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writes:Ladies, A general question! If a guy wants to ask you out. When should this be done so the guy has more of a chance not to catch you at a bad time?How should this be done so it doesn't creep you/embarase you etc.What do you look for when a guy asks you out? What makes you say or think "Yes i'd go out with him".Anybody can answer this but i'm looking mostly for female opinion. Guy's you can tell me about you experiences and share some knowledge if you want.Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Shadow Rose  +, writes (10 December 2011):
 Dont ask in front of others, because she'll feel like if she says no, she'll be labeled as a bad person.
Some dude asked a girl to prom in front of the WHOLE SCHOOL last year at an assembly, she didn't want to go with him, but the mike was on and so was the spotlight.
And dont do it when she's rushed. If she's hurrying, or stressed, she's more likely to say "not now" or no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2011): It should definitely done when you are alone together. I hate being asked out in front of other people.Keep it casual, something like, "I like you a lot, and would like to know if you would like to go out sometime."As for what we look for, I look for someone who is calm and collected, that I am comfortable around him and because I like him for who he is. Just be yourself. Good Luck.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 December 2011):
 When should it be done? When you are both alone. Nobody wants to be asked out in front of other people because it can make things awkward and they might not know what to say and get embarrassed. It is always best to do it when you both are alone, and when you are both comfortable with each other, so it is not awkward.
How should this be done? Just keep it simple. It is always the best way instead of making a huge deal out of it, just say to the girl, hey look I really like you and want to know would you like to go out with me some time. Just keep it simple and casual if you make a huge fuss over it, it makes it more than it is.
What do we look for? Well we want someone who is cool and collective. Who we can be comfortable with and someone who can make us laugh and have a good time with. Really this just depends if the two people work together or not. So just be yourself and if that is not enough then it was never meant to be. A girl will say yes only if she likes you and wants to get to know you more, if she says no well then that means she was just not interested and it is not your fault it was just not meant to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2011): Just ask me nicely...with a smile. Women like guys who are nice and happy
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