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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Is there something wrong with me? When im talking to strangers i have the ability to get very flirty and talk suggestively and feel more confident with the physical things as well. As soon as i get a boyfriend i suddenly become really frigid! I dont know why. Anything suggestive just sounds embarrasing and i ignore it as if it is completly dirty and even when it comes to kissing i get very nervous and try to put it off. I don't know why im like this but i just cant overcome it. I am currently in a new relationship and a week or so ago before we started dating i was very flirtatious and now i feel like some sort of old biddy that disagrees completely with physical contact in public and changes the subject whenever anything sexual comes up in a conversation...i really hate it!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 It's easier to flirt with a stranger. Your boyfriend knows you well and would know if you were being somewhat false (or possibly a bit silly). Your being unable to project the same "femme fatale" role could just be your own way of showing yourself that you have bared your own soul just a little bit deeper to him. He sees you for who you actually are and perhaps that is why you feel this way. Perhaps its because you recognize that he loves you, no flirting required.
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reader, Somethingeasy  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 Thats just who you are. You are going to have to deal with it.
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