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Online crush met someone real..
Q. Okay well 9 months ago i met this guy online. we kinda became cyber gf and bf. Well today out of the blue he told me he met someone....this is the second time this has happend to me( first he was a friend in real life not online) ... its crushing ...
A. 3 April 2011: Youre welcome and have fun !... (read in full...)
LDR or the guy who's nearer?
Q. So I have been going out with this guy for a month now. He lives on the other side of the country, and he is 2 years younger than me Lets call him D (also i have never meet him in person).Then theres M is a year older than me but same grade and he ...
A. 1 April 2011: Im so glad you look in good shape! It was hard but trust me MUCH MUCH MUCH BETTER!! Good luck, I hope you get M to be with u in the near future!... (read in full...)
He always says "don't trip" and I don't understand...
Q. I just started dating this guy and we have been hitting it off well. He seems to know when to be serious and knows when enough is enough. But at times he seems to act weird. Whenever I disagree with something or let him know that I won't be arou...
A. 1 April 2011: He sounds a bit controlling...I dont know if you will be able to resist his habit in the long run...What he says sounds like threats to me...... (read in full...)
Online dating has messed up my life, how do I stop and start afresh so I can get a real life girlfriend?
Q. Okay, so when I was 13 (now I am 18) my dad used to play chess with other people online and he introduced me to the site (pogo.com) because I told him I wanted to play too. So I started playing billiards, which I found to be very entertaining. My ...
A. 31 March 2011: Man, thanks for your advice! Today's the 31st and I posted this on march 18th - 13 days ago. Since then I have not been using any sites like that, and I don't miss it. I started university last monday and the second day I had already flirted ... (read in full...)
Online crush met someone real..
Q. Okay well 9 months ago i met this guy online. we kinda became cyber gf and bf. Well today out of the blue he told me he met someone....this is the second time this has happend to me( first he was a friend in real life not online) ... its crushing ...
A. 31 March 2011: The same has happened to me before.
You said you never liked someone as much as him...
But you don't really know this person. You don't get to know how someone is over MSN or Facebook. Not because he is bad, but because people act different ta... (read in full...)
My long distance boyfriend broke up with me for family reasons. What should I do?
Q. I've dated for boyfriend for 9 months now, 6 of which he has lived on the other side of the country. It's a two day drive to get there, so we normally just fly back and forth. I'm still here in the city in which I've been born and raised. I'm ...
A. 30 March 2011: You're an adult. why would you ask YOUR EX BF for permission to leave? You can leave if you want to. Maybe he does not want you to visit him because there's something he's hiding? Talk to him and see why he does not want you to move. Tell him y... (read in full...)
Is just talking about sex with another guy cheating?
Q. Hey guys, Me and my bf have been together for nearly 4 months now and I love him very much :) he's my first bf and i'm his first gf so it was kinda awkward in the beginning but now, it's great :) just to let you know, we didn't french kiss yet,...
A. 29 March 2011: That is cheating. At your age it is hard to have a serious relationship. You need to mature a lot more. And keep away from sex alright? For a long long time to come ... (read in full...)
His photography is creeping me out
Q. My boyfriend recently took some pictures of my teenage daughter and her friends in a running race. However for the last couple of weeks I have noticed that most evenings he continually goes back to these pictures for hours retouching them in photo...
A. 29 March 2011: This sounds weird. That sounds normal for a teenage guy to "practise his photoshop" abilities with pics of girls, but think for a second: he is not their biological parent, am I right. I don't know if you have any sons, but you would not feel ... (read in full...)
What does 'lets take a break' mean?
Q. MEN what is a man really trying to tell us women when he says lets take a break?...
A. 29 March 2011: For some it's a period of no contact. For others, it's like a break up. Make sure you ask him what he meant before you're heartbroken. However I would not agree to ANY break. Basically he has control of you and will decide whether to go back to yo... (read in full...)
He was using escorts during the first part of our relationship
Q. I've been dating a guy for just over a year. I know I should'nt have done it but he left his laptop on and I had a look. It transpires that he was sleeping with escorts in the first few months of our relationships and even up to six months into it ...
A. 26 March 2011: He just wanted sex with more than just you, You are not special to him. I am sorry, but move on, break up, look forwared, there are better loving guys... (read in full...)
My fiance's sister wants to date my ex?
Q. So a couple of years ago, I dated this guy. He was a HUGE part of my life, and we dated for a long time. However, we grew up, and went our seprate ways. But we still talk. I moved 6 hours away, and...every couple of months, i'll get a text or a ...
A. 26 March 2011: It might be weird, but he does not sound like a bad guy.
I disapprove of it because of the age gap but you are not her mother, and you are not supposed to interfere nor stop her. I know you feel weird about it but please do not let it ruin any... (read in full...)
Can an online boyfriend actually be considered as a boyfriend?
Q. He's a very sweet guy. He has sent me videos, pictures, poems, and songs expressing his love and has posted/let known how he feels for me to his friends. He has also said all these beautiful things that make me fall in love with him all over...
A. 26 March 2011: You cannot love someone you have never met in person. I've been in your situation and you just can't live well with someone you have never met. He's just a pen pal and nothing more. Don't take him seriously, it is VERY easy to be nice talking from a ... (read in full...)
Why are there such huge differences in attitudes towards sex between the USA and Argentina?
Q. Well, I am from Argentina, South America. Our culture has its roots in Spain and Italy pretty much. We salute with a kiss on the cheek (properly, not a silly "air kiss"), we are very affectionate towards others and very emotional. Our parties get ...
A. 24 March 2011: By the way, I know not everyone was like that. When I was in Charlotte there were some girls who had not even kissed or so we were told, who were more quiet and a bit shy but still very nice people :) ... (read in full...)
Why are there such huge differences in attitudes towards sex between the USA and Argentina?
Q. Well, I am from Argentina, South America. Our culture has its roots in Spain and Italy pretty much. We salute with a kiss on the cheek (properly, not a silly "air kiss"), we are very affectionate towards others and very emotional. Our parties get ...
A. 24 March 2011: You are probably right. I have had good education in Argentina, but the school that I visited in NC was pretty luxurious (with several modern computers, projectors in every classroom, and very successful sports teams and a very good deal of people ... (read in full...)
13 year old son sexting. What should his punishment be?
Q. Just caught my 13 year old sexting with a girl in his class. They sent each other pictures of each other and everything. Not sure what his punishment should be. His phone was taken indefinitely. Not sure what else I should do. What do u all think?...
A. 24 March 2011: you did right. do not tell her parents... (read in full...)
Does he really love me? And seeing as we both say we love each other, does this mean we are in a relationship?
Q. Ok so here's the thing. I have recently been talking to a guy online and he seems really nice, we used to talk every day and about a month ago he told me he loves me and he then went quiet on me to the point where i would be lucky to speak to him ...
A. 24 March 2011: That changes the story. I think you should look more into guys your age and only look at him again when he comes back (if you are still single by then). Don't take this too seriously, online dating is nothing compared to real physical contact. And ... (read in full...)
Does he really love me? And seeing as we both say we love each other, does this mean we are in a relationship?
Q. Ok so here's the thing. I have recently been talking to a guy online and he seems really nice, we used to talk every day and about a month ago he told me he loves me and he then went quiet on me to the point where i would be lucky to speak to him ...
A. 23 March 2011: I agree with caringguy. It is very easy to be nice online. A few words with shallow intentions will do enough to convince a nice girl. He seems to be good at that.... (read in full...)
What is love and can it survive distance?
Q. I just want to know the meaning of love. What is love in general? What is being in love? What is true love? Ive been in a LD relationship for over 2 years and people keep telling me it wont/cant work. Well we have been through a lot together...
A. 23 March 2011: I am against LDR's when people have never met before BUT... "when I'm with him psychically he makes me feel weightless and takes away all the problems that had previously been in my head. He makes me feel loved and wanted, I adore seeing him truly... (read in full...)
Am I just a woman in a box to him now?
Q. I have been committed to boy friend online for almost 8 months now. I know, it sounds unusual since working relationships usually happens in person. I don't have a choice here really. He's 8000 miles away from me and I just can't go there for visa ...
A. 23 March 2011: Online relationships are not good. I have been in them, in a serious way, and they don't work. You cannot love someone you have never met in person. Talking on the phone, or camming, or texting, that is not a replacement for physical contact. Don't ... (read in full...)
Shall I really try to forget her and move on? She's confusing me. Is there hope?
Q. Alright, I'm in a really weird situation here. It's a long story so I guess I'll just start from the top. I've been friends with this girl S for a few months now. We've mostly talked about music and other random stuff. Then she got a boyfriend,...
A. 23 March 2011: Maybe she did want something with you but it would have been a rebound, and in the end she went back with her ex. If it does not bother you to see him with her and you believe you can handle it, remain friends. But don't let her stop you from dating ... (read in full...)
Are there second chances at love?
Q. First off, I want to apologize for the length of this question. I was in a 2 year relationship that ended in December because he decided he wanted to be with someone else. I was in a depression for close to 2 months and anytime I tried moving on,...
A. 23 March 2011: First of all, your feelings are right in my opinion. Things have changed and so he "changed his mind" about marrying you and loving you so much. He no longer feels the way he used to about you, and you should not feel bad about not feeling the same ... (read in full...)
He doesn't know how to break off with his 19 year old g/f to be with me!
Q. First,let me start with my mistake. I started an affair before I decided for sure to leave my husband of 9 years. Husband is a good man, but we married at 19 and my feelings have changed. I love him, but no longer in love or desire him. We have a 6 ...
A. 21 March 2011: I agree with dirtball... (read in full...)
Does needing space mean learning to live without me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have written on here before, and its always over the same thing. My turbulant relationship with my boyfriend. When we are together we have the most amazing time, we are so so happy. He is always telling me how much he loves me...
A. 20 March 2011: I know he wants to please both you and his mother, but he has to make a decision if you and her cannot sort things out. He has to stop being so "quiet" about talking to his mom and confront her.
If needs some space like you are saying, he could be... (read in full...)
Got addicted to on-line interaction and want to stop
Q. I am going to ask again a question I posted yesterday but I am going to summarize things because I have realized people simply tend not to answer long questions. For those who want to take a look at the original question: ...
A. 20 March 2011: Crap, I voted your answer to be removed accidentally. Cant do it back, so I hope nothing happens... (read in full...)
Got addicted to on-line interaction and want to stop
Q. I am going to ask again a question I posted yesterday but I am going to summarize things because I have realized people simply tend not to answer long questions. For those who want to take a look at the original question: ...
A. 20 March 2011: OK thanks for the help. Luckily I do have a good social life, and it's not that hard for me to talk to the girls, and I am quite positive in life, I feel much better now! Thanks man! I've seen your answers to many questions, they are very good!... (read in full...)
Troubled Phonecalls..
Q. Almsot every time me and my boyfriend talk on the phone he ends up mad and i end up sad. How can we fix this? THank you....
A. 20 March 2011: I would love to help you, but do you think we have any idea of you or your boyfriend? Please develop that question much more... (read in full...)
How do I feel significant in life when everything seems so planned-out and predictable?
Q. I'm 14 years old, and i have absolutely no idea what i am here for. We're born, we live, we die. But what about after? I don't wont to be a speck of dust in the world. I want a legacy, a reason. Life seems so pre-made. It's tailored. I will go to ...
A. 20 March 2011: Life is much more than that. You are too young to understand. Childhood is just a grain of sand compared to your teenage years and adulthood. You are still too young, the point is not to be famous or be remembered by humanity because of something ... (read in full...)
I'm not attracted to my girlfriend's body. Should I leave her?
Q. Hi. I don't know what to do. Please read the whole question before cursing me and telling me what an idiot I am. You can do that after you've read the question. Well, I am not attracted to my girlfriend's body. We've been together for several mont...
A. 20 March 2011: Man, she is SLIGHTLY overweight, not even unhealthy!! I bet she's active, fun and all. I would totally date this girl, and I bet most men would. Leave her, because it seems you don't value her traits as much as some men would. Tell her how nice she ... (read in full...)
I love my girl but am scared of losing her if I admit to having kissed another girl while drunk
Q. Hi, really need some help, i have now been with my girlfriend for 6 months, i love her to pieces and think out relationship is absolutely amazing. However, i am at uni and she lives back home, during freshers weeks, while very drunk i kissed a few ...
A. 19 March 2011: It was only one month into the relationship when that happened, but I hope it was just pecks and not much more. Otherwise the guilt will eventually eat you out and you might have to confess. Why does she keep questioning you SO much?... (read in full...)
Got addicted to on-line interaction and want to stop
Q. I am going to ask again a question I posted yesterday but I am going to summarize things because I have realized people simply tend not to answer long questions. For those who want to take a look at the original question: ...
A. 19 March 2011: Yes, I go out often to relieve stress even if it's just to ride my bike with a friend that lives nearby and exercise. Moreover I am starting university in just a few days, and even though I am taking up electronics engineering (not many girls :P) ... (read in full...)
Got addicted to on-line interaction and want to stop
Q. I am going to ask again a question I posted yesterday but I am going to summarize things because I have realized people simply tend not to answer long questions. For those who want to take a look at the original question: ...
A. 19 March 2011: I bet I should delete all the chat logs, pictures, old emails, online accounts related to all this and stuff like that? What do you suggest I do besides this?... (read in full...)
Should or can I ever trust her again? she's had a more colorful past than I knew.
Q. i'm 34 and she's 21. We're married for 15 months. we're fated, have everything in common. however, a few weeks back i asked her which friend she talks to most about stuff. she said no one really, and certainly would never spill details abou...
A. 19 March 2011: SUPER RED FLAG!!! This woman definitely sounds like a player, a nymphomaniac. You married this woman? If a girl cheated on someone for me, I would not date her. My male friend had a girl cheat on someone with him, and now they are dating. I warned... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a fake msn account, I can't help but wonder if he uses it on chatsites...
Q. I found a hotmail account on my boyfriend's computer as a 14 year old girl, and he had contacts on MSN. When asked, he said it was to wind up a male colleague, but the contacts on MSN were a girl (not sure of age, but her posts lead me to think she ...
A. 19 March 2011: I agree with the other people that answered. This man sounds dangerous to all these poor little women (and not so little) that he talks to. I think you have enough evidence to tell the police to investiage a little, but make sure your personal ... (read in full...)
To date or not to date my online boyfriend...
Q. I was online dating and I met this hot guy. We've been dating for a month now. We are, like, best friends. We share everything, he knows my secrets and I know his. He comforts me when I'm sad and vice versa. We help each other with our homework. We ...
A. 19 March 2011: Best friends? No, he is a pen pal at most. You trust him with your secrets because there is no way he can spread them with those you know, not because he is special in any way. Close to him? No, physically he is on the other side of the world, an... (read in full...)
What do you do when your boyfriends Mum hates you?
Q. Hey. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and I love him with all my heart. I took a warming to his Mum too. She was lovely and we got on. However, she's always been close with my boyfriends ex girlfriend. They've always been good mates a...
A. 19 March 2011: Why would you walk away like that? You love your boyfriend, and you have no problem with him. Why don't you ask your boyfriend to deal with his mother? Tell him what you told us, and tell him that he should tell her mother that he absolutely does ... (read in full...)
This is gonna sound bad but I want to cheat on my girlfriend..
Q. Hey everyone This is gonna sound bad but I want to cheat on my girlfriend Now before people start getting up on there high horses and accuse me of being a troll and an ass and so on hear me out... About 6 months ago my gf cheated on me an...
A. 19 March 2011: No cheating, no breaks, no time apart, no giving each other some space. Just break up. I mostly agree with chigirl.... (read in full...)
I want to drink less!
Q. Anyone's help would be great.... basically I really want to change my ways! I'm eighteen and I don't want to drink anymore at least not for a long time. I know i don't have a drinking problem, but i do notice that when i go out i do lots of shots or ...
A. 19 March 2011: ". I know it sounds stupid, but when i'm drunk i feel more sociable and enjoy myself more than if i was sober like any other drunk person, which in fact doesn't make me feel good when i think about it. " Thats not stupid, it is why 99% of teena... (read in full...)
Does needing space mean learning to live without me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have written on here before, and its always over the same thing. My turbulant relationship with my boyfriend. When we are together we have the most amazing time, we are so so happy. He is always telling me how much he loves me...
A. 19 March 2011: Okay, let me tell you first, that if you ever plan to live together, you will have to be included in his family circle. In your case that looks distant, almost impossible: why does everyone in his family not like you? Why doesn't he make this ... (read in full...)
Do I have to mistreat people in order for them to stop treating me like crap?
Q. I'm at uni and i've been hanging around this group of black boys. I'm black myself and i live with all white people. Out of 6 i get on well with 2 who are nerds and they're good decent people. The others are jocks and we don't really hang out with ...
A. 19 March 2011: You dont have to mistreat those who mistreat you. You have to ignore them, and dont do anything for them. Only focus in developing friendships with those who are nice, instead of focusing on doing harm to those who are immature... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to travel to him! What do I do?
Q. Dear Aunts, I have been dwelling with this thoughts of me for a couple months now. It is about my boyfriend whom I met online 15 months ago. He used to tell me about coming here to be with me and then after a few months he stopped doing that in...
A. 19 March 2011: I've read many cases like this. He is the male, he has to visit. No more questions asked. If he changed his mind, that's a huge red flag. If he gets mad because you cannot visit him, then break up. I have had online relationships and they don't ... (read in full...)
How can I choose between two guys?
Q. [Mod Note: 2 questions from the same poster combined] hey, so im completely confused on what to do, I have a boyfriend whos 2 years older than me, (we've been going out for about 2 weeks now) and I really like him, and we have loads of things in comm...
A. 19 March 2011: Drop the player, you know you will like the other guy much better in the long run. You say you are happy with your current boyfriend but A) you could be happier with someone else and B) I am not sure you are that happy for real. You have liked the ... (read in full...)
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