LDR or the guy who's nearer?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I have been going out with this guy for a month now. He lives on the other side of the country, and he is 2 years younger than me Lets call him D (also i have never meet him in person).Then theres M is a year older than me but same grade and he lives like 10 mins away from where i live. Soo D had to leave for a week and a half and once he got back he has been acting different and i think my feelings for M are coming back. D knows that I liked M before I meet him. Now i talked to M and he still likes me. I Don't want to break D heart thought but i am falling in love with M. Also D has said many times that if i wasn't with him he would have been dead by now, and that i am keeping him alive. I don't know what to do.SO i don't know what to do dump him and go for who i liked before or stay with D who lives far away?

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