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| Latest articles: How do I get a girlfriend?
This question has 9 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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5 April 2012: Since my satirical article on how to get a boyfriend (With the real advice on the bottom) seemed to be well liked, I thought I'd write one for the opposite gender! Like the last one, please don't read the first half and then leave. The first...
The reason why so many relationships fail
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30 January 2012: I've come to realize recently that there are so many relationships that fail, so many guys and girls that break up with their boyfriend/girlfriend, and so many broken hearts. You may say it's because of the increased population, but I say it's b...
"how do I attract boys?"
This question has 5 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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23 January 2012: (Note: The good advice is at the bottom. Read through for a laugh) I see this so often nowadays. mostly it's girls who want their first kiss, or a boyfriend, or whatever, and they ask us what they need to do to get a boyfriend. So I'm...
Shadow's View on LGBT and the like.
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8 December 2011: It's recently come to my attention that a lot of people seem to think that they can simply BECOME gay/bi/etc. And that being so is wrong. I'd just like to write down my words, and hope it helps people. First off, I'd like to address the firs...
Pointers for a meaningful, healthy relationship.
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27 October 2011: I dont claim to be a relationship guru, but I've got a few pointers that have worked for me. These are the five points of maintaining a meaningful, good relationship, and both males and females can get some use out of this. 1. Honesty- A relation...
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How to rebuff one and encourage the other
Q. Hi everyone! I've been vexed lately. There's a guy who has been asking me out but I'm not interested in him at all! Every time he asks me out, I'd tell him I was busy/engaged and even feigned a fever once. I know it's wrong to lie to someone but I ...
A. 31 January 2012: I agree with Abella, it's not "oh, maybe later", you need to tell him firmly "no, I'm not interested". And if you dont plan on having any sort of purely friendly conbeagtact with him, outright tell him "I've been lying to you. I was faking ... (read in full...)
Too bad to stay. Too good to leave.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 year. I moved in with him 2 weeks into our relationship. We have known each other since we were 13 through mutual friends but didn’t start our relationship until we were in our 20’s. The start of our rel...
A. 31 January 2012: You need to tell him that you dont like these things that you mentioned. Tell him that if he doesn't start pulling his weight, you wont be able to stand living with him.
Yeah, it's an ultimatum, but at least you're giving him a chance to change, ... (read in full...)
Tips needed for improving my hand job technique
Q. my boyfriend says im the best hes had in bed, and unbelievable at oral.. but when it comes to hand jobs they need some work. i want to be good at giving hand jobs, i never really do it cause i feel awkward. i dont know what to do because i find its ...
A. 31 January 2012: My only advice is make sure your hand is not too loose, and not too tight. Too tight and it's painful, too loose, and it's not good. I had to learn this the hard way, but luckily, I only squeezed my man too loosely, not the other way around. ... (read in full...)
The reason why so many relationships fail
Q. I've come to realize recently that there are so many relationships that fail, so many guys and girls that break up with their boyfriend/girlfriend, and so many broken hearts. You may say it's because of the increased population, but I say it's b...
A. 31 January 2012: Note: This is kinda long :P ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend keeps teasing me about being loud in bed, and it's making me self-conscious!
Q. Hello everyone! I'd like to know if you think I'm being too sensitive about this issue or not. Every so often, my boyfriend starts teasing me about the fact I can be rather, erm, vocal in bed. I know he doesn't do it to be horrible, but he does like ...
A. 27 January 2012: Dont let it bother you!
I wish I was louder, heck, the loudest I ever was was when we were trying to be SUPER quiet, because his friends were in the next room over, and I was breathing heavily.
I wish I could be loud like you! Or at least make... (read in full...)
What's wrong with sexting someone else while in a committed relationship?
Q. why is sexting (sending racy/sexually suggestive texts and FB messages) wrong? I can't see a problem with it and have been sexting an ex-colleague who i have no intention of seeing in reality. My gf of 6 months (who i love and am serious about) ...
A. 25 January 2012: How would you feel if you checcked your girlfriends messages and you saw "I want to feel your ______ inside my _____" or you saw a picture of her private areas, sent to some guy.
You'd be pretty effin pissed, right? Do you want other guys looking ... (read in full...)
Matters down under!
Q. I was wondering how most women have their pubic hair, i guess? Just because idk if a guy will be freaked out if I have hair down there, or if it's normal too. If you don't have hair down there, how do you remove it? What do guys prefer? Is having ...
A. 23 January 2012: The best way is just to keep it trimmed, and neat.
A nice medium between a jungle and a barren desert (that's the best I could come up with)
Especially if you're into oral. ... (read in full...)
Why are many men obsessed with female virginity?
Q. I mean I read alot of stories on here like this. Why does it matter so much? Are any of these guys virgins themselves? I doubt it. why would it be a surprise if a grown woman isn't a virgin? These days most people don't marry before they're 25....
A. 21 January 2012: My boyfriend says he loves that he's going to be my first, because it means he doesn't have to think about other guys touching me, and it means that we both get to experience this together.
(Also, I think it makes him feel good to know that he'... (read in full...)
He's overprotective, and we both did stupid things at my party. Should we break up?
Q. I'm 13 and in year 9 my boyfriends 15 and is in year 10 hes called joel, anyway weve been together for about 3 1/2 months it seems like for ever because ever since we started doing stuff it just causes arguments. it feels like im on lock down i ...
A. 20 January 2012: I think you both should, at the very least, take some time off from dating, and evaulate yourselves.
You were in the wrong for wearing such provocative things (6 inch heels are not nessicary for a 13th birthday party) as well as grinding against ... (read in full...)
Can this kind of man turn on any kind of woman?
Q. Hello women out there. Would it be true that any man within the average range of attractiveness, taking into account looks, clothing, job, education, etc, who is also totally comfortable in his own skin, has his own goals that he's heading toward ...
A. 20 January 2012: It all depends on what the woman in particular likes.
For example, the body type/clothing/sense of humor that I personally like is way different from another woman's idea of a turn-on.
Here's an example:
(completely made up)
I'm a single wo... (read in full...)
I dyed my hair bright red, what do you think people think, when the see my hair?
Q. Hi. I am a teenager and like most teenagers I want to express myself. I dyed my hair bright red, and when I say bright red, I mean BRIGHT red; I love it! I am usually a shy and quiet person, and listen to my mother and teachers, im not a goody tw...
A. 18 January 2012: Honestly, I'd probably be your best friend XD I've always wanted to dye my hair red or crimson, but it's been dyed black, and I dont want to grow out my natural color just to dye it red, lol.
Anyone who thinks badly of you is stupid :P ... (read in full...)
I need a creative and romantic way to ask my boyfriend to prom!
Q. Basic scoop: I'm in a relationship with a guy who lives a few cities away. It takes about forty-five or more, depending on traffic, to go to his house, or vice versa. So obviously we don't go to the same school together. It's senior year, an...
A. 17 January 2012: That's very true! I actually bought him a tiny bear and a fake mustache (Our love is strange, lol), and I also got a bunch of heart-shaped confetti to romantically annoy him with. (I guess you could say we like to tease and annoy eachother ... (read in full...)
I need a creative and romantic way to ask my boyfriend to prom!
Q. Basic scoop: I'm in a relationship with a guy who lives a few cities away. It takes about forty-five or more, depending on traffic, to go to his house, or vice versa. So obviously we don't go to the same school together. It's senior year, an...
A. 16 January 2012: Update: Well, I accidentally told him straight up I want to go to prom with him... He said yes, but it wasn't very cute or romantic... ... (read in full...)
I need a creative and romantic way to ask my boyfriend to prom!
Q. Basic scoop: I'm in a relationship with a guy who lives a few cities away. It takes about forty-five or more, depending on traffic, to go to his house, or vice versa. So obviously we don't go to the same school together. It's senior year, an...
A. 13 January 2012: That's so cute! I might do that! :D... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got angry because I am too small for sex! What should I do?
Q. my vagina is too small for me to have sex. my boyfriend got angry!!! what can i do? should I make it bigger? but how?...
A. 10 January 2012: Get mad at HIM for having a penis that's too big to fit into your vagina. That's what I say. Then he'll see how stupid it is to get MAD about something like that.
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I feel such an outcast in school
Q. This is just a rant. I feel so lonely in school. I'm a straight-A student who takes all honors/AP courses. I'm not a "nerd", I just enjoy learning. Anyway, I used to be popular in this school. I switched here four years ago, and for the first tw...
A. 10 January 2012: Unfortunately, high school is tough. Lucky for me, I'm in my second semester of senior year. Eventually you'll get out, and you'll get a new start. I'm a lot like you, I'm not like the "popular" people, which in my town is the stereotypical bl... (read in full...)
Not really a relationship question, but is anyone else downright disgusted by feet?
Q. Really weird question, but I was wondering if there was anyone else out there like me. I guess you could say it is sort of a relationship question if you tilt your head sideways and squint... But I have a horrible aversion to feet. I don't wa...
A. 9 January 2012: Eew! Dont even talk about that!
My mom got an infection on her toenail and after 3 operations to remove the nail, it's still there.
So I dont even want to THINK about anything x.x
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Not really a relationship question, but is anyone else downright disgusted by feet?
Q. Really weird question, but I was wondering if there was anyone else out there like me. I guess you could say it is sort of a relationship question if you tilt your head sideways and squint... But I have a horrible aversion to feet. I don't wa...
A. 9 January 2012: Like Honeypie, I dont mind showing off my feet. I perfer flip flops or easy to slip on shoes, although, as a fashion statement, boots are my favorite type of shoe, haha. I guess I just feel like feet are a dirty body part that will never be truly ... (read in full...)
What do boys look for?
Q. What exactly do boys look for in girls?...
A. 9 January 2012: Every boy is different.
Obviously the real question is who are you as a person? Do you know your identity yet? Do you know what your likes and dislikes are?
Dont try to become something that guys want, because that will not work. If you're ... (read in full...)
Not really a relationship question, but is anyone else downright disgusted by feet?
Q. Really weird question, but I was wondering if there was anyone else out there like me. I guess you could say it is sort of a relationship question if you tilt your head sideways and squint... But I have a horrible aversion to feet. I don't wa...
A. 8 January 2012: I agree with YouWish, hand massages are the BEST. I think I might even go so far as to say I have a hand fetish XD I love having my hands touched or kissed, it turns me on, and I enjoy it when my partners hands are well kept.
yeah, I wont hac... (read in full...)
He treated me like his doormat! Should I meet up with him again?
Q. I am in a huge emotional turmoil these days. I was in a serious relationship with this guy for almost a year and a half but soon things turned sour for the worse. We did LOVE each other A LOT. There was nothing left but fights and tears and most of ...
A. 8 January 2012: Do not meet up with him. You said it yourself. He treated you like a doormat. You are NOT a dormat, and you deserve better than someone who thinks of you so lowly!... (read in full...)
Not really a relationship question, but is anyone else downright disgusted by feet?
Q. Really weird question, but I was wondering if there was anyone else out there like me. I guess you could say it is sort of a relationship question if you tilt your head sideways and squint... But I have a horrible aversion to feet. I don't wa...
A. 8 January 2012: To anon: I think that is kinda selfish of her. I know how you feel, and if my boyfriend did something like that, I'd be pretty pissed! To CindyCares and In.Love.With.Him: I dont have an irrational fear of feet though, just a dislike of touchi... (read in full...)
Not really a relationship question, but is anyone else downright disgusted by feet?
Q. Really weird question, but I was wondering if there was anyone else out there like me. I guess you could say it is sort of a relationship question if you tilt your head sideways and squint... But I have a horrible aversion to feet. I don't wa...
A. 8 January 2012: Ah, I understand you need feet and all, I'm glad I have feet, but I dont like other peoples feet, and I dont like things touching my feet. My great aunt is like this too, only person I've really ever known that's like that. Her feet are ticklish ... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant
Q. Hello, im 14 and i think im pregnant, what do i do?...
A. 8 January 2012: Oh wow.... x.x You need to talk to a doctor, and tell your parents right away. The sooner they know, the less mad they'll probably be. And if it turns out you aren't pregnant, then maybe you should lay off the sexual stuff till you are older. W... (read in full...)
To guys: why do you take so long to reply to a text a girl sends to you?
Q. me and this guy have been talking, and he mostly starts the conversation and it seems that he is interested in me and I am interested in him too. But why does it take him so long to reply when I text him? Guys why do you take long to reply back? ...
A. 8 January 2012: He's probably a slow texter XD ... (read in full...)
Is a 3 year age gap too much?
Q. Ive recently met a girl who i like. We havent done anything yet, but we get on really well and have been seeing each other a bit. Thing is though, there is a bit of an age gap. Im 20 and she is 17. Is that ok? Im from the UK and the legal age of ...
A. 8 January 2012: I'd say it's perfectly fine. With respects to legality, of course, which isn't a problem in your case I guess. ... (read in full...)
Why do most girls prefer to let hell freeze before speaking up and telling a guy they like them? Rejection isn't a good enough excuse.
Q. Hello! My name is Scott and I have a question about women. "Why is it that most women would let hell freeze before they tell a guy they like them?" I'm pretty sick and tired of asking girls this and the only thing they can think of is not w...
A. 8 January 2012: Because girls have different mentalities than men.
In society, it's usually the man that does the asking, because back in the day, it was also the man that did the courting. He would bring her flowers, and ask her father for her hand. A knight w... (read in full...)
Am I being petty?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. He had a messy break up with his ex when him and I started dating. This ex of his caused both of us a lot of trouble. I felt especially affected by this because she would go around saying ...
A. 5 January 2012: If you REALLY want an apology, I think instead of overreacting and getting mad that you didn't get an apology too, which is a little petty, you should go to her and say something like "I'm sorry it seemed like I stole (boyfriend's name) from you ... (read in full...)
Whenever we get even close to having sex I stop my boyfriend. Am I afraid of sex?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years and I know we're both ready to move on to the next part of our relationship, meaning sex but we're both virgins and the whenever we get even remotely close to doing something I stop him. I ...
A. 3 January 2012: Are you?
Do you get a feeling similar to seeing a car driving straight towards you, or something else scary? Does it make your heart pump, and beads of sweat form on your hands?
I dont think it's that you're scared, but you're probably just no... (read in full...)
B/f in a coma because he tried to save my life
Q. I was on a double date with my best friend, so all together there was me and my boyfriend, and my best friend and his girlfriend. We were walking back home when suddenly a car came speeding past us (turns out it was a drunk driver). I proba...
A. 2 January 2012: Please dont feel guilty. He did an act of love. I'm sure if he could talk, he'd say he didn't want you to feel guilty. It's ok to be sad that this happened, angry at the drunk driver, and even flattered that he cared that much about you, that he ... (read in full...)
Whats the best way to get a girfriend
Q. hi everyone im a 27 year old male. all my friends are now either getting married or with long term partners. and ive been single all my life. i have a good job with very good money, play rugby to a very high standard and am a very nice and popular ...
A. 1 January 2012: Go and do things that you enjoy, or join a group of people that like something you like, and that's how you meet girls that are into the same stuff as you. Then after you become friends, then if you're nice, and the type of guy she likes, and you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend loves her friends more then me I don't wanna be that boyfriend
Q. I know some people wont take this seryously but im 15 years old and me n my gf are going strong with 1 month and 2 weeks we everyone says its just a highschool relationship and it wont last but were the type of couple who are gonna be highschool ...
A. 1 January 2012: Just tell her as nicely as possible that it made you kind of sad that you didn't get to spend time with her, like you planned. Ask if you can make other plans, and say that you really want to have time with her. Just dont be harsh about it.
If sh... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of sex and relationships! How do I get over this?
Q. I'll get right to the point: I'm a 24 y/o woman afraid of getting into a relationship and I'm afraid of sex. I want to deal with this problem before I hit my thirties. The question is, how to do it? Some backstory: - I've always been tremend...
A. 1 January 2012: If I'm not mistaken, I think the trouble downstairs is just a really thick hymen? Dont quote me on it, but that's what it sounds like to me...
As for being fearless with other things, good for you, I wish I was more like that! I can usually ... (read in full...)
Two boys are in love with me and I don't know what to do
Q. Hello. I'm quite baffled at the moment. There are two guys - both my best friends - I quite like and they are both in love with me. (Never before even one guy was interested in me and now two at the same time!) I don't know what to do or feel or ...
A. 1 January 2012: Tell them that you cant date either one of them because they are such good friends to you, that you dont want to ruin the friendship, plus they are too much alike, and even if you weren't going to ruin the friendship, you'd never be able to chose ... (read in full...)
I stood by this girl when no one else would but as soon as things were fine she dropped me!
Q. Dear Cupid, Recently, a new girl moved to my school and has felt very homesick and has been kind of bullied by some of the people in our class. I was the only person who stuck with her through all of this, the only person who made her feel better ...
A. 1 January 2012: She's obviously not a very good friend... Just forget about her. She's moved on, so should you. There are probably plenty of other nicer people at your school! ... (read in full...)
Ways to get over the crush who rejected you?
Q. Best and most effective ways to get over the crush who rejected you? It feels like I've tried everything but it still doesn't seem to help. I did what most people would say; "Cut ALL contact". And now a friend of mine told me that this girl h...
A. 1 January 2012: Just start looking for someone new.
That's what I did when my crush asked out my best friend. After a while, you'll start to notice other people, and forget her. ... (read in full...)
What exactly goes through a women's head when they allow me to keep treating them like trash?
Q. I am in awe at the way women let me treat them and I just don't get it. Ill see a girl I like and treat her like complete garabage but she still chases after me so I continue to do it because it works every time but I've had enough, I just don'...
A. 30 December 2011: Some girls are just stupid like that I guess. But there are girls that dont like that. I am one of those girls. I'd honestly kick you in the balls if you said any of that garbage to me. Usually younger women tend to like to do stupid things... (read in full...)
Do guys hate skinny girls?
Q. i am 22 years old and am very skinny i really wanna have a big ass and am losing my confidence and stoped getting out with guys tried eating alot but have no apetite please tell me u'r opinion do guys really hate skiny girls. Thanx in advance...
A. 27 December 2011: Society as a whole: Guys love skinny girls
But in general, every guy is different. Dont try to give yourself a big ass, because it wont look attractive.
I may not be a guy, but I will tell you now, Nikki Minaj and Kim Kardashian look ... (read in full...)
Has this happened to you before? (Wrong number texts)
Q. So today, I got a text message from a number I didn't recognize. Now, I dont memorize numbers anymore, so I asked who this was and explained all my contacts had been deleted upon switching cell phones. They responded hurt that I would forget the...
A. 27 December 2011: That's hilarious!... (read in full...)
Has this happened to you before? (Wrong number texts)
Q. So today, I got a text message from a number I didn't recognize. Now, I dont memorize numbers anymore, so I asked who this was and explained all my contacts had been deleted upon switching cell phones. They responded hurt that I would forget the...
A. 27 December 2011: Oh jeez, that must suck for steve! Unless he was doing something like cheating, then he'd kinda deserve it, haha. ... (read in full...)
Has this happened to you before? (Wrong number texts)
Q. So today, I got a text message from a number I didn't recognize. Now, I dont memorize numbers anymore, so I asked who this was and explained all my contacts had been deleted upon switching cell phones. They responded hurt that I would forget the...
A. 27 December 2011: Oh man, the "I'm coming up the stairs" story is so funny XD It's funny to hear stories like this! ... (read in full...)
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