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Part of me wonders if he is hoping for a reconciliation?
Q. My boyfriend's ex fiance was a photographer. They broke up over two years ago, after being together for seven years. Now, we have only been together a few months, but I gradually came to the realization that he still has some of her pieces hanging ...
A. 8 April 2011: We are glad to have helped and we're happy to see you could solve this :) thank for letting us know... (read in full...)
How can I choose between two guys?
Q. [Mod Note: 2 questions from the same poster combined] hey, so im completely confused on what to do, I have a boyfriend whos 2 years older than me, (we've been going out for about 2 weeks now) and I really like him, and we have loads of things in comm...
A. 19 March 2011: Drop the player, you know you will like the other guy much better in the long run. You say you are happy with your current boyfriend but A) you could be happier with someone else and B) I am not sure you are that happy for real. You have liked the ... (read in full...)
Guys Only: Answer these questions and be completely honest!!
Q. Guys be as honest as you like!!! I'm really curious as i hear many of my friends and random girls ask this. And yes they are all female related Q's haha! 1) What do you think of the girl who wears jeans on a night out, to the girl who wears a ...
A. 19 March 2011: 1) I like it better when girls wear skirts. But some girls look better in jeans. 2) Actually that's fine! I would like that. 3) Just interested in that? Of course not. But if I like a girl so much that I want her to be my girlfriend, yes. I ... (read in full...)
Am I bipolar?
Q. Is this bipolar disorder or what? My mood swings have been all over the place since i was young... but i'm not sure if that is hormones or an actual disorder. For example, i'll be really happy and hyper and then next minute boom! I'm depressed fo...
A. 19 March 2011: Only a psychologist will be able to tell. Why don't you pay one a visit? S/he could help.... (read in full...)
What is precum?
Q. I have heard the word many times. I am from Argentina, so English is not my first language but you probably won't be able to notice because I'm good at it. Still, there are some words I don't know. What the heck is precum? What does it look lik...
A. 19 March 2011: Thanks for the answers guys!... (read in full...)
I have been trying to squirt and it just wont happen
Q. I have been trying to squirt and it just wont happen. My husband hits my gspot and I feel like I have to pee but when I try to let it go I cant! I push it out like if im peeing and nothing comes out. Im frustrated because I want to experience that ...
A. 19 March 2011: Squirting is a myth. It most likely does not exist. It is only on porn videos. Yeah, it looks cool, but it is NOT real. Now, DoubleM could be right. A very FEW girls MAYBE squirt, or so I have read. But the existance of squirting is related to po... (read in full...)
I'm starting to like girlfriends friend...what do I do?
Q. just to get this straight, my girlfriend is an awesome person, shes lovely and sweet. I love her. my problem is, Im friends with my girlfriends friends. I talk to one in particular. lets call her M. so, I actually liked M at the beginng of the y...
A. 19 March 2011: Well, definitely she is not being a very good friend to your girlfriend! Man, you have a loving girlfriend. You are her friend, think twice: you just liked what she said to you. She wants you to break up with you current girlfriend, and she ... (read in full...)
Do you think I scared him into NOT liking me anymore?
Q. Okay this is gonna be long so brace yourself. There is this guy that I have a crush on. Sometimes I think he likes me and sometimes I'm not so sure. He is the brother of one of my friends on my soccer team. He is also my soccer coach’s son. At the e...
A. 19 March 2011: Im sorry no one answered. I wonder if you are still around. Anyway, I believe you have moved on over 1 and a half years later. Good luck!... (read in full...)
I dealt with my insecurity by wearing coloured contact lenses -- does that present a false image?
Q. This sounds stupid but i really want as many opinions on this as i can get. So here's the story, i'm attractive and i mean that in a non snobbish way! But yet ever since i started clubbing i've worn coloured contacts every time (very natural lo...
A. 18 March 2011: I wear contacts instead of glasses sometimes to feel more confident, and trust me, I do not think I am creating a false image of myself... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to see my first boyfriend again because I cheated on him.
Q. My first boyfriend treated me the greatest. I was not sexually attracted to him tho, and when he tried to do stuff when I wasn't into it I felt horrible and guilty. I tried to break up with him a couple times, but when I was leaving the room he ...
A. 18 March 2011: I think he has moved on already. Dont go back to him and hurt him more than you already have. I hope u dont feel any pride out of what you did. Do him a little favour, and dont contact him again as he probably tried very hard to forget u...
I am ... (read in full...)
Online date: Confused about initial interest and the waiting game...
Q. I was recently on a popular online dating website. I had intended on leaving upon the expiration of my membership. Four days before expiration the customer service of the website contacted me to tell my that a past match wants to re-open ...
A. 18 March 2011: Check if she is still active on her wall. If she does not show activity, do not worry, the problem is not about you. If she is active, I think you should say "hello?" in her wall. dont poke her, i think its better if ur comment is public.... (read in full...)
Me and my ldr feel like were drifting after first meet. Should I be worried?
Q. About 4 days ago I asked for some advice on here regarding my first meet with my ldr. I don't really want to explain the whole story again but for those who want to know here is the link http://www.dea...
A. 18 March 2011: Man, I read your question when you posted it, your first one. i neevr put an answer to that one, but now I feel I should answer this time. Let me start with the fact that she said you were a bit overweight. Well on pictures sometimes you ca... (read in full...)
Please help me keep this petition going & save thousands of lives!
Q. HEY!! i know this is not a question on relationships.. i just need all the help i can get at the minute! And as you've been so helpful to me and my relationships in the past, i wondered if you could help me with this! i understand if it gets ...
A. 17 March 2011: clicked the link, i will sign and do my best man... (read in full...)
Do I keep the box of momentos from my son's bio father's funeral, or get rid of it because it will hurt my fiance?
Q. I was going through my son's closet today and I found a box that has mementos from my son's biological father's funeral in it, we will call him "Cord" I don't know if I should show it to my fiance, we will call him "Michael" or if I should just hi...
A. 17 March 2011: If I were your son and found out you threw that away, I would get mad, very mad. Do not hide it from your fiance, he has to understand that this box is special to you and your son. If he doesn't understand, then he won't understand other things as ... (read in full...)
Should I wait or pursue her?
Q. So I'm in quite a predicament at the moment. My love life, while not the most exciting, is pretty stable. My last relationship lasted over a year. I don't date too often, but when I do, it's usually long lasting a serious. I've liked a girl for...
A. 16 March 2011: Just dont give her tooo much time. As I said before, do not let the chance slip... (read in full...)
Part of me wonders if he is hoping for a reconciliation?
Q. My boyfriend's ex fiance was a photographer. They broke up over two years ago, after being together for seven years. Now, we have only been together a few months, but I gradually came to the realization that he still has some of her pieces hanging ...
A. 14 March 2011: He probably is still not over her 100%. They were together for 7 years, that is a lot, so he will never forget her even 50 years in the future. You can bring up the question of why he still keeps this picture of her and you might suggest that he ... (read in full...)
Should I wait or pursue her?
Q. So I'm in quite a predicament at the moment. My love life, while not the most exciting, is pretty stable. My last relationship lasted over a year. I don't date too often, but when I do, it's usually long lasting a serious. I've liked a girl for...
A. 12 March 2011: If she did not respond, you mean she acted like she ignored what you said?
Good luck and tell us how it all goes... (read in full...)
Can someone please explain long term, online relationships to me, I just don't get it???
Q. Hi, I am fairly new to this site but am really enjoying sharing my years of experience and advise with others. And I see a lot of questions here from the readers asking various questions about how they should handle a problem(s) in their relation...
A. 10 March 2011: GeeGee, nice conclusion! I am looking forward to seeing an article about it. Ive been in this kind of stuff before... thats why i am here, because i believed my online girlfriend and mailed her a letter, only to see she was cheating on me while she ... (read in full...)
Should I disobey my parents and date this guy? Also, how do I handle comments from my friends about this guy? Please help!
Q. I really like this guy, but for starters, I am forbidden to date in high school and I have gotten so caught up in what everyone else has said or will say about us dating. I think this relationship could really go places, but I am concerned what ...
A. 10 March 2011: I would like to add a little myself after having read the replies by Odds and the annonymous guy/girl.
Basically, thinking twice about it, you should make this balance in between your parents and this guy. Do not stop any contact with him, be ... (read in full...)
I wasn't ready for a relationship after our first date, but now I am ready. Should I give up or still try to win her trust and love?
Q. Hello, I asked a girl out about a year ago. She accepted and we started out well. I didn't take the date seriously because I was actually not ready for a relationship at that time. The reason is that it was my first date and it was distracting me ...
A. 10 March 2011: Move on. you said she was not nice and you were not serious about it. She has probably lost all interest on you, so you should move on... (read in full...)
My married lover's wife found out about me, so I went over to their house and confronted him. I told her everything, and now he won't speak with me!
Q. Hiya, I'm Sharon, I'm 41 and broken hearted. I was seeing a married man that I've known since school days. He texted me and called me for years. Then last year it became intimate. He is a lorry driver and I'm a door step collector. Our jobs have ...
A. 10 March 2011: You might feel bad, BUT I bet he feels TERRIBLY bad. You still have your daughters, but what does he have? His whole family turned against him.
I agree wtih C Grant but I would like to add a little to make you feel better.
For you, meet new pe... (read in full...)
When would you consider a girl "clingy"? And how often is "too often" to contact your boyfriend?
Q. In a relationship, when would you consider a girl "clingy"? And how often is "too often" to contact your boyfriend? I'm not looking for extreme examples, but how much space do guys usually need? I really don't want to be considered the clingy ...
A. 10 March 2011: I agree with Odds to tell the truth. Depends on whether the man is used to it or not.
Moreover, people who are not used to too much affection, might be more clingy than usual... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 4 years told me he kissed a girl on New Years. Now she says she is pregnant and it was from that night! I need advice!
Q. Hi, I'm 18 years old and have been in a relationship for the past four years. Recently, my boyfriend told me that on New Year's night of this year he was really drunk and kissed another girl. I asked him if anything else happened and he said, "no ...
A. 9 March 2011: He is not the right guy for you. I know it is hard after so many years but you should make the right decision. Move on.... (read in full...)
Should I disobey my parents and date this guy? Also, how do I handle comments from my friends about this guy? Please help!
Q. I really like this guy, but for starters, I am forbidden to date in high school and I have gotten so caught up in what everyone else has said or will say about us dating. I think this relationship could really go places, but I am concerned what ...
A. 9 March 2011: Oh girl, you like him! Date him! Ignore your friends, and you will be able to deal with your parents because you are almost 18. They will understand, and if they don't, what can they do to destroy the bond with your boyfriend? Ignore what others ... (read in full...)
When would you consider a girl "clingy"? And how often is "too often" to contact your boyfriend?
Q. In a relationship, when would you consider a girl "clingy"? And how often is "too often" to contact your boyfriend? I'm not looking for extreme examples, but how much space do guys usually need? I really don't want to be considered the clingy ...
A. 9 March 2011: I think it depends on the guy. Tell me how you are towards someone and i can tell if if thats clingy or not, in my opinion of course.... (read in full...)
Should I wait or pursue her?
Q. So I'm in quite a predicament at the moment. My love life, while not the most exciting, is pretty stable. My last relationship lasted over a year. I don't date too often, but when I do, it's usually long lasting a serious. I've liked a girl for...
A. 9 March 2011: Look, be a brave guy and dont let this opportunity slip before you regret it all your life! GO FOR IT. FLIRT WITH HER. MAKE HER YOURS MAN. Good luck! And if you do not succeed it doesnt necessarily mean you will not be friends with her anymore... (read in full...)
Should my morals get in the way of feelings?
Q. Basically, I have been talking to this boy for a few weeks now, he added me on a networking site after he seen me at a party. We have a lot of mutual friends and all of them have told me about him, all have said he is very nice and easy to get along ...
A. 9 March 2011: Give him a chance. As you said, he might just took them for a little "fun". Forgive him , not everyone is perfect. If we loves you he will never do drugs again, so make him love you :)
Good luck, I hope the best for u... (read in full...)
Should I wait or pursue her?
Q. So I'm in quite a predicament at the moment. My love life, while not the most exciting, is pretty stable. My last relationship lasted over a year. I don't date too often, but when I do, it's usually long lasting a serious. I've liked a girl for...
A. 9 March 2011: Man, this is kind of funny because it is the other end of "my online partner broke up with me because he physically found someone".
I have been in online relationships, 2 that I consider serious (they were not too long though) but a couple o... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend but boys in my area don't take any interest. what should I do ?
Q. I really want a boyfriend but ive tryed alot of stuff and i dont know what to do. Im 14 years old and ive been wanting a boyfriend for about two years now i know im young but i really want someone to call my own. The last boyfriend i had was ...
A. 9 March 2011: Your are still young. Think all you want about having mature, but youre young and will be for many years.
Changing your clothes, the way you act and look, will do nothing, as people will always like you for who you are.
Guys are too shy at y... (read in full...)
I have a perfect relationship since a young age, but friends have said I'm missing out..
Q. Ok i am now 19 and have been going out with my boyfriend for four and a half years. He is the only guy i have seriously been with and well, the only guy ive been with (vice versa). I have a tight knit group of friends and we have all been hanging ...
A. 9 March 2011: As aunt honesty said, you are not missing out on anything. What you have with your boyfriend is better than what you can have with any other guy. I hope you stay in your relationship and ignore what your friends say (maybe they are just jealous ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him out? Should I tell my friends about it?
Q. So, I like this guy (big surprise) and someone told me that he likes me too. I trust this person and know they're not lying. We are both really shy. That's one reason I don't want to ask him out. Also, my friends don't like him, at all. So here ...
A. 9 March 2011: Ask him out. Dont let your friends control the situation, I wish you good luck!... (read in full...)
Online dating: IMing for only a week and now she's telling me that we're twin souls! Advice?
Q. I met this girl through a dating site. We've been IMing for only a week and now she's telling me that we're twin souls, that I'm what she's been looking for all her life. She said fate brought us together. We've been exchanging fantasies about ...
A. 8 March 2011: Yeah, youre right.
Good luck in your date! ... (read in full...)
He got an erection from just cuddling?
Q. me and my boyfriend were snuggling on the sofa together, and he got an erection.. Whats with that?, We were just watching a film, not even kissing.. I don't understand why it happened.. ...
A. 8 March 2011: Guys don't just get erections with sex. They can get one just by looking at you :)... (read in full...)
This guy is a jerk and I am scared. What should I do?
Q. I've been dating a 11th grader since yesterday, and now he's been telling people he's going to have sex with me, like I'm a sex trophy to him. I never even had my first kiss and I'm a virgin the most i've ever done with a guy was hug, until he came...
A. 8 March 2011: Kittykat you sound like a nice woman with a caring brother. I am sure ypu will find a nice guy as you are so young. Good luck and cheers! Be Positive and remember many guys would like to be with you! Just keep looking for them... (read in full...)
I don't want him to be bored, I just don't want the complications that come with sex
Q. I have been dating this guy for a couple of months and as it usually happens in any relationship the subject of sex came up... I told him how I didn't think sex in high school was a good idea for many reasons pregnancy, not being really emotionally ...
A. 8 March 2011: Dont get into sex yet. If he loves you THE WAY YOU ARE, then he likes you the way you are now. He wont get bored. If he gets bored and asks for sex, he is inmature.
Are you sure you want to go sexual yet?
Hand jobs will lead to sex. So avoid th... (read in full...)
Online dating: IMing for only a week and now she's telling me that we're twin souls! Advice?
Q. I met this girl through a dating site. We've been IMing for only a week and now she's telling me that we're twin souls, that I'm what she's been looking for all her life. She said fate brought us together. We've been exchanging fantasies about ...
A. 8 March 2011: Look, I am going to answer this question very very precisely because I have just been out of a relationship that started like yours. Back in january i met a girl online on a teen site and we started talking. Lets call her Megan After a week, w... (read in full...)
Did he think I was desperate when our mutual friend gave him my number? And why did he accept the friend request on Facebook if he thinks that?
Q. Hi, I am 23. I met a guy (aged 24) on New Year’s Eve through mutual friends. He seemed really nice and we were getting on well. He was texting his ex at the time though so I didn't let it go any further than just friendly conversation. I found o...
A. 8 March 2011: i suggest you text him again and ask your mutual friend for some help to meet him again
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Should I never listen to anyone just to be with the one I love?
Q. Dear Aunts, I've been dating my boyfriend for 15 months. We met online and everything was great at first. We're so into each other. He lives a world apart so we don't meet on a regular basis. At first he thought about coming to visit me. I was ...
A. 7 March 2011: I cant agree any more with abella. She is completely right.
Just let me up something. He is pressuring you way too much. When he talks doesnt he focus too much on convincing you to go to his country?
It is easy to sound nice online, the right wo... (read in full...)
What are some things I can say while talking dirty to my guy?
Q. My guy wants me to talk dirty to him on IM, and I totally freeze up every time I try. I know it ticks him off that I can't follow through and I feel so guilty about it, but every time, I panic and my mind just goes blank. I think part of the problem ...
A. 7 March 2011: I agree with others. But let me add something. Just because you dont feel like doing that doesnt mean u dont love him nor that you wouldnt have anything sexual with him, so tell him tht to avoid putting him off
Be yourself. If i had to choose b... (read in full...)
I feel like she was expecting me to make a move and was surprised I didn't! I am new to dating again, and I need advice!
Q. I am looking for some dating advice. I met a girl online. We have had 2 good dates and the weekend was the third. We had a great night out and we ended up at her place. She said I could stay but no funny business, so I probably took that to ...
A. 7 March 2011: Im sure she meant no sex. As you said, she expected some kissing. You didnt mess up too much, just be more passionate in ur next day and things will be okay. Good luck man!!... (read in full...)
Did he think I was desperate when our mutual friend gave him my number? And why did he accept the friend request on Facebook if he thinks that?
Q. Hi, I am 23. I met a guy (aged 24) on New Year’s Eve through mutual friends. He seemed really nice and we were getting on well. He was texting his ex at the time though so I didn't let it go any further than just friendly conversation. I found o...
A. 7 March 2011: I believe you shouldnt have jumped into this too soon as this guy is likely still getting over his ex GF. I suggest you forget a little about him for now and ask your mutual friend for help in a couple weeeks. Im sure this man likes you but he finds ... (read in full...)
A thank you to everyone here who's helped me
Q. I've been on dearcupid for 6 years now. Over the years, I have asked many questions, and have given the best advice I could from expeirence. I'm recently engaged to the most wonderful man I could ever hope for, and find that I can talk to him about ...
A. 7 March 2011: As geegee said, its nice to hear that this site is so helpful for so many people... (read in full...)
A thank you to everyone here who's helped me
Q. I've been on dearcupid for 6 years now. Over the years, I have asked many questions, and have given the best advice I could from expeirence. I'm recently engaged to the most wonderful man I could ever hope for, and find that I can talk to him about ...
A. 7 March 2011: good luck!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
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