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| Latest articles: How do I get a girlfriend?
This question has 9 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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5 April 2012: Since my satirical article on how to get a boyfriend (With the real advice on the bottom) seemed to be well liked, I thought I'd write one for the opposite gender! Like the last one, please don't read the first half and then leave. The first...
The reason why so many relationships fail
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30 January 2012: I've come to realize recently that there are so many relationships that fail, so many guys and girls that break up with their boyfriend/girlfriend, and so many broken hearts. You may say it's because of the increased population, but I say it's b...
"how do I attract boys?"
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23 January 2012: (Note: The good advice is at the bottom. Read through for a laugh) I see this so often nowadays. mostly it's girls who want their first kiss, or a boyfriend, or whatever, and they ask us what they need to do to get a boyfriend. So I'm...
Shadow's View on LGBT and the like.
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8 December 2011: It's recently come to my attention that a lot of people seem to think that they can simply BECOME gay/bi/etc. And that being so is wrong. I'd just like to write down my words, and hope it helps people. First off, I'd like to address the firs...
Pointers for a meaningful, healthy relationship.
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27 October 2011: I dont claim to be a relationship guru, but I've got a few pointers that have worked for me. These are the five points of maintaining a meaningful, good relationship, and both males and females can get some use out of this. 1. Honesty- A relation...
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Has this happened to you before? (Wrong number texts)
Q. So today, I got a text message from a number I didn't recognize. Now, I dont memorize numbers anymore, so I asked who this was and explained all my contacts had been deleted upon switching cell phones. They responded hurt that I would forget the...
A. 27 December 2011: That's hilarious!... (read in full...)
Has this happened to you before? (Wrong number texts)
Q. So today, I got a text message from a number I didn't recognize. Now, I dont memorize numbers anymore, so I asked who this was and explained all my contacts had been deleted upon switching cell phones. They responded hurt that I would forget the...
A. 27 December 2011: Oh jeez, that must suck for steve! Unless he was doing something like cheating, then he'd kinda deserve it, haha. ... (read in full...)
Has this happened to you before? (Wrong number texts)
Q. So today, I got a text message from a number I didn't recognize. Now, I dont memorize numbers anymore, so I asked who this was and explained all my contacts had been deleted upon switching cell phones. They responded hurt that I would forget the...
A. 27 December 2011: Oh man, the "I'm coming up the stairs" story is so funny XD It's funny to hear stories like this! ... (read in full...)
Should I just tell him to eat more pineapple? How do I tell him his semen tastes horrible?
Q. It's mostly just way too salty. The taste is still in my mouth, and this is hours later! I dont want to hurt my boyfriend's pride, but I dont really want to have to feel like I'm drowning at the beach (How romantic) or something. I heard pine...
A. 27 December 2011: I'll have to ask him that! I never knew garlic had that effect! I thought too much just made your pits smell like garlic (I'm so ladylike *snort*) ... (read in full...)
My dog died and now I feel incredibly depressed and guilty
Q. Hey guys, This isn't about a romantic relationship but my heart is shattered in pieces all over the floor. I am grieving for my baby angel, a beautiful German Shepherd. She was 15 years old and she gave me unconditional love for half of m...
A. 27 December 2011: I'm so sorry to hear about your dog, it's always tough to have a pet die. Dogs are just like people in a way. It's ok to grieve, and it's ok to cry. This dog was your baby, and you will feel sad, but just be sure you realize that it wasn't your f... (read in full...)
Have any of you felt hopeless or clueless with relationships and eventually found love sort of thing?
Q. I've been single for a long time - haven't had a proper relationship in 3 years and throughout that time I dated two guys, nothing serious and this time has affected my confidence when it comes to relationships and fearing that I will be alone ...
A. 26 December 2011: Answer to your question: Yes, I have. I've been so hopeless, I went into a time of depression, but I did find love. I actually think I found my soulmate :) ... (read in full...)
Should I just tell him to eat more pineapple? How do I tell him his semen tastes horrible?
Q. It's mostly just way too salty. The taste is still in my mouth, and this is hours later! I dont want to hurt my boyfriend's pride, but I dont really want to have to feel like I'm drowning at the beach (How romantic) or something. I heard pine...
A. 23 December 2011: thanks for the advice, person12345, but the only reason I wouldn't do that is because it's kind of a hastle to have to clean towels just for that one little moment, and I would like to be able to enjoy doing stuff like that for him, I'd like to be ... (read in full...)
Should I just tell him to eat more pineapple? How do I tell him his semen tastes horrible?
Q. It's mostly just way too salty. The taste is still in my mouth, and this is hours later! I dont want to hurt my boyfriend's pride, but I dont really want to have to feel like I'm drowning at the beach (How romantic) or something. I heard pine...
A. 23 December 2011: Thanks everyone for your advice, although I'm definitely not going to let him cum on my boobs. Too messy. And I think spitting is just a waste of time, because it sits in my mouth longer... And unfortunately, he's so big, and with my TMJ, I can us... (read in full...)
What are your weight advice tips for the new year?
Q. Basically, for my new years revolution i want to lose some weight. I am overweight not majorly but yeah i would like to lose abit of weight. I am just over 11 stone (72 lbs) i am a size 12 to 14 ( european sizes) i...
A. 23 December 2011: Exercise daily (If you have that "insanity" workout video, or your mom does, DO NOT use it, you will throw up) and eat lots of healthy foods. If you start replacing your daily junk food with healthy food, then you will see a difference.
But j... (read in full...)
I thought I would be a sex goddess by now but I haven't even been kissed!
Q. Hello! I have 16 years old and im about to have 17 next month, January! When i was 13 i made a promise to myself and to my closest friend that at 16 i would loose my virginity. However i have 16 years old now and there is only one month left for...
A. 23 December 2011: Why would you want to lose your virginity at 16?
It's not like a coupon that's about to expire, it's something you can only have once, and you should only save for someone you REALLY love.
In fact, sex is something you should do after marriag... (read in full...)
Is my wife embarassed by me? She told me "not be obnoxious" when I meet her friends.
Q. We have been married for 13 years and have been together as a couple for over 18, over half of our lives, and have multiple children together. Tomorrow, we are supposed to meet with my wife's friends, maybe some of their husbands, and one friend has ...
A. 18 December 2011: She's not embarrassed, she just wants you guys to get along.
I've told my boyfriend to tone it down before, because he's an obnoxious person at times. He teases people in a "friendly" way, but sometimes he goes overboard.
He made an enemy out of... (read in full...)
What's so cool about taking a shower with someone?
Q. I hate to sound crude/blunt, but, well, I dont get it. Showering is for cleaning the gross stuff off your body...Why would someone want to be in there with you? Feel free to explain this to me, haha. Because I'm honestly clueless. ...
A. 18 December 2011: @ eek:
Probably... Because when I think of showers, I think of a small, cramped, gross (My little sister leaves hair in the shower T.T), area that I dont find sexy, or even some place I'd like to be for very long. (When the steam builds up, it g... (read in full...)
Ladies, how do you react when your man is attending a bachelor's party which you know its going to be wild?
Q. Three of my boyfriend's close friends are getting married, two of which he is the best man. His boys have been raving about this bachelors eve parties for the past couple of months. I don't know how to behave or act. SHould I act cool about it or sa...
A. 17 December 2011: Well, if my boyfriend went, I'd probably have only one rule:
Dont F*** any prostitutes!
Other than that, I'd be ok with him going, and hopefully he understands the look but dont touch rule. Or at least, what I dont know wont kill him. :)... (read in full...)
What's so cool about taking a shower with someone?
Q. I hate to sound crude/blunt, but, well, I dont get it. Showering is for cleaning the gross stuff off your body...Why would someone want to be in there with you? Feel free to explain this to me, haha. Because I'm honestly clueless. ...
A. 17 December 2011: And thank you, chigirl, whose answer just got posted after I wrote my last reply! I've got a boyfriend now, actually, this whole question kinda arose from a conversation we had. We were talking about all the things we'd like to do after we get mar... (read in full...)
What's so cool about taking a shower with someone?
Q. I hate to sound crude/blunt, but, well, I dont get it. Showering is for cleaning the gross stuff off your body...Why would someone want to be in there with you? Feel free to explain this to me, haha. Because I'm honestly clueless. ...
A. 17 December 2011: The good clean fun part made me chuckle xD Yeah, I just dont see how slipping around in a cramped space, wih a limited source of water (I cant even get everything under the water,so it must be uncomfortable with two!) would be so great... Than... (read in full...)
Will you get over your soulmate if they die? what about being with them when you pass if your with another?
Q. Do you ever get over loosing your soulmate?? I know some of you may look at this and think "your young you will find someone else and be happy" but I am so heart broken and just cant imagine a life with anyone else. I was in love with the man I call ...
A. 16 December 2011: I'm sorry for your loss, but I can speak from experience. I was in an LDR with a guy who my friend introduced me to, and he ended up getting drunk and getting in an accident. I was heartbroken, and it took me about a year to get over it, and now I ... (read in full...)
How to get out of a toxic relationship once and for all?
Q. How to get out of a toxic realtioship for good? one day is so nice and treat me well then the next day he's blame me for thing that have done. if he had a bad day at work then it my fault. i need to get out and cut all ends with him, how do i do ...
A. 16 December 2011: Break it off completely and be strong in your decision. If he calls, dont answer, and just do not bring him back into your life AT ALL!
If he says he's changed, dont listen to him. If he really has changed, after a period of time, then he'll work... (read in full...)
How does one prepare for being fingered?
Q. Preparation for being fingered? I know im supposed to shower and everything, but anything else to smell nice and stuff down there?...
A. 14 December 2011: If you're self-conscious about any hair down there, you can shave it off...
But other than that, you should get mentally prepared, if your guy is too inexperienced, he might be to rough, and you have got to let him know right away. o.o Some... (read in full...)
Do I masturbate too much?
Q. Okay so im a 16 year old girl and im kind of worried that im masturbating to much. I feel like im constantly horny, i havent had sex yet but i feel like i want to sso this is probably a bit of the reason as to why im horny so much. The only thing is ...
A. 13 December 2011: Unless you do it 24/7 and, like, refuse to move, then I'd say you're normal. ... (read in full...)
Too young for sex but cant stop my urges, help!
Q. I am a 13 year old boy and normally have the urge to have sex, but i dont want to as you can see my age, any advice??...
A. 13 December 2011: Explore yourself and see what feels good. Look online for tips, I know there's at least one website.
I do believe it's called malemasturbation.com (or something)
After a bit of practice, you'll find a way that suits you, and you'll get god at i... (read in full...)
Ladies, what is the best way to ask you out?
Q. Ladies, A general question! If a guy wants to ask you out. When should this be done so the guy has more of a chance not to catch you at a bad time? How should this be done so it doesn't creep you/embarase you etc. What do you look for when a guy ...
A. 10 December 2011: Dont ask in front of others, because she'll feel like if she says no, she'll be labeled as a bad person.
Some dude asked a girl to prom in front of the WHOLE SCHOOL last year at an assembly, she didn't want to go with him, but the mike was on a... (read in full...)
When dating, does age really matter??
Q. Hello everyone, I am a 26 yr old female who is considering dating a very nice mature 37 yr old male. He is divorced with two older children and I am a mature 26 yr old looking to settle down with a mature man. I have never dated anyone more than 2 ...
A. 8 December 2011: It's only too much if it's a legality issue :)... (read in full...)
Should I fret about my girlfriend violated my butt-hole?
Q. My girlfriend and I met a few months ago. We started having sex the third time we met (she initiated). First I thought to myself "great, no more boring lengthy dating". The first few times were like normal sex (I led and she followed) but since then ...
A. 8 December 2011: Dude, you cant TURN gay =/
Especially not from your girlfriend putting things up your ass.
If you're uncomfortable, just say straight up, it's uncomfortable. If it's just about manly pride, then you really shouldn't be that worried about stuff ... (read in full...)
Would you be willing to be friends with a transgender?
Q. I suppose this is more a question than seeking advise but as a person that is transgender I am curious to know how people really view someone like me. I'm female born in a male body. I've never known anyone els like me and friends from my youth put ...
A. 7 December 2011: I would be friends with anyone, lesbian, gay, straight, bi, trannsexual, transgender, transvestite, male, female, black, white, puerto rican, anything and everythning is fair game in terms of friendship, in my book.
It's not about the outside,... (read in full...)
I need a song to sing someone to sleep to!
Q. I'm sure that this might be the first time anyone on Dear Cupid has asked this question (with all the questions lurking in the archives, who knows?), but it means a lot to me, so thank you if you can answer. My romantic dream has always been to s...
A. 6 December 2011: One song that I love, that my mom used to sing tome was "I cross my heart" by george straight... I think, it's a slow country song :)... (read in full...)
My parents negative comments make me feel worthless. What can I do?
Q. I will try to be brief. I am a high school student who is hated by her parents. now I KNOW people say that all the time and people reply "that's impossible, you're just being a teenager" but I am telling you I'm not a normal teenager, nor is this a ...
A. 5 December 2011: I know how you feel.
Honestly, the best thing to do is ignore most of it, dont let it get to you, just think to yourself "They're wrong, they are just mean people" and dont let it get you down.
If it's something big, that you feel warrants a r... (read in full...)
Do dads and stepdads deserve to have access to their daughter's information?
Q. Long story short, I found out my mom decided to tell my stepdad all my secrets, including the fact that I want to go on birth control, and the fact that my last shampoo gave me dandruff, and I didn't know until the lady cutting my hair said I need a ...
A. 5 December 2011: Thanks for the advice, everyone.
I'm just so mad my mom would betray my trust like that!
And yeah, there are health risks for the pill, but there are also health risks for living, too! So I' m gonna live till I die, and the pill will help t... (read in full...)
Do dads and stepdads deserve to have access to their daughter's information?
Q. Long story short, I found out my mom decided to tell my stepdad all my secrets, including the fact that I want to go on birth control, and the fact that my last shampoo gave me dandruff, and I didn't know until the lady cutting my hair said I need a ...
A. 5 December 2011: Well, it's big to me because my stepdad is the kind of guy who teases people.
And with being on the pill, to me, it's a personal FEMININE choice, I dont ask my stepdad to go to the store and buy tampons, so why does he NEED to know?
I just ... (read in full...)
My Gf got pissed that I dropped some rice in her bowl of soup, that I was angry at her and that I didn't call her, and now we shouldn't see each other till the end of the year! How trivial is that!!
Q. My gf and I are mad at each other. We’ve dated for about 16 months. I’m 27 and she’s 26. We’re each other's first gf/bf. We were eating at a buffet along with her sister. My gf returned to the table with a small bowl of soup and placed it on the...
A. 4 December 2011: Honestly, she seems like a bitch. You shouldn't have to put up with her. She's the type that wont change, because "That's just how she is", so I say you should cut all ties and find a nicer girl.... (read in full...)
What are views on large labia minora?
Q. Im 16 and I know I have big, above average, labia minora. I know there are operations like labiaplasty, but I don't find item uncomfortable. It's a major body image issue for me. I just want to know, what are men/women opinions on large labia? ...
A. 3 December 2011: If you find someone who enjoys eating you out, they will LOVE it, trust me.... (read in full...)
Am I right?
Q. I feel like just because I don't act like a slut, I'll never get a guy to notice me in my school. I really like this one guy ,but everyonce in awhile I see him with some random girl hanging all over him. Now its a common sight in my school to see ...
A. 3 December 2011: BOYS wont notice you, but MEN will. I was never anything like the sluts at school, and I got a few really nice guys that ended up liking me. I personally didn't date any of them, because for the most part, I was already taken x3
Teenage boys wan... (read in full...)
Birth Control pills to control Period. Opinions please?
Q. I've recently decided to go on the pill, not for sexual reasons, but because the pain of periods is unbearable, and I'm always such a mean, cranky person when I'm on my period! I want to get something to either reduce or get rid of (4 periods a year ...
A. 2 December 2011: So_Very_Confused:
I never knew that! Even though it wasn't meant towards me, It's cool to learn something new!... (read in full...)
I want to keep my sexual orientation private, but feel guilty if I don't say anything!
Q. Hey. Basically i for the last year have been wondering about my sexuality. About 3 months into the year i started to have feelings for women and become rather attracted to them. This was complet...
A. 1 December 2011: If it's purely sexual, then there's no reason to say anything. Nobody wants to hear about other peoples sex lives, because it's more private.
But if you are not sexually attracted to men at all, you may want to tell that to any future boyfriend who ... (read in full...)
Birth Control pills to control Period. Opinions please?
Q. I've recently decided to go on the pill, not for sexual reasons, but because the pain of periods is unbearable, and I'm always such a mean, cranky person when I'm on my period! I want to get something to either reduce or get rid of (4 periods a year ...
A. 1 December 2011: Thanks for more opinions and stuff! But I should add that even if I did randomly want kids, I've always said I'd rather adopt or foster anyways. And its 100% true. If I have to have a child, I'd rather give a child a second chance at a good ... (read in full...)
I want a baby but my bf wants to first better financial situation. What should I do?
Q. Im 16 and lost twins 4 months and i was 5 months pregnant, it was the hardest thing ive ever had to go throu but my boyfriend was really supportive. after just getting sorted about forgetting loosing my twins ive started to really want another baby ...
A. 30 November 2011: Wait till you are better financially and a little older.
(Short, sweet, and to the point)... (read in full...)
Birth Control pills to control Period. Opinions please?
Q. I've recently decided to go on the pill, not for sexual reasons, but because the pain of periods is unbearable, and I'm always such a mean, cranky person when I'm on my period! I want to get something to either reduce or get rid of (4 periods a year ...
A. 30 November 2011: Thank you both for your opinions and stories :3
It was some commercial I had seen for some birth control, but none at all seems better xD I dont care about any natural cycle, because it's for reproduction, which I dont need.... (read in full...)
Should I stay committed or move on?
Q. First off, I'll go ahead and tell you that im only 14. Laugh if you want, but I take this seriously. I was with my boyfriend for 14 months.. Then we broke up, about two weeks ago told me he cant go a day without thinking about me. he knows im still ...
A. 30 November 2011: Honestly, I say move on. Your first kiss is almost never the guy you marry anyways. You are young, and if you stay single in hopes of getting him back, you'll miss out on other opportunities. ... (read in full...)
In love with my teacher! When can I pursue her?
Q. So, like countless people, I've fallen under my teacher's spell. I am 17 years old and am a junior in high school. I'm not sure when I can start pursuing her. I mean, must I be graduated before I can start any kind of relationship with her? I almost ...
A. 29 November 2011: Honestly it's best to forget about her. TeacherxStudent relationships are always bad, even if the student graduates.... (read in full...)
This girl won't leave my b/f alone. Should I break up with him?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now we have 4 month old daughter together. the problem is. this girl has been getting in the middle of our relationship the whole time we have been together. she wont leave him alone she has ...
A. 29 November 2011: Dude, she said she'd do anything to be with him, and she wishes you were dead! Get a restraining order on her, and dont break up with your boyfriend, this girl is the crazy one!... (read in full...)
Should I go through with an abortion at 21 weeks?
Q. im 21 weeks pregnent with no family around me they all live in australia and my partner has decided to leave me and now wants nothing to do with my child and me i dont think ii can do this whole thing on my own so have recently thought about ge...
A. 29 November 2011: Do what YOU feel is right. I'm pro choice for a reason. It's NEVER right for someone to make such a huge decision for you, and so the only thing you can do is think about it, and decide.
Ask yourself:
Are you ready for a baby?
Do you th... (read in full...)
He doesn't like my breasts, other girls are prettier than me, he treat his ex better than me....all these things are making me so insecure!
Q. Hello, I feel like this question is stupid :( but please help me out. So me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1yr and 3 months or so. At the start of our relstionship, it wasnt the best, i felt so upset with him at times with the things...
A. 28 November 2011: I just gotta say one thing, and that's this:
Dont feel ashamed of your breasts. Every girl is different, meaning every girl is unique. Uniqueness=Beauty, in my mind. I used to be so depressed about my breasts, "Almost an A" was/is my cup size, an... (read in full...)
Were these bad questions to ask?
Q. I started dating this woman. She has asked me these questions many many times. "Why do you love me?", "Why me?" Why do you find me attractive?" I easily answer them. Early in the am, I texted her cell phone with some questions of my own. I ...
A. 28 November 2011: Honestly? Hers sounded more like she didn't think she was worthy of love, and yours sounded like an interrogation. "Past love gone bad" "Or did you?" "Am I the latest distraction?" It seems more like you're accusing her of not loving you, making her ... (read in full...)
How do you feel about nick-names in a loving relationship? Do you have a favorite nick-name?
Q. Does your loved one give you nick names? Or a nick name? And which one do you love the most? I think nick-names can be a barometer of a relationship. If the nick-names stopped happening then I would know there was a problem, even if nothing had been ...
A. 28 November 2011: I personally never call my boyfriend by his full name. I met him as the abbreviated version of his name, and so I call him that. Other than that, we tend to use "Hun" (he says it and I love the way it sounds), and "Love" (I say it. I've watched ... (read in full...)
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