthy "alcoholic,drug addict..ect"
and tell the other guys the truth that they are fine but that you are already inlove with somone else
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